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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Timeless22
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Hi I'm glad you found me, my name is Kaiden. Mental health is very important and I believe everyone deserves a listening ear. I've learned so much by being able to speak to such a wide range of people on here. As a result I've been able to help people with many different things now. Eating disorders, self harm, paranoia, relationships, anxiety, depression, work issues, family issues, etc. So feel free to talk with me about anything, and I will promise to do my best to help you. Contact me or send me a message online or offline and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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River
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*** I am really sorry but I am giving up all my site roles as of November due to my health issues and personal life taking over. So I probably wont be responding to messages. *** When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.  -Harriet Beecher Stowe Hello everyone! *Waves* Its me, River. Welcome to my bio <3  For members:  I am here to listen about anything you want to talk about and be there for you. I might not be able to lessen your pain but I will try to share your pain and understand the situation you might be at the moment. I am also totally okay to talk randomly if you are feeling alone and ask icebreaker questions to eachother. I am usually good at chat related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, BPD, forgiveness, grief, trauma and abuse. I. however am not taking sexual chats, sorry about it! <3  For Listeners: I have been around 7cups from more than 2 years, so if you need any help about anything related to 7cups, please dont hesitate to leave a pm. My involvement in 7cups:  Forum Mentor Leader: I work on logistic and organization side of forum team and help with trainings and onboarding of forum team members. I am around if you ever have any questions regarding forums and leadership positions related to it in general. Forum Mentor: I am a global forum mentor <3  Global group mod: I help in group rooms to keep them safe place for everyone. <3  My special twins:  @Love8890 (She is mah soul sistah <3 We also confuse people all around due to same pfp hahahaha! I love ya Sel sel <3 ) @HeyItsRoo (Caught chu :p I miss catchiing youu <3 ) *passes out cookies for reaching till the end of mah bio*  
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PolarCat
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Hi there, I am married and have two kids.  I have personal experience with depression, anxiety, and parenting a child with autism.  However, I am comfortable discussing a wide range of topics so feel free to leave me a message and we can schedule a time to chat.    I am LGBTQ+ friendly.   My chats:   I do scheduled chats for 45 minutes with the option for a 15 minute follow up chat at a later date, if necessary.  However, at this time I am not taking repeat/long term chats.  If you require a long term listener then I can help you to find one who is able to work with you.   Also, I prefer not to take chats on Eating Disorders or medical issues.   Please note:  I get many PMs every day so sometimes it takes me a couple days to reply.  Thanks for your patience. My status:   Online:  I am online and available to take a chat. Busy:  I am busy with chats or projects on the site.  You can leave me a message and I will respond when I can.  I may or may not respond before I log off. Offline:  I am not presently online or I am busy with projects/chats.  You can leave a message and I will get back to you at my earliest convenience. My roles here: Quality Ambassador | Verified Listener Team | Grading & Feedback for Active Listening training | Peer Support    
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endearingLion70
L Virtuoso 6 2010
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Hello I am glad to be a 7 cups listener. I am interested in nature, animals, books. And have expertise in learning disabilities and creative writing as a healing tool. And if you just want to talk about yourself and the world, I would be glad to join a conversation. I believe that - It takes the same amount of energy to think a positive thought as it takes to think a negative thought. Choose the Positive,  
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HavenonEarth
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Welcome to 7 Cups! Remember that you are brave for being receptive to help; as well as acknowledging that you can't figure everything out on your own. It is strong because it requires you to be honest with yourself, others and tends to make one more vulnerable. 🌙 That's okay, because we're not all confident and skilled at absolutely everything - that's just one of the many aspects of living as a fellow human being. 😊 My roles on 7Cups include the following: 🍵 Academy Intern Graduate - Student Track 🍵 Community Building Graduate 🍵 Room Supporter - Newbie Hub, Positivity & Gratitude (formerly) 🍵 Verified Listener I apologise for not having a consistent schedule as of yet. If and when at any point I do, I will update my schedule to reflect this change. Please also keep an eye on the coloured circle next to my profile picture. The statuses indicate the following: Green - I am online, available for a live chat and I can respond to you almost immediately. Orange - I am online, available for a chat, but am busy with other live chats or projects, therefore, my replies will be delayed. Red - I am offline, unavailable for a chat of any kind, therefore, my replies will be significantly delayed. However, feel free to send me an offline message anytime and I will get back to you as soon as I am available again. 😌 I am also open to have casual chats, if you ever would like to have one, I am okay with it. Please keep in mind that my priority is talking to people who desire immediate support first and foremost though, so I may take a bit longer to respond in casual conversations. I am also fine with accepting any personal requests to chat privately. 🌻 Thank you for your understanding and I hope you have a good day or evening. ⭐️ I pray that you can locate your true haven on Earth. 🌏
