50+ community Check-in February 8-11, 2021

Hello everyone in the 50+ community, I hope you’re all doing well 
When you hurt 
We all hurt at times because we are only human. You are not made up of steel that cannot break. You are not made up of concrete that can withstand the strongest of storms. You are made from flesh and blood, you have feelings and you are allowed to feel them, be angry, be sad, be frustrated or disappointed. You will get tired and you are allowed to take a break. It’s okay it's just not healthy to stay like this for a long time. When you are feeling sick with heartache, remind yourself of this.
And remember that you are beautiful, you are beautiful with all of your flaws and insecurities, even if you can’t see it now. 
Today I like to ask everyone to post some things they like about themselves 
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@amiablePeace77
1. I like that I have a close relationship with Chloe the cat.
2. I like that I am distancing myself more from people who hurt me. I am not going to let them hurt me if I can help it at all.
3. I like that I am respectful of others in Church.
4. I like that I believe in God.
That’s all I can think of right now.
What I like about myself is that I always care about everything and everyone around me even the people that I don't know or never met. And also I always learn from my mistakes and correct them. Plus I love helping people around me. I also like about myself that I always try to listen to people and do my best to help them realize the real them. I always pray for every single person and that's what I like the most about me because even if I don't know these people that I am praying for, I always wish them the best in their lives and safety of course.
I like that I’m artistic and often produce some amazing work (I like that I sometimes amaze myself even when I’m very critical of my own art) I like that I have an odd sense of humour. I’m definitely an acquired taste but I’m honest, open and loyal. I’m ok. I’d be friends with me.
@blueKitten5708
Odd humour can be the best humour!
I really like what you said about your relationship with yourself "I’d be friends with me" ![]()
Thank you. Things have been pretty tough lately, my partner left after 2 years and said a lot of very hurtful things, so I’ve been doing some soul searching to try and see who I am at my very core. Turns out I quite like me really. My kids have been incredibly supportive and they keep reminding me daily that I did a good job of raising them, they both have screwball humour in them too. :)
I love without reservation, no matter what. My kids, my ex, and would do anything for them.
I feel the same, but how did you get to a place where you love your ex and he’s still your ex? My ex wants me back so if I show him I still love him he thinks it’s a sign he can come back. I do love him but in the circumstances I can’t make a home and be a family with him as we used to be. I was with him since I was 17 and am now 53....been separated 4 years.