Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Need to talk to someone?

More Filters

It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

KateDoskocilova
L Epitome 3 1600
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
  READ BIO BEFORE MESSAGING. due to my roles and personal life, I may not always accept chat requests Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners] I only take *teen* chats. If you are an adult member, please reach out to somebody else. In order to chat with me, please schedule a time with me to do so (at least 24hrs before appointed time). I am usually available on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the weekends from 9am-1pm ET. important to know that chat sessions with me last anywhere from 30-40 minutes. 🌺 Hi there! Welcome to my page :) I am Kate, a young woman from a city in the northern area of Greece. I am a high school student, studying in the humanities field and am working towards studying psychology or English philology in university. I initially joined this site to get support in regards to my at the time relationship, and decided to also join as a Listener, doing exactly what I plan on having as my profession in a few years from now: be there for people. My main role here is to be there for you no matter what you go through, no matter how big or small it is. And no matter how many roles I take on on this site, I will still be here for you. For that is my main goal, my biggest contribution to this community. 🥰 Some of my hobbies include: dancing, writing, reading books (romance, fantasy, mythology and non-fiction), filming videos as well as taking pictures. 🌺 I am only available for supportive conversations on the topics listed on my profile. For any other topic, please contact another listener. Thank you! 🌺 My contribution to this community goes beyond being a Listener. Here are some other roles I have taken up: Verified Listener. I have been verified by the community for my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. That means the community expects of me to maintain professional, kind, open-minded and understanding towards you at all times. Chat Supporter. I am considered a listener who has expertise in the role of a listener and is eligible to provide specialized support to listeners on 7cups in regards to their role/supportive chat. Peer Supporter. I am considered a listener who is capable of listening to fellow listeners after a difficult chat with a member and provide support and show empathy to them after this tough situation they were in. Global Moderator. I ensure a welcoming and safe space for everyone in the member community chat rooms. I am found quite often there, especially in the Teen Community Chatroom. Pass by and say hi! Doorkeeper. I can open and close community rooms. If you need a room opened or closed, you are welcome to contact me. Chatroom Mentor/Teen Chatroom Star. I help moderate the 7 Cups listener chatrooms and support the listeners, too. Community Mentor Leader for the Relationship Stress community. I overview the Relationship Stress community and forums. Are you interested in joining the team? Let me know! Safety Patrol Team Member. I flag profiles that go against the website guidelines. 🌺 My status usually indicates: Green: I am online and ready to take a chat. Orange: I am online but busy, which means my responses will be slower. Red: I am offline. You can leave me an offline message during that time. Expected response time is 24-48 hours after your message is sent. If you receive no response within that time range, feel free to send me a message again (I may sometimes forget to respond, so excuse me for that :P) Message me and let's schedule a chat! 🌺 My amazing twins: @Antonio7Cups @starryWillow9852
Read more...
CommunityModEllie
L Genius 6 436
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi! My name is Ellie and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
Read more...
CommunityModElliot
L Epitome 19 2386
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hello! My name is Elliot and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
Read more...
Kyoshi
L Exemplar 12 2921
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts  everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
Read more...
Suryansh
L Epitome 10 597
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
 I am presently not taking any new member chats. Feel free to search for other listeners from HERE [/BrowseListeners]. Thank You for understanding me. On-Break: I'm taking complete break from 7 Cups until May 28, 2024. During my break, for anything related to Chat Support and Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star projects, you can contact other Chatroom Leaders, namely, @hopedreamlove, @EmmaE or @ASilentObserver, and for anything related to Group Support Projects, feel free to contact @ASilentObserver. When I return, I'll resume my roles and responsibilities. Thank you for your understanding!  Hello Hello! Welcome to my profile page, thanks for visiting. I am Suryansh, or Surya, a young man from India. My time zone is IST (Indian Standard Time). My favourite subject is Physics. I really enjoy listening to music, watching series shows and tech movies, traveling, and getting to know our world and its history. I like coffee, and I am fond of writing and reading thoughts and quotes. After a few years, I aim to join the Indian Administrative Service, serve the nation, and continue listening and supporting people. I am a trained, verified listener here on 7 Cups. I like listening to people and supporting them with whatever they are going through. