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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5333
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Due to the nature of my offline work, I do not take 1 on 1 Chats anymore. To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I have limited availability therefore I am not around for 1-1 chats. I support users in group chats and the forums. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. The only exception is chat referrals so If you have been specifically sent to me, feel free to PM me. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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SilverSeastar
L Master 8 824
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Hello! I'm Silver.    (⊃。•́‿•̀。)⊃━⭑・゚゚・*:༅。.。༅:*゚:*:✼✿  I'm here to listen to you with empathy and support you with compassion. 💙  I have struggled with BPD (borderline personality disorder), NPD (narcissistic personality disorder), panic attacks, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and family stress. These are the topics I'm comfortable with, but feel free to message me about other topics you'd like to talk about.  Status Icons  🟢 Online—I am active and available for live chats.  🟠 Busy—I am online, but my replies may be slow.  🔴 Offline—I am occupied or offline. Kindly expect that it might take a while for me to reply.  。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🍪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 My Current Roles Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] Adult-teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/] Academy Mentor (CDM) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/content/CDMAnnouncementsandUpdates_2194/CDMMentorRole_274485/] Forum Supporter (Content Volunteer Team) [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSehAkk72S0RWV1oQ5zShECQ6s-_fDYaxPE974iHorzqNRo1Ag/viewform] ------------------------- 7 Cups Academy Quality Listening Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyQualityListeningProgramLaunch_238010/] Content Development and Marketing Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/7CupsAcademyContentDevelopmentandMarketingCDMProgram_236685/] 7 Cups Internship Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/Jointhe7CupsInternshipProgram_238009/] Leadership Development Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/LeadershipDevelopmentCourseStartHere_2118/LeadershipDevelopmentProgramBecomealeader_288442/] Community Building Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/CommunityBuildingCourse_2308/CommunityBuildingCourse_291468/] Time Management Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyTimeManagementCourse_280718/] ------------------------- Previous Roles Forum Supporter (Personality Disorders Support) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/] On-spot Host (Listener Sharing Circle) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/LCDHostingOpportunitiesListenerSharingCircle_257571/] Project Agent (Listener Events Team) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ProjectAgentsWantedListenerChatroomTrack_264063/] Forum Team Member (Listener Learning & Journey) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/?rid=17140016] 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🦪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 (∩^o^)⊃━☆ My Listener Twinnies:  @horizon22 @BlueRiverCares @Mellifluous11 [https://www.7cups.com/@Mellifluous11] @jasishereforallofu; 💫 I miss you, @fallenAngel19 @LexIris @Goodhomespring. 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🐙 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。
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ShadowFaerie
L Marvel 6 5695
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups! I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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Tobias5
L Advanced 9 774
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Hey I'm newish (not anymore lol) to this site. I've got a lot of experience helping with substance abuse, self esteem issues and existential crisis. Emoticon superiority.
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Sibafo
L Paragon 4 1034
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
🥀Hi!I am Siba 😜 .Welcome to my profile, I'll like to listen to you, I am a  Verified listener .My hobbies are reading and writing.💖 You can write to me about all that's spiritual,nightmares and hallucinations but also other topics.🤔 I look forward to hearing from you😏.
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Joe7cups
L Pinnacle 1 7307
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hello! Welcome to 7 Cups of tea. My name is Joe. if you would like someone to listen to you, someone to talk to, or some company , feel free to contact me. I enjoy the company of others and i will try to help you the best i can. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
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nlpinspiration
L Scholar 8 863
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Emotional State is driving our behavior. I am supporting people to change their current emotional state which is causing negative feelings. Sometime a single discussion may create positive emotional change. I am  Verified and Trained Listener on 7 cups since 2015. I'm 48 year old father of two children. During my life, I had overcome motorbike accident when I was child, and experienced PTSD for long period in my life. I decided to help and support as many people as I can. I prefer serious deep chat, with members who really want to make change in their life. My focus during conversation is on member, his current awareness about situation and the CHANGE he/she want to experience in the life. My life philosophy is that the current life situation is a result of our thinking pattern, our believes and our current behavior. If we find a way to change our thinking pattern, which is mostly unconscious, we will change our whole world. With a big effort and a strong will I had experienced change in my life. I want to chat with you and guide you throw the process of solving problems related with anxious, depression, negative emotions. These are negative life conditions which can be overcame. Few years ago I was very anxious/depressed and put much effort to overcome that personal situation. Than I decided to give support and help to other persons who are in similar situation.
