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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing April 6th

Whether you're new here or veteran ask any question within the bounds of 7 Cups rules and anyone can answer. Here's a cute thing below v 

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Are you serious?

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In IRL very👻

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Not at home though😜

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@curiousbookishness is home not irl? 😭

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Its an exception🤓

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Wbu?

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@curiousbookishness

I'm selectively serious 😂

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 8th

@trueconfidant123 Half and half 

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@genericbeing

Haha, I want to try that product. I've seen it a lot in the internet.

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 8th

@trueconfidant123 Its pretty good 

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 10th

@genericbeing

I'm sure!

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User Profile: politePlace5370
politePlace5370 April 8th

Wait for coffee or tea? At the same time or separate? If together, which tea?

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 8th

@genericbeing  city or countryside?

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@chillmoon As someone from the countryside now living in a city, I'd choose the countryside a thousand times over 🤍🤧

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@MeilleureAmie

Me too!

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@trueconfidant123 Ah, if only life allowed us.. we'd never leave our countryside 🫂🤧

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@MeilleureAmie

I know. It's so much more peaceful there. 🫂😪

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@trueconfidant123 Yeah, it's peace and simplicity is unmatched 💗🥹

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@MeilleureAmie

Absolutely!

User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 8th

@MeilleureAmie Simplicity and peace can never be experienced in the city. 

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@chillmoon Yeah, so trueee🤍

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 8th

@MeilleureAmie 💗💗

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@chillmoon City :)

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 8th

@fossilfellow 💗

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@chillmoon 💝

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@fossilfellow Not you saying 'City' after me and TC finished praising the countryside 🤍😭

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@MeilleureAmie I like city more... My experience in my country side/ village hasn't been so good 🤧💖

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@fossilfellow Ah, that makes sense. I'm sorry your experience wasn't good🫂 And yeah, despite it being peaceful, it comes with a lot of struggle too at times 🤍🤧

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@MeileureAmie yeah.. :( thank you 💝

*hugs* 🐾💕

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@fossilfellow 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@MeilleureAmie ❤️❤️

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@MeilleureAmie aw 😂

To each their own. The countryside may not have all the facilities that I'm furnished with in the city so I wouldn't trade my city life with the countryside unless I'm provided with an easier life.

Just kidding! 😛

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@trueconfidant123 ❤️

User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 8th

@trueconfidant123 I got you. After helping my grandparents in the fields all day, sometimes.. I definitely appreciate city life more. I miss just lying in bed all day, and doing nothing 🤍😭

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@MeilleureAmie

Craving some rest doesn't make us bad, it's okay, you deserve your bed after a long day

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User Profile: MeilleureAmie
MeilleureAmie April 9th

@trueconfidant123 Yeah🤧 But the moment I'm in the city, finally lying in bed, doing nothing.. my brain starts missing the fields, the sun, even the back pain I have after those hard works xD

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@MeilleureAmie

Haha. That happens to me after I stop working out. I miss my back cramps. Because at least I was fit from all the manual exercise lol.

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Depends on my mood😅

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 8th

@curiousbookishness XD

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 8th

@chillmoon Always country 

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 9th

@genericbeing 💗 country is the best 

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User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 9th

Countryside💯, that is how I grew up roaming free in the mountains and riding horses! Lived in the big city of Los Angeles for 12 years and had to get the heck outta there LOL Where I live now is pretty close feels very countryside! So peaceful ❤️🥰

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 9th

@purpleField1512  That is the best childhood 😊✨. LA is nothing like that lol. Nice to hear you now live in a peaceful place.

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@genericbeing
What are you avoiding that deep down you know matters most?

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@curiousbookishness

Exercise!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 8th

@trueconfidant123

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Hehe valid reason👻

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 8th

@curiousbookishness myself  :(

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Nothing is more Important then onself but we all ,in some ways,avoid and forget ourselves😌

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 8th

@curiousbookishness very true. I distract myself with things cs I don't want to be alone with my thoughts. Should work on it. and hey, thanks for the question lol. 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 9th

@chillmoon ❤️❤️

You to dear🤗

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Marraige😑

User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 8th

@curiousbookishness Dentist appointments lol

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To much sweets😜

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User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 8th

I have a serious question! What do you do about misplaced jealousy maybe even gaslighting to keep attention off what my husband is doing?

