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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 July 19th, 2025

Write questions to put them up for debate! Not arguments, not banter… Just serious discussion of topics of your choosing. Be for or against, play devil’s advocate. Pretend you’re on the debate team. And have fun! <3

Please be kind and considerate. This is a discussion area; no judgement allowed <3

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 19th, 2025

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 19th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 all right everyone. Time to ask the big questions. Should ducks be allowed to vote?

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 19th, 2025

I don’t think so. Given as the average lifespan of a duck is 5-15 years, they wouldn’t be old enough to vote. Also, add in the fact that using those styluses with webbed feet would be nearly impossible. It wouldn’t make sense to allow them to do so, because it doesn’t work logistically.

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 i mean, I´m sure they would fix up the water quality and the grain production 😁

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@sadcat13 absolutely I believe cats should too 😁💗

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 i´m sure i´m the first cat that ever vote, but another cat beat me to becoming a city mayor already

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow July 19th, 2025

@sadcat13 nope, they'd be quirky 😁

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@fossilfellow


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User Profile: Torean
Torean July 19th, 2025

Meh, let them try it. They might do better than people.

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@Torean looking at pretty much almost any voting ever, yeah maybe they should give it a try 😂

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 20th, 2025

@sadcat13

Absolutely , it would be Quackers not to let them 🤔

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

@Amanda84

Ba dum tss ;)

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@Amanda84 😂😂😂😂😂

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 19th, 2025

What is the best way for children to learn? In public school, private school, homeschool, or otherwise? What methods should be used? What materials, if any?

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 I learnt how to read and write as a kid, but everything else in there past 5 years. So my thoughts are everyone should go to a different kind of school, (only school because of being sociable and having friends) but I think schools should only have 20 students at the most, with one teacher the whole way through school, and kids should be taught the basics and then be taken to experience the world, like learning how to drive, forage for food, lend a hand on a farm, enter competitions. And learn in a more updated and fun way 💖

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 19th, 2025

I LOVE this <3 I especially agree about the last part. Kids and teens should learn life skills. You need to learn how to write a check, do taxes, fill out forms, learn to read for fun instead of work.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 the world is changing, schools need to too

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 i think the first step is for the schools to stop pushing propaganda on kids. Second of all, they should actually start to teach and focus on learning and developing the kids abilities, with little homework.

I think after year 4 when you are done with the basics, kids should be separated into two classes. One focusing on subjects like biology, chemistry, history, geography, etc. And the other focusing on math, physics, It, etc. With both groups having literature and foreign languages and focus primarily on their chosen area of subjects, while keeping the rest of the subjects to basic common knowledge without any unnecessary deep dives. Obviously, first aid and basic health care should be taught. So by the time kiddos graduate, they should be able to treat basic wounds, give cpr flawlessly, know the signs of most common or dangerous illnesses, like how to spot a blood poisoning, and understand basic nutrition and home remedies.

In the later teens, basic adulting should be taught too, and students should be encouraged to learn how to do various tasks most of us dread like filing taxes.

User Profile: unassumingEyes
unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 public or private school, depending on the country. Id say homeschool if it werent for all the messed up parents out there. For kids in such a situation, school could be a way out. Plus, imo kids need company their age, as long as theres supervision to prevent bullying

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

You have a really good point about abusive parents. Not that everyone is, but yeah, being trapped at home with someone who’s abusing you would not be a good thing.

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User Profile: reservedOwl321
reservedOwl321 July 20th, 2025

I believe every kid learns differently and it's different for every kid. We tried to homeschool our youngest who has autism. We were able to homeschool the others, but our youngest could not do it!

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 21st, 2025

Why couldn’t the youngest do it?

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 19th, 2025

Some people think, due to historical evidence, that Shakespeare wasn’t the person who wrote the plays said to be authored by him. Discuss.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 nah! I don't believe that

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 i heard about this theory, but i´d like to believe he wrote them himself.

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

I’m reading Shakespeare’s Secret, and it brought up this topic. Never really thought (or knew) about it.

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 I heard a little bit about it, but I like to think he wrote it all 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 I think having zoo's is very important and a good thing 💖 but I know others disagree! So what do you think??

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 19th, 2025

I think zoos are inhumane to animals. Not because they’re mistreated, but because they’re trapped in a small area, and their lives and living spaces don’t remotely match their native lands.