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happysunflower23
L Maven 11 1473
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tuffattack
L Advanced 8 312
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Hi, I'm Tuff! I am here for you to listen to what you need to talk about, whatever that might be :) Big or small, or just a fun chat. I am proud of you for reaching out for help.  My Amazing listener twin is @Violetnotes  My Previous Roles ✔️ Listener Chatroom Supporter  ✔️ Anonymous Evaluations Team ✔️ Listener Verifier ✔️ Verified Listener ✔️ Peer Support My Status Meaning  💚 Green - I am online, and you can message me! 💚 🧡 Orange - I am currently busy, and I am not accepting any new requests 🧡 ❤️ Red - I am offline, however you can message me! I will respond within 24 hours ❤️ Experience I have struggled with my own mental health problems through out my life. This include depression, anxiety, personality disorders, substance issues, eating disorders, etc. For most of the chats I accept, I may know a little bit more than you might think (: In my life time, I have also been in mental health treatment, which includes a residential treatment center for 9 1/2 months. I am pretty open about my time in treatment, so feel free to ask any questions you might have. Chats I do not take For personal reasons, I do not take LGBTQ+, dating/relationship issues, and sexual health related chats. Thank you for understanding About Me I’m a pole vaulter and I’m currently vaulting 12 feet! I’m obsessed with the pbs kids show, Arthur. It’s been my biggest interest since I was a little kid My dream job is forensic psychology.  I really enjoy art and poetry. Currently I mainly do water color and free verse poetry.  My personality typing is INFJ IN(F) IEI 5w4 469 so/sp EVLF /R/[L]oai melancholic [dominant] Quotes "Destiny is a gift. Some go their entire lives, living existences of quiet desperation, never learning  the truth that what feels as though a burden pushing down upon their shoulders is really a sense of purpose that lifts us the greater heights. Never forget that fear is but the precursor to valor, that to strive and triumph in the face of fear is what it means to be a hero. Don't think. Become." “What which we manifest is before us: we are the creators of our own destiny. Be it through intention or ignorance, our success and our failures have been used brought upon us by none other than ourselves” You deserve to be listened to and heard  -Tuff #HopeForHappyfeet Thank you for being in my life 
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Aayla
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Hi! I'm here because I believe everyone matters, and everyone deserves to be listened and supported. So if you need to talk, I'm here! 
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ShadowFaerie
L Marvel 8 5842
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 24 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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Kristynsmama
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Note:  I am currently not accepting personal requests for chats from new members. *:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚Hello!!*:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚ Welcome to ✨Kristynsmama's✨ Profile Page!!  ✨I am a verified listener here on 7 cups!✨  ✨I am so glad that you have stopped by!!✨ ✨I am in CST.✨ ✨I currently am not able to accept personal requests. ✨ ✨Fun Facts✨ ✨I live on a farm.✨ ✨I love animals✨ ✨I have 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, 6 barn cats, 2 horses, 4 chickens, 2 saltwater fish tanks, 2 fresh water fishtanks, 1 donkey, 1 llama, and a partridge in a pear tree.✨ ✨I can turn any conversation into a conversation about dogs✨ 🌻I grow all of my own fruits and vegetables and they are all organic.🌻 🌻I may grow fruits and veggies, but I still believe that Chocolate should be it’s own food group🌻 ✨My favorite colors are blue and purple.✨ ✨I have an alarmingly large collection of keychains from around the world.✨  ✨My hobbies include horseback riding and jumping.  And I used to be a barrel racer.  I also enjoy painting although I’m not great at it.  And I’m an avid cyclist.  In my spare time, I enjoy riding a motorcycle. ✨I have a chronic autoimmune disease that sometimes makes my energy plummet.  I usually update my profile at the top of my profile if I’m going to be taking a self care day. ✨If you really knew me, you would know that my passion in life is to support other people through challenges that I myself have been through.  I have lived experience in grief and loss, eating disorders, addiction, depression, anxiety, and much more.