One situation that I feel sad about right now is....
My ex boyfriend is grieving and I don't know if and how I can support him. At the same time, I'm trying to move on.
@RoseBerg
That's a difficult situation. I think when we truly love someone, we always will even after breaking up and moving on. I've had to be supportive of others but maintain boundaries. Sometimes you can do that by clearly offering what you're willing to do but no more and sticking to it.
@Hoping4Harmony that's very helpful. Thank you.
My best friend (I'm REALLY close to her) is anorexic and I'm scared that she will kill herself because she always talk about this. And I don't know how to help her.
@patientSouth6779 we need to do a live chat this is big.
I'm vey jealous because of something that happened a few years ago and it changes my entire mood. I feel helpless to my own emotions.
My son has died at not even a month old.
@TransAm85 I am truly sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine how you feel. My daughter says I look sad, and I told her I am trying to write something to a woman who lost her baby. Do you know why he died?
@cyanPeach8500 Yes .. he was first premature at 8 mos, so he was in the hospital for almost 2 weeks b/c of his slow feeding. Then he finally came home and unfortunately my husband is a drinker after work .. The Friday after our son finally came home, my husband came home from work that night really intoxicated. I didn't want to argue so I let him feed the baby and hold him, but then I fell asleep. I fell into a deep sleep and woke up @ 5 am to my husband screaming. He had fed Jr, laid w/him on the bed next to me, and passed out. Jr must have rolled off his stomach and was suffocated between us. They labeled it unintentional positioned asphyxiation. I miss my baby a lot. I wish my husband would stop drinking but that's a different story.
@TransAm85 thank you for sharing, that is a true tragedy you have experienced. I co-slept with my daughter but it never involved deep sleep.
I know you know this, but to honor the memory of your son, please take your husbands condition seriously and avoid future pregnancies as long as he still drinks.
You sound like a strong woman and perhaps once the worst pain subdues with time passing, you will feel empowered to make positive changes in your life.
@cyanPeach8500 Thank u for your words :) I've only been getting sympathy and pity. You gave me your honest opinion.
@TransAm85 so sorry to hear
@kindredspirit84 Thanks
@TransAm85lets do a live chat
@TransAm85 I'm so sooo sorry to hear that. It must have been really hard for you. I hope you'll past throw it.
@TransAm85
@TransAm85
@TransAm85 I accidentally replied blankly twice. I was going to say, I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. I could not even begin to imagine how difficult and painful that must be for you. I wish you and your entire family the best and my deepest sympathy goes to all of you.
Being left out and ignored
That i have all the success coming to me except tgat I don't have my dear beloved beside me to share and cherish each moment with her
I completely failed at work today, my boss asked me to dimples one thing and I did the completely wrong thing. I forgot hugely as what i was required to do, and now I know I've screwed up big time. I hate myself right for this, I feel like a complete idiot :( I just wanted to do well and like my job, it's just not working out for me and I'm so scared. I'm a single mom and it's just scary
@amflowerchild
Making mistakes at work is so frustrating! I feel for you right now <3 It is okay to feel this way, but I hope you know that we all make mistakes as we are human. <3 I understand your worry about wanting to be good at and like your job because you're a single mom, so it's like you might feel like you need to be perfect at this job in order to support your family. You obviously care so much about your family and doing well, so this setback at work hurts. <3 Hugs to you, Flowerchild. I hope that you feel better soon.
I feel like the only person I felt myself with (other than family) is dead.
@Rebekahwriter13
Rebekah, that sounds very lonely and tough to experience, so I am sorry that you are feeling this way <3 I am glad that you are here. Sending you some hugs <3
I'm back to square one, I thought I was doing pretty well with getting over my ex-boyfriend but today I heard that one song that he sang to me and all I could do was think about that moment, I almost called him....😔😔😔
@scarletIdea5793 Sorry to hear. It's very nasty, You never KNOW when you're over it, or can really FEEL you're over it. It's my biggest struggle too. Waiting long enough to start a new relationship and then finding out I was not over the previous one completely.
And feeling like to call him is a nasty feeling. It give you the feeling you're gonna feel okay again because you'll get together again. But it's based on an future that's not true. So hard...
Succes with the break-up
@scarletIdea5793
I've been there. I'm trying to get over guys. I think I'm taking time for myself.
You are not alone.
@scarletIdea5793
today I found out my daughter has to see a kidney specialist and I feel like calling him and asking him to come back but I'm not he hasn't even asked how she is doing I feel so broken all over again 💔
my mum had influenza.people start to tell me why u getting white hair is too soon to get white hair in ur age .l think l had growing whit hair cuz l am thinking a lot about people that l care about them to much they hurt me in ways until now l still ask myself what l did wrong to them what my fault was did l hurt them that bad so they treat me like this l didn't overcoming that hurt feeling until now .we were good why they act hatefuly like that with me l was trust on them but their didn't trust in me .so when l be around them l am not the same person that l have been &that make me very sad cuz some part of my life l give up on it cuz l can't forget what they do &how that feeling was l didn't forget .