I do, however, understand the other side: Kids need to learn about the world, and zoos are working toward animal conservation and repopulation of rare animal species.

User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow July 19th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 I think zoo can be a okay for small animals only If they are kept in good care, safe and suitable environment.

But for wild ones they're too small... And they don't get to live their life in nature, and sometimes even get hurt just bcus of our entertainment.

Instead of trapping them in zoo, national parks would be better option... For their safety also people can enjoy visiting those instead. 🤍

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@fossilfellow @jesusredeemedme2425 yeah I see your point especially with the bigger animals💖 but I believe zoo's have come along way and have found ways of adapting to the animals needs, but yeah maybe national parks and safaris are the best way to go💖💖

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow July 19th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 ❤️❤️

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User Profile: Torean
Torean July 19th, 2025

Zoos do a lot for animal well-being, both inside and outside the zoo. They're problematic in some ways, but I agree that it's important to have them.

User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 i love zoos. The thing is, the animals in there were already born in captivity, and couldn´t survive in the wild on their own, as they never had to. It´s also a great way for us to learn about them and observe them a little. However, it is important for the animals to have a proper living space that is big enough for them to be comfy, provide them with all they need  both in terms of habitat and entertainment. And for the visitors respecting that the animals shouldn´t be disturbed by tapping on the glass or other not nice things and should be observed with love and interest

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GreenLime3141 July 20th, 2025

I like zoos.

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

Explain your reasoning. <3

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GreenLime3141 July 20th, 2025

Zoos are important because they expose people to the larger world without them having to travel too far.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 19th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 do you think some people are born evil? Or that life and people make them that way?? Was there something dark already inside them?? Or perhaps just animal instincts?

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YourCaringConfidant July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 I don't think no one is born evil. Sure, we were all born with sin... but being born evil is something different. We're all babies when we are born and babies are pure and beautiful in every way. There's no such thing as an evil baby, imo. But as that baby grows and is exposed to the world and influenced by people around them then parts of them can turn dark. But then again, everyone of us living has potential for good and evil. 

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Tinywhisper11 July 20th, 2025

@YourCaringConfidant I will never be evil🙂

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YourCaringConfidant July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 I believe in my heart the same about you! You're entirely too beautiful of a person with a huge heart and a lot of love! ❤️

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Tinywhisper11 July 20th, 2025

@YourCaringConfidant 💖🙂💖

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 i think it´s complicated. We absolutely get born with a lot of pre-set personality traits, that can be better or worse. Also, psychopathy is often something that people are born with. However, these alone won´t make someone bad. A lot depends on how the child grows up, how it´s treated, how is it´s mental health etc. There is in fact a lot of psychopaths who don´t become evil at all, and in fact go into careers where their condition is working in their favour, like for example surgeons, soldiers etc, since they take a challenge and don´t crack under pressure. Just do what they need to to achieve the goal, what makes them awesome in what they do. So I think, as much as we have some predispositions, most of the evil is acquired in life.

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Tinywhisper11 July 20th, 2025

@sadcat13 that makes sense💖

User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

I’m curious about this… You said some psychopaths don’t become evil. I thought that was the very definition. (I’ve never looked up the definition, I just hear things in context in movies and such.) Explain?

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 basically. As far as I remember correctly. While psychopaths lack the empathy or regard for others by nature due to how their brains are, there are ways this can be corrected with the correct motivation. They won't really be able to feel remorse either way, but they can be taught through logic and reasoning. And if they believe them following good behaviour is beneficial for them, they can lead a normal life. They just won't really do it intuitively like we do, but have a more logical reasoning. So for example. I want to drive recklessly. Do I care about the impact this will have on others? Not really. But. If I drive recklessly, I will cause an accident. If I cause an accident, I will possibly get someone injured or killed and can end up in jail. If I end up in jail, I can't work on this project that really keeps me busy now. Therefore, reckless driving is not worth it. And therefore as you see, they get to the morally correct conclusion, just got there in a little different way.

For example there was a case of a professor studying psychopathy discovering that he himself is one. Also, there were some cases of people who are friends with psychopaths and they say they never had a better friend. Because while the person isn't really emotion driven, they are incredibly supportive. Like in case of something going wrong in the friends life, they don't just offer sympathy, they come prepared with this is how we will fix it. Or go I googled how to support someone who is grieving, so here is a casserole, now let me in, I'm gonna clean this place for you.

