Ask me anything 😁
@AReine
What do you love the most about where you live?
@Amanda84 Good question
@Amanda84 I love a lot of things actually. For now i will choose the kindness and generosity of people. Tunisian people are definitely the kindestand most generous i have ever seen 🇹🇳🇹🇳🇹🇳
@AReine
Beautiful 🥰
I haven't heard much about Tunisia, it's lovely the way you speak of it 💛
@Amanda84 I am happy you like that. And i am sure you will like it.
@Amanda84 That's a wonderful opportunity to learn about it ☺️. Feel free to ask. Ask me anything 😁
You can ask me about my journey as a listener, my roles......
@AReine Do you have a special talent you're proud of?
I have a lot actually 😆
Uhmm i would choose remaining quiet under pressure. Alhamdulillah thank Allah.
I want to ask you about your hobbies can you share please in details 🙏
My hobbies. This will be a long list 😂.
I love reading books. In different languages. I prefer the classic literature like Shakespeare in English Gustave Flaubert in french and الجاحظ بالعربية and stories in Spanish. Also i enjoy Dostoevsky's books but since i am not a professional in Russian so i have to read them translated in one of those first 3 languages. By the way i am currently reading Madame Bovary and البيان و التبيين الجزء الاول.
I admiiiire sports. When i was younger i was passionate about box like Mohammad Ali Klay. He and his daughter Laila are my favorite players. I love cycling, Tai Chi ( for beginners 😅😂) those fitness exercises i don't know what to call them. Also i enjoy a lot running. It helps me release my energy. I love swimming but since i haven't swam in a while i don't know.
I like to volunteer during my free time. Even in the house hhhh.
I am not a big fan of cooking ( at all 😂😂) I can't cook meals but i can do simple things desserts.... Tunisian brik and tajin, crêpe, salé,جواجم، cake 🍰 🎂.... I can do meals but they aren't that delicious. I love baking and decorating cakes with creams. I am a huge fan of creams.
What else ? 🤔🤔
I love watching movies. Autobiographies and based on true events. I don't like imagination so much. Movies about robots invading Jupiter don't interest me.
Furthermore i like to learn about my great country's tradition and culture as well as other countries'.
Traveling of couuuurse
To be honest i haven't travelled that much but Insha'Allah God willing i will as soon as i have the chance.
That's why i enjoy organizing trips and doing whole trip plans in foreign countries. ( I made a plan for a 7 nights trip in Siberia Russia 😂😂😂 and for 10 nights in the north pole 🤣🤣) If anyone of you has any idea that he wants to share about traveling i am all ears 😊
That's all i can recall now
What a wonderful question. It took my a while to think of them. I enjoyed speaking about my hobbies. Thanks for asking
What about you ? What are your hobbies?
You can ask general questions you have in mind. It's not necessarily about me 🤣🤣🤣
Hi, I want to ask you, how is your skin?
It's a skin hhhh
OK, how are you doing?
I am good thanks. What about you?
@AReine I felt good meeting my Muslim brother.What questions can i ask regarding guidance?
Nice to meet you too. I am a female by the way 😄. Feel free to ask anything you want.
@agreeableCamp822 If you have questions regarding Islam or if you like islam related posts i am sure you will like my two posts The culture of inquiry ask about anything you want to know about Islam (this post us an AMA about islam) and The beauty of Islam
@AReine Im a 15 year old girl my first bf “loved” me we where 12 he touched me and called me dirty names I never once thought it was sa till I figured what sa was . I still don’t know if it after that I’ve had a problem with lust and hating it at the same time my ex wjo I miss right now *** another girl knowing my past I have let it go sorta for him but deep in my soul it hurts still am I overreacting? I’ve hurt myself many times my ex has hesrd and seen everything yet he still hurts me I don’t know if it’s a big deal bc it’s only when I do stuff that disrespects him he has hit me three times but I feel as if it’s my fault the first was bc I wanted to see messages he had sent to this girl he tslked to my ex bsf he snatched the phone things got real and I dug my nails into his skin he did it back only his didbt lesve a scar I got in trouble the second time he called me names bc I got revenge and had sex with another guy bc he did that to me I regret that yes and I have matured but I grabbed his hoodie and I wasn’t trying to beat him up only yelling so he would listen to me I accidentally hit him he hit me back it continued till he hit me in the eye and I realized I was fighting the person I love the third time was yesterday wete not tg but we had spent time tg and done stuff I think he was js using me for my body bc I was drunk and high but he went through my phone on the guys chats that I *** and saw I message on me telling the guy how he cheated on me idk how or why he got mad mayve he thought we where tryinh to fet back tg I was sitting on his leg on a chair he pushed me off onto concrete floor his homeboy caught my head brfore it hit the concrete. A couple minutes ago my sister told me avt her oast and that things don’t get better but I still wont leave him . Is this all my fault.?
@frankCake3114 I hear your frustration. If you want to chat about that I am happy to be your listener.
@AReine im asking my parents for therapy not just bc of that situation but I’ve been through plenty more and I feel as if my emotions and my level of understanding is to high for my age or even to high for people to understand how my brain even works . I wanna get better not for him but for myself but in the pit of my stomach there is this disgust within myself knowing that I did him wrong and caused most of this by myself.
You want to improve yourself and your life but you can't help thinking of what happened. I understand you. Just chatting really helps comfort you. Since you can't have therapy you can try to talk to a trained active listener. I am happy to listen to you.
What makes you happy when you're feeling upset
So as i mentioned before i have a special talent in staying quiet under pressure or when feeling many emotions. For example when i feel upset i feel happy for not making a scene or screaming and yelling on others instead i learn from what happened and get the most of it so that the upsetting situation doesn't happen again neither for me nor for someone else with me. Which means i am happy that I won't make others upset like i felt. And i will prevent myself from feeling like that again.
My answer sounds complicated i know 😂
@AReine how do i better myself since im currently smoking, drinking almost everyday just to numb all emotions away
I understand yuur situation. It must be hard to deal with addiction. If you want we can chat about that. I am happy to be your listener.