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User Profile: LexListens2025
LexListens2025 March 6th

Hi everyone! 💛

I wanted to create a little space where we can slow down for a moment and check in with ourselves. Sometimes we go through the day saying “I’m fine” even when we’re carrying a lot inside. So this thread is just a gentle reminder that you don’t have to pretend here.

Before anything else, I wanted to introduce myself for anyone who might be new here! 🌱
My name is Lex, and I’m a listener here on 7 Cups. I joined because I truly care about creating a space where people feel heard, supported, and a little less alone. Everyone deserves to have someone listen to them without judgment, and I’m really grateful to be part of a community that tries to do that every day.

Now for the check-in. ✨

Take a deep breath for a second and ask yourself honestly:

💭 How are you really doing today?

You can share however you feel comfortable:
🌸 one word
🌸 a sentence
🌸 an emoji
🌸 or a little vent if you need it

There’s no pressure to be positive here. However you’re feeling is okay.

I’ll start: today I’m feeling a little tired but grateful to be here with this community. 🤍

If anyone needs someone to talk to, please don’t hesitate to reach out. My door is always open and I’m more than happy to listen. You’re not alone here. 💛

Much Love,

Lex 🤎

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There is one listener promoting her blog on 7 cups ,is it right ?

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat March 18th

@Divinlyblessed0024

Uhm... I think no, it's inappropriate 😕 

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When I asked her why she is doing and it is not right.she blocked me

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat March 18th

@Divinlyblessed0024

Urgh, I'm sry u had to experience this:( anyways, you're in the right side... if possible, report them ❤️ reach out to a experienced listener... who genuinely support u 😊 n we are here for u though 🤗...!! 

Sending lots of love and blessings ur way 💗 Hugs 🤗 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 18th

@Divinlyblessed0024

No.

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User Profile: Jewelmoon17
Jewelmoon17 March 19th

@LexListens2025

I'm bored and tired with so many things to think about.  But life goes on.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat March 19th

@Jewelmoon17

Sry to hear that, Warm hugs ur way ❤️

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User Profile: Lillyszzz12
Lillyszzz12 March 19th

Honestly not great. I relapsed yesterday after 3 weeks of being clean. And I just wanna move in with my mother figure. It's eating me up so much. It's been making me wanna not be here from just being at my own house. And making me relapse. But I know it's really expensive to adopt people. I probably have to wait 4 years till I can move in or near her. I just wanna wake up to her cooking, her laugh, her smile, her voice. I've been watching her tiktoks with her laughing,smile or just her face, but it's not the same as me being witb her in person. She's my reason I'm doing more days. She knows how much I'm struggling so she tells me she's proud of me. I just wish I could hug her but she doesn't like hugs because of her trauma. I just wish I could call her rn but she's sleeping most likely right now. I just need her so much everyday but I'm too scared to ask her to spend more time or see her everyday or tell her how I feel. Which yes I should communicate but I'm scared how she'll react.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat March 19th

@Lillyszzz12

Sorry to hear this, you're not alone... at least not here :) we are with u ❤️

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 2nd

@KexListens2025

Rn, I feel sad I had a bad encounter with a shop owner, he was scolding me in an abusive lan in front of a crowd while I stood there feeling defenceless, apologised and left.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 2nd

@fossilfellow

You shouldn't have had to apologise for his behaviour 🥺💙

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 2nd

@Amanda84 there was some miscommunication and it's again my impulsiveness that caused it :(

Thank you ❤️

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 2nd

@fossilfellow

Shouldn't lead to verbal insults though ever 💙

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 2nd

@Amanda84 ❤️❤️

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The shop owner needs to take a hike. Im sorry that happened to you. ☹️ you dont deserve that and know its not your burden to carry. Shame on that person. You deserve kindness and are always worthy of kindess. 💖 and u dont need to apologise. 💖

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 2nd

@berrycheesecake90 Thank you ❤️

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No worries 😊💖

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Well rn i just feel sad and alone. Silently carrying my emotional weight. Dont got anyone else atm.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 2nd

@berrycheesecake90


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Ty ! 🫂💖

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 2nd

@berrycheesecake90 I'm here for you 💖

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Ty aswell 💖!

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 2nd

@berrycheesecake90 ❤️❤️

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 17th

I feel drained and stuck.

User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 22nd

Very frustrated and hating myself rn.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 22nd

@fossilfellow

Ah please don't hate yourself, you are a kind and caring person 🩷

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 22nd

@Amanda84

😢❤️

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 22nd

@fossilfellow

It's the truth 🩷

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 22nd

@Amanda84 ❤️❤️

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow May 8th

Exhausted and drained

User Profile: Maanlig
Maanlig May 8th

@LexListens2025. This is very obviously an AI generated message. Are there real  people here as well to help people?

User Profile: funnyNest609
funnyNest609 May 8th

I don't know to feel anymore.