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. I cannot solve your problems, but I assure you that I will provide you with a safe listening ear and support you. Your feelings are absolutely valid, and I vow to you that I will never judge you. I would appreciate receiving ratings and reviews, as they help me improve, learn, and grow. I greatly believe in respect, patience, and kindness, which I will always embody in our conversation, and I would greatly appreciate it if I received the same attitude as mine back from the other person. I substantially care about you! I am available from Monday to Friday; weekends are days off from 7 Cups for me as I practice Self-Care on these days. We all deserve to have some me-time to care for ourselves. My general response time is within 2–3 days. If I am unavailable or offline, you are so welcome to leave me a message, and I will try to respond as soon as possible. I have some triggers that make me feel uncomfortable in chat. Please avoid sending one-word messages involving 'okay', 'k', 'huh', 'heh', ok', 'oh', 'ah' and 'hmm'. I would appreciate your understanding nature toward me. My Involvement in 7 Cups Group Support & Chatroom Ambassador  As a Group Support Ambassador, my focus area includes Group Support Leadership, Engagement and Quality Aspects of the rooms. As a Chatroom Ambassador, my focus area includes complete management of the Chat Support Team. I also assist with Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star applications & onboarding processes. Global Community Mentor As a Global Community Mentor, I moderate the forums and take steps towards building engagement in the sub-communities with various types of activities. I can edit, delete, or transfer any forum post/thread from any sub-community. Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member As a Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member, I take steps to keep the forums clean and free of toxicity. I am allowed to review flagged posts, approve, edit, or delete them, according to the community's forum guidelines. Listener Verifier As a Listener Verifier, I can conduct mock chats or grade forms, in order to verify listeners, based on their Active Listening skills.  Global Moderator As a Global Moderator, I have moderation (Mod) access in all the member group support rooms. I moderate the rooms to keep them a safe place for everyone and maintain a supportive environment in the rooms. Safety Patrol As a Safety Patrol, I flag inappropriate profiles on 7 Cups, to help maintain the community guidelines, and with the ultimate aim of maintaining a positive and appropriate environment in the community.  Chat Support As a Chat Supporter, I provide support to our listeners through ongoing chat. Peer Support As a Peer Supporter, I provide support to our listeners after a hard/difficult chat. Doorkeeper As a Doorkeeper, I can open or close any room on 7 Cups.  You are always welcome to drop me a message if you would like to get any information, want any room to be closed or opened, or just have a casual chat. I reassure you that you will be provided with a safe and non-judgmental environment to have a chat with me. Thank you for visiting my profile.  Congratulations! You have reached the end. I have a cup of coffee for you HERE [https://thumbs.gfycat.com/BonyDecentChameleon-max-1mb.gif]. Thank You :)
Read more...
EmmaE
L Genius 10 1885
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hello hello, welcome to my bio! My name is Emma and I’m a listener chatroom ambassador -------------------------------------------------   i’m really sorry, but unfortunately i’m unable to take new member chats! click here to find another listener! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] ------------------------------------------------- My main roles/focuses here: • Chatroom ambassador with a focus on listener discussions: I lead the adult and teen listener sharing circle, listener check-ins, listener learning discussions, and listener events teams! I also focus on teen chatroom star/mentor applications and the teen listener rooms. I’m a chat supporter and peer supporter as well, so I can offer listeners support both during and after ongoing chats • Community mentor leader and support team leader for the depression support subcommunity and the needs reply forums: I heavily focus on the depression support community and help make sure it's a safe and supportive place for everyone! I lead and support the community mentors, forum supporters, project agents, chatroom moderators, and room supporters on the depression team My pms are always open and I’d love to hear from you! If you need any help or have any questions regarding anything listener or community related, please feel free to reach out! I’d be more than happy to help :) ------------------------------------------------- Some of my other roles and teams I work with: • Global chatroom moderator • Global forum supporter • Listener verifier team • Forum flag team • Safety patrol • Doorkeeper ------------------------------------------------- A bit about me: • I love listening to music (feel free to pm me any song suggestions 😛) • I love chocolate • I love travelling • I have two dogs ------------------------------------------------- Things to remember: • You don't have to be perfect • Having a bad day is okay • Small steps are still progress • Asking for help demonstrates strength • Everyone's journey is different ------------------------------------------------- I’m always here for you and I care about you a lot, so feel free to message me whenever you'd like and i'll get back to you as soon as I can! The most beautiful people are those who have known defeat, suffering, struggle, loss and have found their way out of the depths. You are beautiful. You are strong. You will make it through this. ------------------------------------------------- I’m so happy you're here and took the time to read my bio! I appreciate and care about you very much 💗 you're doing a great job and I’m so proud of how far you've come! ------------------------------------------------- ⋆ ˚。⋆✿˚ no rain, no flowers. ˚✿⋆。˚ ⋆
Read more...
