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50+ Weekend Check In December 22 - 24, 2023 Carry on this holiday season… ❤️

User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful December 22nd, 2023

50+ Community Beautiful Cupsers 💚♥️💚♥️💚

Never regret the way you rise above situations and act according to your values. Be proud of how you handle yourself. 

Peoples behavior says way more than their words. Grace during this holiday season gives you PEACE and can move forward without guilt. 

How do you ensure you have a peaceful holiday? 

What boundaries do you have in place to keep you in place where you protect your mental health? 


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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 22nd, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

UPDATED TAGLIST 12/17/2023

1st part

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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 22nd, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

nd Part Taglist

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 December 22nd, 2023

But I do regret it. One of the reasons is because it was wasted time & effort on my part. Everything I did amounted to days of my life I can never get back....it's also 💵💵 I'll never recoup, either.

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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 25th, 2023

@slowdecline48

So sorry you regret it. Proud of you. It shows who you are and how you did the direct thing. The rear view is small but the windshield bigger better in the future… hoping as you look forward you can move on…. Merry Christmas 🎄 

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soulsings December 22nd, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful  How do you ensure you have a peaceful holiday? 

i am going to wish everyone I meet or think about

"May you be happy!"

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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 25th, 2023

@soulsings

Greetings mean a lot to people being seen and it helps build community. Love it. 

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adventurousBranch3786 December 22nd, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful. My Christmas should be quiet and peaceful. My partner and I will eat Chinese food on Christmas Day. I also plan to attend a mindfulness discussion here.

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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 25th, 2023

@adventurousBranch3786

Quiet is good … same here. We are all sick this holiday with the flu but it’s ok quiet staying in I prefer it to the hustle bustle. Merry Christmas 🎄 

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WorkingitThrough2 December 22nd, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

How do you ensure you have a peaceful holiday? Control my atmosphere

What boundaries do you have in place to keep you in place where you protect your mental health? 

I have no boundaries but to ignore any offences and walk away

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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 25th, 2023

@WorkingitThrough2

Good plan to not let it get to you. Keep on keeping on… 

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 December 23rd, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

Oh, Lord, Grateful.  The light in my laptop is fading off and on and my hearing in my good ear is fading, too.  This is only part of what has been going wrong in my life that I need money for.  

How do you ensure you have a peaceful holiday?  I am staying away from people who have not been nice to me.

What boundaries do you have in place to keep you in place where you protect your mental health?  I plan to take care of chores, maybe one each day, while I am off work between the semesters.  (The school closes for two weeks--no pay.)


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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 25th, 2023

@purpleTree4652

Enjoy your holiday break. School is all consuming de stress and relax….take time to recharge. Merry Christmas. 🎄 

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat December 23rd, 2023

How do you ensure you have a peaceful holiday? 

If I do go to a family gathering, I try to stay outside of their conversations.  I can't get too involved, because they like to belittle me if I do start talking with them.  After dinner, I can put some phsical distance between us, as well, to feel more comfortable.

What boundaries do you have in place to keep you in place where you protect your mental health? 

Physical space and trying to fend off any verbal attacks



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WharfRat December 25th, 2023

@WharfRat

I meant physical distance there.  It was a typo.


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SunShineAlwaysGrateful OP December 25th, 2023

@WharfRat

So sorry hope it goes well. Great strategy though. You know your family best. Merry Christmas hope it goes better than expected. Ask questions people like talking about themselves… that is a strategy I use in groups. 

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