One situation that I feel sad about right now is....
my gender. i just can't figure it out and it really gets me down.
@ThatAnxiousAce
Oh boy I feel that.
Take your time to figure things out. There's no rush. I recommed going to trans forums or watching trans and nonbinary YouTubers, and seeing if you relate to any of their gender feelings. If anything it might make you feel less alone, I know it did for me.
It can be a long process of questioning and doubt but no matter what you end up at - cis, trans, nonbinary - you'll know a little more about yourself.
I'm nonbinary btw, and if you need to talk about gender thoughts just hmu. :)
@practicalTiger6475 thank you, i'd really like to talk to you, i just can't figure out how😂
@ThatAnxiousAce
Lmao if I figure out how to PM you I'll drop you a message 😂 I'm still new to this place haha
@ThatAnxiousAce
By the looks of things I'm not able to PM you as a member, but if I become a listener you should be able to drop me a message. I wanna help you out since I get how tough figuring out one's gender can be. :)
@FoxesInSpace @ThatAnxiousAce
Aw jeez I wish we could edit posts. Anyway yeah I have no idea how this listener thing works, it looks like a new account is needed or something. You could maybe make a new thread and tag me in it if you still wish to talk about this though?
@FoxesInSpace well, looks like it won't really work
@ThatAnxiousAce
Sorry about that mate. I hope you manage to figure things out. I recommend the Empty Closets forum too, they helped me a lot when I was questioning. Good luck!
@FoxesInSpace thank you!
That people will try to play the innocent card game ugh a so called friend I wasn't happy that I brought him in back in my life tbh dealing with him everyday but yesterday I broke the friendship off but what I'm sad he used that innocent card game saying I treated him bad and I didn't care for his feelings when it was mine I dealt with loss of my dad's all he wanted was me me me it was super annoying I thought I can give him a shot of being his friend but he's so selfish controlling and needy clingy he's liar he said he has stuff going it's always when I say I'm still dealing with my dad being gone I gotta work on myself he brings up I got issues going on too I swear people just lie to get what you want ugh DISGUSTING PEOPLE
I feel like all of these busy guys want me when they want me, but there is going to be a time when they think I'm free, but I'm not. Sigh. If you are too busy then seek a girlfriend.
The scary thing is I don't know why I feel sad!
Just hits me sometimes.
I hope I'll feel better in the morning!
I have a fever and I miss my daughter, and my ex is being bitchy about me calling her when she gets off of school so i`m sad
how a potentional relationship just ended
@adaptablehouse7827: I understand how you feel. Same here :(
I had crush today and I didn't walk to him... Because I'm too shy with my peers -_-
I don't have any friend or someone to talk to at college, and it takes away all my motivation. Sometimes I need help or orientation at something and there's so one I can talk to, which really makes things even harder. When I do ask for someone's help, they look at my like im some kind of alien or as if I'm not supposed to talk to them. Right now it feels hard to wake up in the morning, lose one hour of my day at the bus, just to get there and by the quiet girl once more
being ghosted by the person im still in love with even though we broke up over a year ago and recently started talking about getting back together. trying to not constantly text him and trying to relax is starting to upset me.
That I get really anxious over simple things like going to the bank, going to new fast food places or restaurants, even just going to hang out with friends. It's... Tiring. I'm fed up with it.
I also don't know if I want to change my name or not.
@practicalTiger6475 I feel you buddy. Completely. I'm sorry you have to go through it, but we'll make it
@AlexNeyv Thank you, it means a lot to know there are others who feel like this. Hang in there.
@practicalTiger6475 I resonate with this so much and you are not alone.. I hope you find ways to cope healthily, just know you are loved and important to this world.