Rui00
L Intermediate 3 140
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTo Teens Last activein last week
Unfortunately due to school, long term members and other roles I'm not able to take new 1-1 chats. If I talked to you before, If I accepted your request or if you were refered to me this does not apply. Sorry for the bother 💙. ------------------------- ~Back From Break~ Hi my name is Rui and I'm here to listen and support you through whatever you are going through 💛. Topics  I take all topics but the ones I have most experience in are: * * -Anxiety; * -Panic Attacks; * -Relationship stress; * -Breakups; * -Cancer; * -OCD; My roles ✅ Verified Listener ✅ ✨ QLP Academy Mentor ✨ 🌿 Room Supporter 🌿 ☄️ Anonymous Evaluations ☄️ 🚩Safety Patrol and SPOT 🚩 ❤️ Chat Support ❤️ 💙 Peer Support 💙 🌺 AL Project Agent 🌺 🌍 Member of the Translation Project Team 🌍 ☀️ Chatroom Moderator ☀️ 🚪Doorkeeper 🚪 (If you need to open or close a room I'm just a message away) My hostings --- Want to make someones day 💙☀️? Find out how here: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Status: 🟢 I'm online and free (Response time usually 2-5 min). 🟡 I'm online but I'm busy. Feel free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. 🔴 I'm offline but fell free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can (Usually in 24 hours).
Read more...
kenzolena
L Guru 7 1216
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
🔴 Currently not fully active duo some personal reasons, I will do my best to respond in a timely manner <3 🔴 Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ♡ Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here today😊 I don’t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat that’s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogs 🐾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that I’m not able or comfortable talking about.  The topics that I’m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also don’t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. =-Roles-= 🌌 Peer Supporter!🌌 🌸 Listener chatroom supporter 🌸 🐞 room supporter! 🐞 🌟 Listener Verifier 🌟 Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! 🦕 Verified Listener 🦕 🚪Doorkeeper🚪 🐾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.🐾 Links you may find helpful ... Guidelines  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] Quotes <3  “No matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.” Green status: I’m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, I’m here for you and I’m an active listener. Orange status: I’m online but I’m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that I’m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. ✦ My response time is within 2 working days.
Read more...
brilliantTurtle89
L Pinnacle 6 2788
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I'm glad you have found me on 7 cups. I'm here to listen to you. Feel free to tell me anything you want. My roles on 7 Cups are: Peer Support Chatroom Mentor  Quality Mentor Leader Forum Mentor Group Support  Mentor  Group moderator Listener Coach Care Team Guide Chat Support ATL Verifiers Team Teen Transition Mentor Group Support Ambassador I have some amazing friends here. My listener twins are: Asilentobserver sweetmango3 IzzyMay They are fantastic💜  
Read more...
halcyonCloud2036
L Virtuoso 2915
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I'm here for you 🤗 My typical schedule (in EST) is: Monday: 9am-11am and 5pm-7pm Tuesday: 7pm-9pm Wednesday: 9am-11am Thursday: 1pm-3pm
Read more...
PoliteOcean
L Paragon 1 2134
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I CURRENTLY DO NOT TAKE CHATS AT THIS TIME. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL & AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE" [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   (My Pm's are always open if you have a question or are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~  Hi and welcome to 7cups! I’m PoliteOcean~ (But, You can call me "OCEAN")~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, & also Licensed in the Healthcare Field.  I’m also a Fitness Instructor with a passion for Dance & ZUMBA Fitness. I am here to listen, support and not judge. I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal experiences so perhaps I can help. If I'm away, please leave me a message. ⭐️LISTENING STRENGTHS⭐️ *Family Stress *Healthy Living  *Parenting ⭐️CURRENTLY ACTIVE ROLES⭐️ * COMMUNITY MENTOR LEADER * HEALTHY LIVING TEAM LEADER & SUPPORT ROOM MENTOR *ADULT CHATROOM MENTOR & CHAT SUPPORT  *FORUM MENTOR  *Group Moderator *Discussion Trainer *Verified Listening Team  *Door Keeper ⭐️👯‍♂️ MY LISTENING TWINS 👯‍♂️ ⭐️ @HopieRemi @Vivelespatates  @MusicalMagic (R.I.P.) 🙏🏼 
Read more...
CommunityModEver
L Pinnacle 14 572
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hello there! My name is Ever, and I am a Community Moderator. Unfortunately, I'm not available for 1-1 support chats.
Read more...