Fighting the weekend lonlies
Not just weekends. Daily.
I text people, go on 7Cups, clean. Drown my sorrows by trying to fill the silence…
Do you ever wonder/wish you could go sit some where simple…get a bite to eat or a drink somewhere? I do. Get the bravery to go somewhere alone and enjoy it? Meet new people.
I really wanna try new YA Bible studies… I chicken out.
I always feel lonely... and just scroll to pass time . And hardly get to enjoy time with friends. on texts. In the evening I go for small walks alone... while listening music.
First of all I love that phrase, I'm stealing it! "Weekend lonely" 🙂 what helps me most when I feel lonely is making myself do things even if I don't want to. I give myself some time to feel my feelings and then remind myself of all the potencial I probably have. After texting a friend, I feel better!
Also knowing what you need when you feel lonely or what specific thing you're wishing for when you're lonely helps a lot :)
@peachThinker662
When I feel alone or lonely .... I watch movies, , listen to music while I go off on a car ride around town to think listen and watch the passing scenery .... sometimes when I see something worth investigating, I stop to enjoy it. Once I saw that there was an out door movie theater set up at my favorite park. I parked and sat on the grass along with everyone else there. we got free pop corn. i watched the movie and it was really nice. I also love to listen to creepy pasta or other stories on utube while I drive around or stay at home. I rather go to places though. I go see my family or my friends. This weekend on my days off of work, I am spending time with my friend. I did this last weekend and it was soo nice that I decided to go this weekend too. I do things that remind me of the good old days when I feel alone lonely or maybe a little down.
@peachThinker662 yeah, i listen to music, watch animes/shows/movies i love, cry a bit about it and cook some of my fav meals.
I do, but it's not that bad because I find myself more comfortable by myself.
I do all my favorite things like sleep in, exercise, read lifestyle blogs, browse shopping catalogues, watch a movie or two, cook my favorite dishes, listen to my favorite podcasters and music
It gets crowded on the weekends so ironically I can be more introverted. I guess it's hard to find a balance!!!
@peachThinker662
I always struggle being alone especially on weekends as I have no friends outside of work.
Being very introverted, I tend to just stay home alone. Listen to music and do chores.
I try to get out for a walk, again alone.
There are days I find it hard being alone and some days where I am happy to be alone, if that makes any sense?