I hired a contractor to do some work which he did. Some was done while my husband was away on business and they finished up when he was back. I had a lot of interactions in the yard as they would frequently ask what I wanted done on certain aspects! Normal friendly talk would take place amongst us all, they are my adult kids ages of about 36! Two men and two women at times coming and going. Here is my attire and granted the only time anyone came inside was to use a restroom!

Sweat pants

Long sleeved shirt, it’s bug season here!

My husbands comment are you seem very friendly and you not act like you are having a relationship

Umm WHAT? I offer my restroom, water and conversation when needed. I work from home so any questions they needed answered I would walk back out to answer.

I don’t even wear makeup since I never leave the house LOL

Thoughts? Feedback?

I am intrigued to know outside perspectives!

Meanwhile, off and on he states he wants a divorce. Lately he says he wants to stay?!

Color me confused!

No, I am not flirting with kids my son’s age! Sorry if your that age you aren’t a kid per se but to me you are! LOL

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I am a boy, I cant really relate directly but hypothetically If i were married to a man who starts being moody with me in our old age I would think of it as an age thing because as humans,we change not only physically but mentally too as we grow.👻

Like for example I didnot liked spinach untill I turned 12.why? Every mother would know many toddlers donot like green vegetables🤭

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User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 8th

Moody is one thing but the jealousy is weird to me! I am an aging woman with hip issues and could care less about dressing up for anyone at all these days except if and when my husbands takes me somewhere I do! Otherwise, I shop in sweats and don’t even brush my hair some days it’s the grocery store hahaha

I figure I am not there for fashion I am there for food! So the weird jealousy observation if I am nice and having conversations with someone doing work on the house is not only odd it’s annoying!

Is this a control thing?

I can’t be nice or talk to people without him thinking it’s flirting?

I am way too old for that nonsense

I would not want it nor do I need it (menopause takes care of that desire in the sense it’s gone LOL in case anyone’s curious)

User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 8th

I thank you for that thoughtful response! It is not lost on me and something to consider!

Also like my grandfather said - aging is not for the weak at heart LOL

We all just have to learn and adapt to it, our minds get sharper (most of us) and our bodies decide to slow us down!

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 8th

@purpleField1512 I don't want to input too much, but he sounds like hes just jealous and being a bit of a jerk

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User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 9th

Thank you, that is how I feel but I wanted to see what others thought! He met the contractor and told him he did a great job and laughed and joked with him and his crew.

Then later pulls the whole weird jealousy thing accused me of flirtatious behavior! Like for real? He is the same age as our son! It’s a weird thing to even say to me!

User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 9th

My husband must forget our age or he must see me as one of those cougar types bahahaha guess he never really knew me at all! I don’t have that kind of energy LOL

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 10th

@purpleField1512 I'm sure the good in the relationship outweighs the bad :)

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User Profile: politePlace5370
politePlace5370 April 8th

How on earth does dating work and is ur partner basically just best friend with affection?

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@politePlace5370 +1

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User Profile: politePlace5370
politePlace5370 April 8th

Sorry what?

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@politePlace5370 I have the same question lol, hope that's ok

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User Profile: politePlace5370
politePlace5370 April 8th

Oh yea np let’s hope someone can answer lol 🤝

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@politePlace5370

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Lmaooo😭😭😭🤧

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 8th

@politePlace5370 Yes - lol - just yes

User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 9th

I am confused or I would answer! Haha how does dating work? I mean it was a few 100 years ago for me so not sure 🤔 😂

But the relationship part in my opinion

You date someone to find that one person you conn et with who becomes your best friend

So some say opposites attract but at some point you need to connect on things and find common ground

My husband and are clearly struggle with the connection in our empty nest days!