Also, for the job part, you or me probably couldn't handle the pressure of having to cut into someone's body, while they are knocked out and poke their insides with a knife to hopefully save their life is a 3% chance of survival operation. We would simply not handle the weight of it, or the sight. And if the patient died, we definitely couldn't go drink a coffee and get down to the next. Same with soldiers. It's often the best soldiers who are not scared to get into a risky situation to do what has to be done. Most of us wouldn't really become an elite troop who is able to push their limits to the max just to get the work done. So these jobs often have a higher rate of psychopaths doing them (but obviously not everyone who goes into the occupation is one, it's just that these are fields where their specific brains are often an advantage compared to a typical person).

We also have such a high rate of them being labeled as dangerous criminals exactly because the ones living a completely normal life are not counted in, with most of them never getting diagnosed. So it's safe to say that you will have a lot more scary percentages of crime if looking at those who got to prison due to commiting crime but having an entire chunk of people flying under the radar. So even if the majority of psychopaths are evil, there are always some who choose to live a normal life.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

I don't think anyone is born evil, I think environment and the people around you, play a big part !

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Tinywhisper11 July 20th, 2025

@Amanda84 yeah I guess no one is born evil💖

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User Profile: unassumingEyes
unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 i think every one has a tendency to lean towards whats forbidden, sort of? And power is very...harmful to ones resolve to not do whats forbidden. Its willpower i guess- in allowing yourself to chase after power at any cost, you demonstrate how little will power you have to stop yourself. so everyone has a little evil in them, what matters is how strong they are in dealing with that tendency. If any of that sounds coherent

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

Why do you think standards of beauty vary across cultures?

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User Profile: unassumingEyes
unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 not me having literally no opinion of this 😂😂

I mean it makes sense to me because theres different cultures, traditions, entire ways of livings- why wouldnt the beauty standards be different, too, right? thats all i ever thought about it xd

User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 They are influenced by what the society needs, values, believes and lacks.

The beauty of what we don´t have or is rare:

For example, in ancient rome, blond hair was not common at all. So once they saw foreigners with light hair, they started seeking out ways to look like that too, since it was exotic and uncommon for them. Same for example with my boyfriend. He has naturally blond hair and blue eyes, so blond hair or blue eyes never really interested him. He was however always intrigued by darker eye and hair colour. (Same is true for a lot of opposite cases of people with darker hair and eyes finding light hair colour and eyes very captivating), or the straight hair girls wanting curly hair and the girls with natural curls wishing they had straight hair. If something is uncommon enough (like the blond hair for the romans), it will be desired by a big enough chunk of people to become a cultural standard of beauty.


Avaibility of food and display of status:

This ties into the previous point about scarcity. In times or places where people have to be self reliant and your next meal is not a guarantee, being of the fuller body type with higher fat percentage shows that hey i eat well, i´m healthy and happy, i can afford it. Skinny bodies are associated with hunger and lack of food. Same with resistance to illness, a more massive body with bigger reserves will be more likely to handle sickness, cold and physical labour. A well rounded woman is a sign of more likely fertility and safer birth and pregnancy thanks to proper nutrition and a well fed man is a sign you will not starve with him and he will take care of you and the future family well. However in society and time when we don´t have to fight for our food every day, grow it and be self reliant down to the grain, thinner body type is the sign of look I have the time and money to get myself healthy and balanced food, go to the gym, and attend a yoga class twice a week, instead of getting mcdonalds and rotting exhausted in front of the tv.


Spiritual believes:

some cultures have a unique religion or spiritual belives, that make them consider some traits that maybe we wouldn´t really find too attractive a sign of the gods, or good fortune, therefore making the person of the look highly respected and valued, making the traits desirable for others too.

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User Profile: unassumingEyes
unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

Do you think teens should have to pay for uni themself or is it the parents job? 

I ask this because i was a bit shocked that people in the US pay themselves for uni. I mean, youre 19 when you go to uni. Whyre you expected to work at the same time as some of the hardest years of your education? Also, in my mind its a given that working at that age esp is unsafe for women, but maybe thats just where i live and the US has a less creep allowing environment? 

