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50+ community Check-in February 8-11, 2021

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 February 8th, 2021

Hello everyone in the 50+ community, I hope you’re all doing well laugh

When you hurt sad

We all hurt at times because we are only human. You are not made up of steel that cannot break. You are not made up of concrete that can withstand the strongest of storms. You are made from flesh and blood, you have feelings and you are allowed to feel them, be angry, be sad, be frustrated or disappointed. You will get tired and you are allowed to take a break. It’s okay it's just not healthy to stay like this for a long time. When you are feeling sick with heartache, remind yourself of this.

And remember that you are beautiful, you are beautiful with all of your flaws and insecurities, even if you can’t see it now. heart

enlightened Today I like to ask everyone to post some things they like about themselves smiley

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat February 8th, 2021

Today I like to ask everyone to post some things they like about themselves

I'm open-minded. I'm forgiving. I'm loving and caring.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@WharfRat\

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@WharfRat

Those are 4 wonderful traits!

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User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack February 8th, 2021

What I like about myself is that I truly love my girlfriend.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@Offmytrack

Beautiful! I make a bet she likes that too! laugh

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User Profile: Nickie2442
Nickie2442 February 8th, 2021

I can be a good problem solver, can't solve everything but sometimes I come up with good things!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@Nickie2442

Being able to come up with some good things occasionally is great!

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User Profile: carelady
carelady February 8th, 2021

Enjoyed reading this lovely information. What a blessing. Thank you for sharing this

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@carelady

Thank you, happy to hear you enjoyed it smiley

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User Profile: barncat
barncat February 8th, 2021

I like the fact that I am curious and inquisitive about life- always want to learn about others- and add knowledge.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@barncat

Awesome barncat, I tend to say curiosity is the spice of life! laugh

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 February 8th, 2021

@amiablePeace77

1. I like that I have a close relationship with Chloe the cat.

2. I like that I am distancing myself more from people who hurt me. I am not going to let them hurt me if I can help it at all.

3. I like that I am respectful of others in Church.

4. I like that I believe in God.

That’s all I can think of right now.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@purpleTree4652

Those are truly good reasons to like about yourself!

Seems Chloe the cat has found their favorite person in you smiley

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User Profile: Goldcherry2113
Goldcherry2113 February 9th, 2021

I like that I am understanding and helpful!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@Goldcherry2113

I can only confirm that from what I see here on the site smiley, you're a very kind person.

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User Profile: scarletSugar3797
scarletSugar3797 February 10th, 2021

What I like about myself is that I always care about everything and everyone around me even the people that I don't know or never met. And also I always learn from my mistakes and correct them. Plus I love helping people around me. I also like about myself that I always try to listen to people and do my best to help them realize the real them. I always pray for every single person and that's what I like the most about me because even if I don't know these people that I am praying for, I always wish them the best in their lives and safety of course.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@scarletSugar3797

Awww, that's so lovely, so compassionate! Thanks for praying for everyone!

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User Profile: blueKitten5708
blueKitten5708 February 10th, 2021

I like that I’m artistic and often produce some amazing work (I like that I sometimes amaze myself even when I’m very critical of my own art) I like that I have an odd sense of humour. I’m definitely an acquired taste but I’m honest, open and loyal. I’m ok. I’d be friends with me.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@blueKitten5708

Odd humour can be the best humour! laugh I really like what you said about your relationship with yourself "I’d be friends with me" yes

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User Profile: blueKitten5708
blueKitten5708 February 15th, 2021

Thank you. Things have been pretty tough lately, my partner left after 2 years and said a lot of very hurtful things, so I’ve been doing some soul searching to try and see who I am at my very core. Turns out I quite like me really. My kids have been incredibly supportive and they keep reminding me daily that I did a good job of raising them, they both have screwball humour in them too. :)

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 17th, 2021

@blueKitten5708

Wish you would not have had such a hard breakup but it seems that at the end it brought something very valuable to your awareness, hugs. Glad you have such amazing kids to support you.

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User Profile: SAM1138
SAM1138 February 10th, 2021

I love without reservation, no matter what. My kids, my ex, and would do anything for them.

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User Profile: sincereFarm2814
sincereFarm2814 February 11th, 2021

I feel the same, but how did you get to a place where you love your ex and he’s still your ex? My ex wants me back so if I show him I still love him he thinks it’s a sign he can come back. I do love him but in the circumstances I can’t make a home and be a family with him as we used to be. I was with him since I was 17 and am now 53....been separated 4 years.

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP February 14th, 2021

@SAM1138

I can only imagine the endless love you spread around the people close to you!

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