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BlueTurtle5
L Discoverer 3 292
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Currently limited in time/energy that I can dedicate to 7cups. Due to an intense peer support specialist training program combined with hot weather and health challenges I am only on here sporadically, with no set schedule. I will return messages as soon as I can but it may take up to a week.  She/Her. Open Minded.  I am a caring and patient person.  I  am homebound due to health issues which allows me time to be on the computer studying. I run a direct sales business online as a hobby. I typically am available approximately 12am-2am Pacific Time a few nights a week. Also available by appointment.  Please Note: I am not much help when it comes to relationship issues and I prefer NOT to talk about sexual desires/lust/masturbation. Please move onto another Listener if this is the topic you need to talk about. Due to a seizure condition, there are times I may disappear a short while unannounced, or have a decline in typing skills due to tremors. I am okay and still listening and here to support you, but may need a bit of patience in my time to respond. I am happy to help you find resources and tools. 
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MxSkeleton
L Master 10 1375
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IMPORTANT NOTICES: My bio, roles and other important information are located below. This section is just for recent developments and notices :) I am currently NOT taking new long term chats. Schedule: Want to schedule a chat with me? Click on this cute little face to use doodle to schedule a weekday chat with me! [https://doodle.com/poll/whp959ykhsyuhwhi]\(^▽^)/ [https://doodle.com/poll/whp959ykhsyuhwhi] My weekends are free. My Best Topics: Anxiety/Panic Attacks Depression LGBTQ+ Imposter Syndrome related feelings. Intimacy support* General Support no sex chats please, that's against the ToS and guidelines of 7cupsoftea.com* My Roles (〃・ω・〃) Verified Listener 7cups Supporter 7cups Welcoming Committee Safety Patrol Team Former Involvement: Appreciation Team Member Former Discussion Writer for the Anxiety Sub Community Former Anxiety Forum Supporter Positivity and Gratitude Anxiety Forum Supporter Former Social Soldiers Team Member Hey there, my name is MxSkeleton, but you may call me Skelly, Mx Skelly, Skele or just plain old Mx (Mx is pronounced like mix) I was formerly known as MissSkeleton, but that no longer best reflects my gender. I'm a Verified Listener that has been a part of this community for a few years. I have completed several bouts of training both on 7cups and have done suicide hotline training, (all crisis chats on 7Cups will be referred as per the terms and guidelines of 7Cups.com). I am still accepting short term member chats. I am non-binary, and my pronouns are they/them. I love travelling, photography, art, videogames, cyber security and aiding others. I also enjoy cooking. I speak Dutch comfortably though not perfectly, and English natively. Feel free to drop in and just say hello, talk about your day, I would enjoy your company very much. I am sending you all positive vibes and I hope you feel fantastic.  Li [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]stene [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]r [http://7cups.com/@Siavash] [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]Twin [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]
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InternalAcceptance
L Paragon 11 3659
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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DanielMotivating
L Specialist 1 730
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Buiness startup | Podcast | Personality Theory Enthusiest | LIE (ENTj) in Socionics **if unavailable I prefer to correspond on a message-to-message basis. My typical availabilities are some nights and weekends. Thank you.  
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kindheartedLily
L Connoisseur 2 726
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**I am unavailable to take on new member chat**  Please reach out to another listener if you need support by clicking here to browse listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. My response time may be slower on weekdays. I appreciate your patience and understanding 💙 Hi and welcome! I'm a trained active listener and am here to listen and offer support. As someone who has struggled with their own mental health, I understand the value of having someone to talk to during tough times. I use my education, along with my own lived experience, to support and guide others on their journey. I'm here to listen with zero judgment. You are not alone 💜  🔶 My roles on 7 Cups🔶 Lead Team Leader of the Listener Coaching Team Quality Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Coach Chat Support Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Verified Listeners Team  Team Lightship **This is a great tool to convert GMT to your time zone: https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/ [https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/] ------------------------- Status Green: This means I am online and available to start a conversation. Please don't hesitate to reach out and message me.   Orange: This means I'm online but am busy talking with other members and am unable to take more chats. You are more than welcome to send me a message and I will respond as soon as I can. Red: This means I'm offline. Please don't hesitate to message me and I will respond when I am back online. 
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