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@unassumingEyes universities should be free of charge. Here, you have 5 years of free education in uni. You can use them as you wish. But if it happens that for example you went to a uni for 3 years and left it, then go study something else, you will have to pay for 3 years out of the 5. So basically you have 5 years of free uni studies per person, what is a very fair and reasonable setup

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unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@sadcat13 that makes sense. Where i live, government unis and colleges are cheap- but not free. Yours is a pretty good system

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sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@unassumingEyes yep. It allows everyone to get education but not to abuse the student status

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

Men are creepy no matter what age you are, but the US has strict s****l harassment laws. You can report people for it.

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unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 from what I hear, reports arent actually taken seriously. Hopefully I heard wrong though 😀

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

At least at my work, yes they are. <3

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Tinywhisper11 July 20th, 2025

@unassumingEyes here noone can afford uni, so you pretty much have to get a job and go to uni, or get student loans which your then in debt to most of your working life🙁 it's not a good system. 

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unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 yeah that makes no sense to me at all. Student debt sounds weird to me. Most of these students go on to do work, anyways, right? Which benifits the country in the form of active labour? It seems...unnecessary to take both the labour and the salary 😀

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unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@unassumingEyes for that matter, couldnt they have a minimum labour time set instead? So instead of people having to get several jobs for their survival + student debt, make it necessary for them to work in x field (which they studied?) for an year or so? Kind of like how doctors do house job for one year at a government hospital? 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 20th, 2025

@unassumingEyes all education ideally should cost not even half the price we have to pay

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

We have financial aid here :)

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Iamwhoiamwhoami July 20th, 2025

What does it feel like to be satisfied with your own life overall?

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 20th, 2025

@Iamwhoiamwhoami that's the only question on this thread I don't have enough information about to have an opinion and can't even guess

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 20th, 2025

Who knows XD

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unassumingEyes July 20th, 2025

@Iamwhoiamwhoami i think we're going to have to wait and find out

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Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 are there really other dimensions?? Like other world's where we are living different lives??

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Iamwhoiamwhoami July 21st, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 that would explain so much about my so called life.

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Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@Iamwhoiamwhoami yeah you think so 🤔💖

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Iamwhoiamwhoami July 21st, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

That would suggest another version of me completely opposite meaning happy, comfortable and satisfied. Enjoying life and not a social hermit and misfit.

💕💕💕

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Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@Iamwhoiamwhoami yeah that's a nice thought💖 but I wouldn't want another version of you because you are very special to me, and I love you just the way you are 💖💖

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 21st, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 I don't believe so. I think as much as the concept is intriguing, I don't think it aligns with the Christian view of things, since as human beings with a body and soul, the wholeness of it is often emphasised. I don't recall any mention of such realities in these contexts (maybe someone will have a few quotes on it who is diving deeper into this) But a lot of NZ understanding on big existential questions come from the Bible and my faith. I'm not aware of it supporting an alternative reality existing, therefore, I'm voting no on this

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Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@sadcat13 yeah I don't think I believe it either

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sadcat13 July 21st, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 yep. Imagine if it was real and a portal got all our versions into one. The chaos would be guaranteed lol. And probably none of my versions would enjoy math and doing the dishes 

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Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@sadcat13 😂😂😂😂😂 my versions would band together and take over the world😁😇😁

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sadcat13 July 21st, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 well, there would definitely be an ice-cream shortage 😁

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Tinywhisper11 July 22nd, 2025

@sadcat13 😂😂😂😂 yep

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 21st, 2025

This is one thing that has been confusing me for a long time… I don’t have answers. The Bible doesn’t mention it, but then it doesn’t mention everything. So the jury’s out for me.

User Profile: unassumingEyes
unassumingEyes July 21st, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 i think its possible. I wouldnt say yes or no to that xD and i dont think religion makes it impossible. Religion (monotheistic- that i know of) speaks of our world and another (the hereafter) but never explicity states that thats it. There might be more. It does bring into question whether heaven etc would also exist as multiple versions in different dimensions, or as one sort of supreme world above all others (and if so, how wld all versions of us be there at the same time?)

In other words...dont think about it 😂

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 21st, 2025

My brain hurts now XD

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unassumingEyes July 21st, 2025

@jesusredeemedme2425 atleast we're overthinking fun stuff 😁

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jesusredeemedme2425 OP July 21st, 2025

Right????? Hehe

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Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@unassumingEyes 😂😂😂😂😂 yeah that's kinda of a strange  thought😕 maybe not thinking is best here 💖😂😂

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