✨ My current leadership roles include: ✨Approved Adult-Teen listener ✨Chatroom Mentor ✨Teen Chatroom Mentor ✨Community Mentor Leader: grief & loss ✨Forum Supporter:  Self Injury ✨Community Mentor ✨Quality Mentor ✨Academy Mentor:  LDP ✨Safety Patrol ✨Anonymous Evaluations Team ✨Academy Outreach Project Agent ✨Anonymous Evaluations Project Agent ✨Quality Mentor Project Agent ✨Communities Leadership Project Agent ✨Peer support ✨Chat support ✨Teen Chat Support ✨Chatroom Moderator (Newbie Hub) ✨Listener Discussion Leader ✨Doorkeeper ✨Kindness Crusader nominator ✨I have completed the following courses:✨ ✨Leadership Development graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Internship Graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 01/24 ✨Inner Development Goals Program Graduate 12/2023 ✨Community Builder Course Graduate 12/2023 ✨The Listener chats that I currently host are: ✨Listener check in Mondays at 9 pm EST in the LCR ✨Listener Sharing Circle:  once a month.  I will post the date and time on my bio here on the 1st of each month. ✨Grief & Loss Group Support Chat  adults:  2nd and last Wed of each month 9-11 pm EST in Support Session Adult Room ✨teens:  1st and 3rd Wed of each month from 9-10 pm EST in the Support Session for Teens Chatroom. ✨Ask Me Anything (AMA)  next one will be Tuesday, May 7th at 9 pm EST.  After that AMA’s will be the first Wed of each month at 9 pm EST. 💖If I don’t respond right away, Please find another listener here💖 💛What is 7 cups?💛 ⭐️It IS a place for you to come where you can share life’s challenges in a safe, confidential and supportive environment! ⭐️It IS a place for you to discover your own solutions to your problems with the help and guidance of a non judgmental person. 💛What 7 cups IS NOT💛 ⭐️It is not a place for crisis intervention.  If you are actively suicidal, please understand that I will not chat with you.  Instead, I will send you a list of resources.  You are welcome to reach out to me again once you are feeling better! ⭐️It is NOT a place to discuss sexual desires, fantasies, or role plays in any capacity.  I will not take sexual chats. 💛What is the role of a listener?💛 ⭐️A listener is NOT a therapist.   ⭐️They are simply volunteers who want to support you and guide you to discover your own solutions to your problems. ⭐️A listener should never give you advice! 💛My Chat guidelines💛 ✨ Please follow the community guidelines in any chat with me.  I will always do the same. ✨Please do not chat with me about sexual topics.  This includes pornography, fantasies, asking me to role play a fantasy, and asking intimate details about my own sex life or fantasies/desires. ✨All of my chats are about 60 minutes each and my time is valuable and limited.  I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available. ✨Please do not ask for my instagram, Facebook, email address, phone number, etc….  I will not give out any identifying information for your safety and for mine and because it is against community policy!  Equally I will not reveal where I live, my gender or my age.  If those things are that important to you, then it's probably best you find another listener. ✨ I follow a 3 warning system.  If you choose to disregard my boundaries, I will disconnect the chat on the third warning. 🛑 Chat Topics I DO NOT TAKE: 🛑 ✨Men’s Issues (sorry guys, I’m a lady and I just don’t have knowledge). ✨Sexual Health 🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Listener Twins ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Jenna Averyjr23 dreamicicle8467 Dancat1128 ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Kindness Twin: ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 AnnaSilverberg My amazing mentor is also AnnaSilverberg and credit for my adorable profile pic also goes to Anna!
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CaringEzra
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Hello Lovelies, My Name is Ezra and its so nice to meet you. Welcome to my chat, this is a safe and nonjudgmental place to share whatever is on your mind. I am so proud of you for taking the step to reach out and be here. That can be really hard some days. No matter what I am here for you. I know it may feel very lonely and that nobody understand, but we can get through this together. Reminder that: Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤ In case you have forgotten today:  You are beautiful, You are seen, You are loved, You are worthy, You are amazing, You are enough, You are irreplaceable, You are important, You are strong, You are capable, You are needed, You are wanted, You are enough
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trueconfidant123
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⚠️ON A SELF CARE BREAK⚠️ Learner, Explorer, Driven by Creative Instinct My Former Roles on 7 Cups Verified Listener Listener Room Supporter Peer Support Forum Supporter: Positivity & Gratitude Community Forum Supporter: 7 Cups Academy Forum Supporter: 7 Cups Internship Community Note: * * I do not take chats on/cannot assist you with Sexual Health Issues, LGBTQ+ Issues, Alcohol/Drug Abuse, Self-Harm, Suicidal Ideation, Crisis due to personal reasons or trigger. If you are someone looking forward to seek support under these categories, you may browse alternative listeners/check out crisis resources. * I am not comfortable with inappropriate, flirtatious texting and I am strictly against it. Kindly respect my boundaries as a listener. Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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