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[2025 Highlight Reel Series] What is one thing that happened this year that you didn't expect?

User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 December 9th, 2025

Hi, everyone! Thank you for participating in the introduction to our 2025 Highlight Reel series! I really enjoyed reading your replies and hearing your unique award stories!

Let's continue to reflect! 🥰

We often start the year with plans, but life usually has other ideas. As the saying goes, "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."

Looking back, what is one thing that happened (good or bad) that you didn't see coming?

Maybe you made a new friend, picked up a hobby you never thought you'd like, or handled a tough situation better than you thought you would.

Whether your unexpected moment was a joyful surprise or a difficult challenge, we want to hear about it. This community is a space where we can share in each other's ups and downs, reminding us that no matter what twists and turns the year brought, we are navigating them together!

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User Profile: Emleah77
Emleah77 December 9th, 2025

@Heather225
The friendships I made, for sure. I didnt see them coming but theyve brought so much warmth and light into my life💗
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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP December 9th, 2025

@Emleah77

ohh I am so happy for you!!

User Profile: LikeRingsInWater
LikeRingsInWater December 11th, 2025

@Emleah77 Same here, oh, same here. We are so lucky!!

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User Profile: Hedgehogs83
Hedgehogs83 December 9th, 2025

@Heather225

I never expected to move to Lithuania this year. Prior to this year, I wouldn't have even been able to confidently respond if someone were to ask me if Lithuania was a real or fictional land. But perhaps what was even more shocking was that we had to leave my brother behind. I always thought that, being the oldest, I would be the first to move out, but I guess he beat me this time around.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@Hedgehogs83

Wishing you well in times ahead and hope your brother is doing fine too.💛

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 December 9th, 2025

@Heather225

 I’ve handled quite a decent amount of tough things this year…. Basically enough to meet next years quota too 😅 

Lots of changes! 

I’m happy my health and my families health are in good condition. 

I love the connections I’ve made that were unexpected 🥰❤️

The amount of emotional healing I’ve done!!

 I’m looking forward to my job choice and all it has to offer me 💕💕💕

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@peachThinker662

Woohoo Peachyy, so much to be grateful for and pat your back for. 💖 I’m super proud of you and hope the next year treats you with more kindness! ☀️

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 December 10th, 2025

Thank you so much Sunshine!!!!!! Bring on the kindness ❤️

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User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 December 10th, 2025

@Heather225 For most part everything was good except for the following:

1. This has been going on for a few years now so nothin’ new here being homeless.

2. A difficult situation which I really never spoke up for myself b’fore but tried to my abusers that allowed me to crash in their home for awhile but when the abuse became emotionally draining I took the risk of leaving knowing full well my medical would also be at risk

3. Finally tho I left the abusive situation I was able to see my doctor which now wont be for quite some time b’fore I can begin to manage to get there again but last time I saw him he started me on a medication that I had taken years ago for osteoporosis. Difference now my vision is failing me so I can no longer read the small print and I am due for cataract surgery and on top of it I have glucoma so reading is difficult unless I can enlarge stuff as I can this site..well I didnt have anyone to read the directions to me and silly me it never dawned on me to call the pharmacy for directions. It ended up with me overdosing myself. Upon calling my doctor he recommended being I am not able to go to him personally to go somewhere to have my electrolytes and blood taken. I feel so dumb at this point. I just assumed it was to be taken like I do all my others meds. I didnt know it was 1 pill a week not 7 pills a week. This is difficult not only for making this error but for taking assuming for granted and finally having the nurse who works with my doctor ask me if I was suicidal. I am not but found it intimidating to be asked that question especially since it was not in my thoughts of doing such a thing but rather it was a simple honest mistake. I just cant get over having done such a thing even if it is an accident. SMH.


User Profile: neonWriter8115
neonWriter8115 December 10th, 2025

That my husband's death would create a chain reaction of others deaths, and tree issues, sending me to another dimension.

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User Profile: enlightenedEmbrace9137
enlightenedEmbrace9137 December 10th, 2025

@neonWriter8115 I'm so sorry for you're loses. This year I lost my father and a very good friend close together both from lung cancer. I wasn't able to attend my father's funeral . It's been difficult .

