When I was younger I worried a lot about....
When I was younger, I was worried if my mom and dad would divorce and if I'll be able to support my mom (a housewife) and younger siblings if he wants us to move out (since i'm eldest) . I'm 24 now and unemployed and has no friends. My parents stayed together, but my problem now is my cringy sad self :(
Being accepted and having friends. My family moved a lot up until the age of 10 and it really messed with my ability to feel secure and comfortable with life as a boy.
When I was younger I worried a lot about what people think. And I still am. When someone looked at me or just having a conversation with themselves I feel like they are all talking about me. I still have that feeling, especially when there is a presentation or discussion in class. When I have a courage to make a conversation I suddenly stop because in my mind I think what the other party might fell or think. I know its good but at the end nothing happen. No conversation or whatsoever just a simple smile. That my worries and I have a lot more.....😧
I worried a lot about making friends that wouldn't think that I was a freak. As an autistic female making and keeping friends is difficult . Even my fiancé knows how much I struggle and it's hard for him to be everything I need in my social life.
@Silverbun
@Silverbun
@Silverbun I am also autistic and a female too
@Silverbun
As a High Functioning Autistic Female, I understand the struggle growing up, feeling as if you're the outcast. Just remember that today, you have someone that chose to love you the most over everything, and that's more than just making friends. You came a far way than you have when you were younger. And I'm sure they're trying their best to fill your social needs, but it is difficult for someone not on the spectrum to fully understand what's going on. They love you, and I'm sure they're trying their best. You also have this community to talk to if you feel like your needs are not being met! There are a lot of people who can relate to your worries and fears here on 7cups.
Wishing you the best!
@Silverbun *virtual hugs* i know it can be difficult at times but dont you worry. all and each one of us is here with you. we all love you. i know how you may feel about the way others percieve you to be, but you're an amazing and awesome person no matter what. you rock!!
My parents divorce
My appearence
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If I belonged and what if I never found someone who cared about me
What everyone thought about me