Is there anybody out there....

People do care. What helps me is remembering that God is there, He sees you and He's there and loves you without judgement in all your lows and highs.

I can't speak for other communities, but I can tell you in this place we're all people who have gone through a lot. The kindness and encouragement we give is genuine, because we know first hand how much is hurts.

Please connect with a listener or support circle if you feel you have more you want to get of your chest.

The fact you're asking if anyone sees the good in me alone tells me you're a good person, because only someone who's good will even bother to care.

Keep hanging in there, you're doing amazing by being so strong. Things will become better 💚

@Thehollowwoods01, thing is, the hard truth is, other than your biological parents, nobody cares.

The world doesn't see your struggles unless you succeed. Getting someone to care for you is hard but not impossible. It's just that the pond is too much filled with mud and the lotus isn't visible.

Good people still exist but they are so broken down that they chose not to speak. For caring others, start caring about yourself. Because you know what, everyone has been assigned roles to fulfil by the almighty.

The more pain you get, the more you get closer to being someone who cannot be broken from any situation.

@Thehollowwoods01 ❤️❤️

Its easy to say we care - on a digital platform.

Irl too i think some people do care but are limited in their capacity to show that care.

I trust vibes...

I think people care. I think there is a lot of kindness. It just gets a little out of sight sometimes due to how our minds exaggerate the darkness we find around us.

Yes circumstances play a role in well being. But I also think we can work to equip ourselves to find our safety.

Im with you my friend ð§¡

@Thehollowwoods01

Well I totally understand your feeling. These are the questions I have been thinking about too.

I mean the reality is that most people only care about themselves, or at least that they prioritize themselves which is normal. If they are fake to you they are very likely to be fake to others as well so it's the same for all of us, don't worry. So i try to love myself more if others don't care. Many relationships are fragile so it's important that we know what our strengths and values are so that we can live a happy life. If others do not recognize your values then it's their loss. There will be someone (perhaps tehy are on the way) to see how good you are and cherish you

Don't let them discourage you! I see that you are an amazing girl!!! You work hard and someday you will gain more than others~Say something positive to yourself! You are the best!

I pray you meet someone who would care and love you even more than you would do soon 🤗. Be happy and stay strong💪

@Thehollowwoods01 I get this feeling so much. How everything people say feels so… staged I guess? I can’t say that everyone means what they say, I wouldn’t know. But I can say there are people who say things, and they truly do mean it. And while maybe you’ll never know who means what they say, maybe the best thing to do is to act like what they are saying is true? I still struggle with this myself as well so I don’t have a good solution, but I can say this with 100% certainty. There is always someone out there for you. Both to love, and to be friends with. And while it is going to take time to find them, and who knows how long, when you have them in your life, you will not have anything any other way. It’s hard to trust that right now, I know, but the best thing you can do is keep pushing, one second at a time.