So if you share the same hobbies and like doing the same things it’s going to help you in the long run to stay together and connected

Don’t get me wrong

Couples need space and alone time

But too much just leaves you disconnected and when the physical part is not the daily routine something that connects you and feels like friendship and intimacy of another kind takes it place

If not you just struggle like me and my husband seem to be doing now

Apparently he felt this way for a decade and never said a word so it’s pretty hard to fix at this stage in my opinion

So learn from our errors is my two cents 🥰🗝️🙏

In my opinion trust your parents when it comes to life partner up until you turn 30👻

And remember the last choice is yours😎

Real love and respect is built when there are parents involved.You send your mother(i would suggest grandmother if you are eldest in siblings and the first scapegoat😜.Because your mother will have no experience)to the house of the person you like.They will observe better without any heart-rosetinted-glasses than you,a novice👻.

Marry only if you can trust your self with another soul.Other wise stay a hundred miles out of their dwellings.No need to involve your self in unhealthy marrage.

As for knowing them you have the option of chaperon involved public dates🤓

Stay pure and respectfull and you will end up in a susessfull marraige.

donot get yourself into un supervised dating

Other than that well....its your doing👻

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User Profile: SaviSSS
SaviSSS April 9th

Anyone up for sum roblox?

User Profile: 7Bear7
7Bear7 April 9th

@genericbeing

Anyone had boba tea? If so what's your favorite you've had?

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User Profile: 7Bear7
7Bear7 April 9th

@7Bear7

Mine is a strawberry base with mango poppers but I haven't had boba much so it could definitely change 

User Profile: peachScarf406
peachScarf406 April 9th

@7Bear7
Mine is strawberry, taro and black sugar
Topping wise I like the classic black boba. And anything jelly-like :3

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 9th

@genericbeing What's a hidden skill/talent you have? 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 9th

@genericbeing I can beat box with my mouth using teeths.. but it sounds very low, so only I can hear it, maybe if i add a mike or something xd.

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@fossilfellow

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 9th

@trueconfidant123 😂❤️

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Amazing😭

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 9th

@curiousbookishness Thank you ❤️😁

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 16th

@fossilfellow no wayyy. WOW 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 16th

@chillmoon 😂😂 thank you ❤️😁

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@genericbeing

I'm a pretty good actor. One time a crow's feet hit my dad's head while he was on his bike. He informed us so after he got home. According to a myth, it's believed that it is supposed to brings extreme bad luck. In order to reverse the effect, you had to give someone a fake bad news and make them grieve/cry for the affected. My mom told me to call up my ever emotional aunt who can cry for literally anything. I called her up and started sobbing uncontrollably, told her my dad met an accident and I'm home alone. She started to cry too. But she also ended up calling everyone else so it was a disastrous situation. We began getting calls from the other family members so we had to stop it there. 

Looking back it all sounds so foolish. But it was a nice prank lol. I never knew I had it in me to create such emotional appeal. No one could believe I was faking it. There's a reason I keep it hidden. 😂

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I want that too😭😭 amazing.

User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon April 16th

@trueconfidant123 lol

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User Profile: Butterfly723389
Butterfly723389 April 9th

@genericbeing sometimes I explain school stuff to my friends even though I don’t understand it myself 😅 afterwards they have to explain it to me 😂

My observation i think.I love observing people and knowing about cultures around the globe.👻

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 10th

@curiousbookishness That's awesome 💖

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Hehe thanks🤗

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 10th

@curiousbookishness ❤️❤️

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 10th

@curiousbookishness Pretty sweet

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Aww man😭🤧🤗

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User Profile: purpleField1512
purpleField1512 April 9th

My hidden skill and talent is playing piano! My mom forced it on me when I was young so I quit playing but have since started writing lyrics and using a song generator to make the songs come to life!

So far they are just for me and my family as I have no clue how to get them out there and no desire to be in the spotlight! 🥰🤣🗝️

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 10th

@purpleField1512 Aweosme, I love classical piano and always wished I could play

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing OP April 10th

@genericbeing I'm cross-dominance handed, you can look it up, its like ambidextrous but even rarer. I do everything with a different hands but not always both with both hands. 10% of people are left handed, 1% of people are ambidextrous, and 1% of ambidextrous people are cross-dominance handed. 

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 10th

@genericbeing

That's so cool!

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User Profile: peachScarf406
peachScarf406 April 9th

@genericbeing

What is the best pizza flavor?

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora April 9th

@genericbeing what's the most beautiful thing you have?

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