who do you reach out to first when you need comfort?
we all need comfort from time to time. who do you talk to when you feel the need for it?
@Clarisse29 My boyfriend. When I feel down, and this is happening more often by the day, he is the only one who comforts me but also gives me the strength to move forward. He helps me and tells me not only what I need to hear, but what I am trying to avoid. He is amazing.
@sensitiveSof002 i am happy that you have him :)
@sensitiveSof002 aw this is so cute!!! in this world, specially in those times it is really hard to see someone appreciate and generate actual and pure love. the fact that your boyfriend is is the person you firstly seek when you need comfort is a sign of a really healthy and passionate relationship :)
They can't talk to where I can understand but I hug my dog and/or cat if she's handy. Usually get a kiss from the dog and occasionally the cat.
Conversations with people tend not to go well for me...
Usually my best friends :)
Music, even if really often it seems to just backlash. Music is kinda like alcohol. If you drink when you are in a good mood you will have a great time, but if you drink when you are in a bad mood, that is a perfect recipe for disaster. Same goes with music. If you listen to music when you are in a good mood you will jump around and vibe with it, if you listen to music when you are in a bad mood, that is just gonna worsen your mental state, and often straightly trigger the worst feelings and thoughts, specially when you listen to a track that is related to trauma, as for example a track you listened to when you were going through a really bad period. And just like alcohol, music is a drug. I dare anyone of you that listens to music regularly to stop doing it. You can't, and you can't even when it lashes out bad consequences.
@Clarisse29 my mom, I would not be able to deal without her
@ThatCatThatMessedUp
i am glad that you have her in your life!
@Clarisse29 My best friend, but now due to some issues i don't feel that they care anymore but all is well :3
@Marsh23
that must be quite painful to experience :( i really wish friends who make you feel cared for upon you
@Clarisse29
Potentially a listener here equally a particular group on here, beyond that absolutely nobody.
Ive spoke with Samaritans a few times but again that’s because the same reasons I reach out here, I don’t know who they are in real life and they don’t know me.
My boyfriend.
@opacare that's so cute and sweet
anybody whose eyes i can meet.