If you could...
If you could talk to someone dead right now, who would it be and what would you say/ask?
I'll start - I'd talk to my old friend and apologize for ignoring his texts🕊️
@Yulianaxxp
I would either talk to my sisters or I would tell my gay uncle that I'm a lesbian. ❤️
@LilithEsmery27
That’s really beautiful. I’m sure your uncle would have been so proud of you, and your sisters would have loved to hear your voice again. Love never truly fades, and they’re still a part of you. Sending you lots of love💜🌺
@Yulianaxxp
Thank you so much! ❤️
@Yulianaxxp
Id ask my granny if I will be fine one day.
Id say sorry to her for not visiting her in hospital or her tree, where she is now.
I love you oma ❤️
@Helene7meeee
I’m sure your granny would love to hug you right now and remind you that everything will be alright. Please don’t be so hard on yourself. Maybe you didn’t visit her as often as you wish you had, and maybe you don’t now, but that’s just a place. What truly matters is the love you have for her, and I’m sure she knows it. She’s watching over you and wishes for you to forgive yourself. You carry her in your heart and memories, and that’s far more important than visiting the place where she rests ❤️
@Yulianaxxp
Hmm I would also like to speak to my friend. I always wanted to apologise, but the reason changed through the years.
If I had the chance to speak to him right now, I’d apologise for not feeling sorry anymore. I would tell him that I miss him greatly and that there isn’t a single day that I’m not thinking of him.
@Random28
Grief is complicated and our feelings about it change over time. We aren’t meant to grieve or blame ourselves forever. You don’t have to feel sorry to still love and miss him. The fact that you think about him every day shows just how much he meant to you. I’m sure he’d be happy to know he’s still in your heart❤️
I would talk to my dad as he passed away when I was 4 and I don't remember him at all. I miss him my whole life.
@Chiara117
I’m so sorry. It must be incredibly hard to miss someone your whole life without having memories to hold onto. But even if you don’t remember him, he was there, loving you in those early years. And I truly believe that love stays with you, shaping you in ways you might not even realize. He’s a part of you, always. I’m sure he’s been with you since that day, secretly guiding you, cheering you on, and smiling whenever he sees you happy. Even though you didn’t get much time with him, you’ve kept him in your heart, and that alone would make him so proud❤️
Thank you for your kind words.
I hope he'd be proud of me seeing what I've done, though I don't think I've achieved anything much or special. I wish I had more time with him. I'm sure my life would be different with him around.
@Chiara117
I truly believe he would be proud of you, not just for what you’ve done, but for who you are. Achievements don’t define our worth but your kindness, resilience, and the love you carry in your heart do. And I understand that feeling of wishing for more time. But even though he’s not physically here, his love and presence have shaped you in ways you might not even realize. You’re not alone in this❤️🌺
@Chiara117
@Yulianaxxp
mine would be a close friend to and to apologize for not being there more
@funnyIcicle4679
I’m sure your friend knew how much you cared. It’s easy to look back and wish we had done more, but what truly matters is the love and connection you shared. Grief can be heavy, but be kind to yourself—you were a good friend. I believe they would want you to remember the good moments, not just the regrets. And I’m sure they see your love and understand why things turned out the way they did❤️🌺
Consider yourself forgiven. We can talk to departed the same way we pray. But patience is needed for a response.
Not the scary sermon or haunted kind. The kind loving kind.
Me too
@Yulianaxxp I would tell my daughter that life is HARD without her. That I miss her and need part of her near me every day still. AND I would say I am glad she doesn’t hurt anymore and that I am helping to care for her babies.
@DaSponge
I can’t even begin to imagine the depth of your pain, but I just want to say that your love for your daughter shines so clearly through your words. She must have meant the world to you, and I’m sure she would be so grateful that you’re taking care of her babies. It’s okay to miss her, to need her....grief is love that has nowhere to go. But I hope you also find moments of peace, knowing she’s no longer in pain and that a part of her still lives on with you❤️🕊️
@Yulianaxxp Thank you
That's a tough one it's a tie between my father or my brother. My dad i would give him a hug and ask him for advice like he use to do me for all the time and then I'd ask him to go fishing one last time and hear him say his favorite saying love you later bye and then other would be my brother i would hit him first then i would ask him why he took his life and if he is at peace. And asked him if he watched us after his passing and kept us safe
@KB2025
That’s such a deep and heartfelt answer. The love you have for both your dad and your brother is so clear, and I’m sure they both knew how much they meant to you. I hope you find comfort in the memories, in the wisdom your dad shared, and in the thought that your brother might still be watching over you. Grief is heavy, but love never fades. Sending you strength💪🏼💜🌺
@Yulianaxxp
I would talk with Jesus or my Grandpop, the two people I feel saw/see me as me and not something else. I'd ask them for advice and a long hug, and just some assurance. I miss you a lot old guy!
@7Bear7
That’s such a beautiful answer. It’s so special to have people who truly see you for who you are. I’m sure your Grandpop would give you the biggest hug and remind you how loved and valued you are. And I believe Jesus is always there, offering that same reassurance and love. You can talk to him whenever you need💜🌺
@Yulianaxxp
Thanks! Big hugs! Jesus always got my back
@7Bear7 He's here when no one else is, don't forget it ❤️🌺