What's the most important green flag you look for in friendships now?
Heyyyyyaaa Fantastic Friends😊😉
It's said, "Friends make the bad times good and the good times unforgettable."
In early life, friendships were formed because of proximity and consistent interaction. As and when we grow older, the dynamics change. Have less but the best.
And that is when I thought, why not ask the youthful community here! 💖You are the most aware, awakened people and I really appreciate you all.
So, here's the question!
What's the most important green flag you look for in friendships now?
I'll go first, "Vibes! No matter whether they are new or old, comfort is priority. Where I don't need to perform but be. Where we can make fun of each other's mess, laugh on our stupidity and then be honest to tell what was wrong"
A real friend is the one who walks in when the world walks out. What's that one green flag for you?
When you realize you have that friend, just go, surprise them, text, call, send a gratitude message do whatever makes them feel good and then never ever let them go away.
And if you feel you don't have one, go out and make one, it's not that difficult, be the initiator. Let go off all fears and embarrassment. And remember, who are you searching for, one who aligns with your values, one who has a pure sacred character and one who loves not only when it's easy but when it's difficult.
Meanwhile, I would love to be your friend. You can always ping me up here! 😁💖
Regards,
Resilience (Resii)💕
Your Love Giving Forum Supporter
@resilience2025
Hi hi Love giving Resiiii, you’re one of a kind amazing and I’m sure you add a lot of value to anyone’s life that you consider a friend of yours. 🥰
I agree so much! Vibes and Comfort~ people with whom we just are ourselves and there’s no need to wear any of the masks to be seen a certain way!
As we grow older this truly becomes an important “green flag” hehe~ sense of comfort, people who value peace and are looking for that similar safe, welcoming space too to be their authentic self! 💖
I value these qualities in a person/ friend also and something else I’d like to mention is again the same reiteration on authentic people~ people who don’t pretend to be someone else. 🫂
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Awwwwww! 🥹You are always so so sweet and loving Sunshine❤️🌸You are gorgeously beautiful from within. And thank you so much for all the appreciation you shower on me, it's always so warming to hear good words from you.
And definitely, I agree with what you said. Friendships should be a warm welcoming space. And that point about authenticity, it's so right, where people don't pretend but just be as they are! 💕
Thank you for your valuable perspective 💖
I value mutual respect
@trueconfidant123
Definitely, mutual respect is key to any friendship💕
@resilience2025
I look for someone who doesn’t judge other people for small things like the outfit they wear and such. This tells me everything I need to know about what a friendship could look like with them.
@determinedIdea4542
Certainly, non-judgement in any matters and just being as we are, is what makes friendship seem safe and real💗
Thanks for the reminder