Reality Check Thread 😣
Drop one habit you KNOW is holding you back...!! 🤧 Others reply with one blunt advice (no sugarcoating) 💓
I can’t let go of the past.
@lovingPudding8290
Holding on feels like control but it’s just keeping u stuck in something that’s already over
You don’t erase the past. You stop feeding it. every time it shows up, don’t dive in, acknowledge it, but shift ur focus back to now ❤️
You can’t change what happened, but you can decide what it means for u moving forward
Small steps, present actions...!! that’s how you loosen its grip 😊
*Hugs* you're not alone in this <3
Overthinking myself into imposter syndrome 🙂↕️
@angel404101 that's very relatable.
Mine is overthinking :/
I reminisce of the past sometimes.
@peachSky2182
That’s normal, everyone revisits the past sometimes <3
It only becomes a problem when u start living there instead of using it as a reference.
Take what it taught you, but don’t let it hold u still. ur life is happening now, not back then ❤️
Thank you so much That's right. Present is a present after all. It's a gift that should be cherished and enjoyed Past is past, and the past has written to teach us. We must move forward.. Thank you so much! Always, sissy @AiluraTheCat
😁😊💛🌼🫂🤗🌟✨👭☺️⭐
@peachSky2182
Aww sweetie <3 that's was written so beautifull...!! N i completely agree you 😊...!! You're amazing, you'll get through it one day at a time lovie!!
*Hugs* 🤗
@ailurathecat
Reminding myself someone else’s doubt in me is not my truth!
@purpleField1512
Seems like you are seeking for advice but giving 😂😂!! But that was amazing, you rock, sounds more like gentle reminder to me ❤️
Thank you 😊
😂😂❤️🙏 @ailurathecat
Yes it is both a reminder to me and definitely a gentle (sort of haha) reminder I now tell those who doubt me LOL
hopefully something others can also embrace! It’s a reminder to not be afraid to say it out loud to those around you who bring you down and make you question your own reality! (Gaslighting is a real thing)
It took me years to learn that and thankfully my husband started traveling more lately after sending me many mixed signals about wanting a divorce one day and next day not wanting one!
It took him being away and the support of THIS GROUP to realize the level of codependency I had evolved into having!
So now my mantra is his doubt or literally anyone else’s out there in the world is not my truth! It is something I knew back in my younger days but lost along the way through adulthood and marriage and kids!
I had to welcome my younger self back into my thought process while retaining my wiser self at the same time haha if that makes sense!
Others doubts are never our own truth!
I am glad it helped! 🙏❤️😊
It has finally helped me for sure!
I had to learn to disengage and not fall into emotional charged arguments and just observe and see how others act towards me! It took a long time to do but now I see it and they why behind observing instead of engaging!
Porn and weed
@AiluraTheCat i procastinate so much and regret it in the end, im really bad with deadlines and always rush things in the end cuz im left with no time
@notreallyN000f
You don’t have a time problem, u have an avoidance habit.
Stop waiting to feel ready.
Start ugly,
Start small,
Start now.
Deadlines don’t punish u, they expose u. So flip it, create ur own earlier deadline n treat it like it’s real.
Break the work into pieces so small they’re almost embarrassing, then finish one immediately. Momentum kills procrastination.
And be honest with yourself, the stress u feel at the end? That’s the bill for delaying. Pay it early in small amounts, not all at once in panic 😊
You'll make it, you're not alone in this. We got u ❤️
Discipline isn’t motivation, it’s doing it even when u don’t want to ❤️
Hugs 🤗
@AiluraTheCat thankyouu so muchhh this is actually such a good advice omg i really appreciate it 💗💗
Procrastinating everything
Overthinking literally everything and doubting that I deserve the life I have worked so hard to achieve
@VickyBix
Sorry to hear that. Please be kind to yourself.
@trueconfidant123
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