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User Profile: neonWriter8115
neonWriter8115 December 14th, 2025

Thank you

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 December 10th, 2025

@neonWriter8115 "another dimension"?... Would you please explain?

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User Profile: neonWriter8115
neonWriter8115 December 14th, 2025

Well due to the stress of dealing with his Glioblastoma for the last 3 years and everything that happened during and after . Something in me snapped and I lost my mind I think ..im still trying to come back from whatever the heck that was. Im struggling to handle all the changes I am faced with right now so in my head im in another dimension.. one that doesn't have all of this ..

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 December 14th, 2025

@neonWriter8115 it sounds rough... Hopefully you'll have a full recovery.

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User Profile: neonWriter8115
neonWriter8115 December 15th, 2025

Thank you im trying . It wasn't supposed to be this way. But I will get there its just taking me time ..

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User Profile: hopefulSunrise6483
hopefulSunrise6483 December 10th, 2025

I’m so sorry to hear about loss.  That sounds really overwhelming, and I’m really sorry you’re dealing with something that feels so intense. 


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User Profile: enlightenedEmbrace9137
enlightenedEmbrace9137 December 11th, 2025

@hopefulSunrise6483 it really has been. Thank you for your support

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 10th, 2025

@Heather225

I never thought I'd be blessed with another beautiful nephew 🥰👣

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@Amanda84

Omgeee congrats to you, the new parents and your family! Lil babies are the cutest! Their tiny hands and feet… okay I canttttt…!🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 10th, 2025

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

He's adorable and started crawling yesterday 🥰

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User Profile: hopefulSunrise6483
hopefulSunrise6483 December 15th, 2025

Congratulations!  He is so adorable and cute 🥰 

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User Profile: peacefulpurple08
peacefulpurple08 December 10th, 2025

@Heather225 I didn't expect to have a crush on someone and them be mean to me even though they like me but then meet guys who made me realize I can be treated nicely and be liked. 

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@peacefulpurple08

Such a humbling experience right?! 😭 I’m so so glad you got to meet better people who treat you nicely. 

You deserve the absolute worldddddd. Let nobody else tell you otherwise ever!💛

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 December 10th, 2025

Meeting the man who became my friend in town...a true friend, plus everything else that followed as a result. I did not see that coming.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@slowdecline48

Superrr happy for you! 💛 

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 December 10th, 2025

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Yeah, thanks. Normally I dislike surprises as they're a sign that I wasn't paying close enough attention, but this year had a good one... Sometimes my buddy gets on my nerves a little, but then everyone does because I don't have much patience. 😂 And he's a decent guy, which counts for a lot. If you're gonna have friends (who doesn't need one sooner or later), then you need good ones.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 11th, 2025

@slowdecline48

😂 Right there with you xD about everybody getting on ‘em nerves in some way lol. I think what differentiates friends from just people is that these special people can also sometimes help calm our nerves down. 🥰 

I’m glad it was a good surprise hehe, it’s okayyyy (even if it’s superrr difficult and inbuilt) to not be on the look-out for the what-all-could-go-wrong track always, plus gotta surprise our brain at times with the “hey, I’m winning this one 😎 ” too. 

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User Profile: GentleGlow21
GentleGlow21 December 10th, 2025

Getting little presents from work/company. 

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@SoftGlisten21

Appreciate the employers who know it’s quintessential to acknowledge and celebrate their employees and teammates! 🥰 Yay gifts!!

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User Profile: shibooo1409
shibooo1409 December 10th, 2025

@Heather225

Many in my family were hospitalized this yr for different reasons.....my grandma passed away.... My as level scores were just like a nightmare...(Very very low).. I lost in my scl elections... I made the worst decision in my life (don't want to say what it is)... Fed up 😮‍💨

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 10th, 2025

@shibooo1409

Darn so many rough, devastating experiences from this year :/ so very sorry about your grandma, sending you and family tons of strength and love. 💛

As for your scores and bad decisions, I really hope you’re able to attempt those tests again and make it to your goals. 

Realising the decision was bad, is growth. 

May the new year treat you with more kindness and love. Be gentle with yourself. 🤗


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User Profile: shibooo1409
shibooo1409 December 11th, 2025

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou thank u so much...that means a lot 🙂✨

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