So, This Is What Peace Feels Like?? 💝

This thread is open for everyone to read 🤍

But I just wanted to tag a few people who supported me during my heavy days.

@Amanada84

@Butterfly723389

@SweetSoul771

@curiousSloth

@jesusredeemedme2425

@communicativeJet616

@enthusiasticHouse3272

@RunningMachine

@curiousbookishness

@nzz612

@Paliloveyouself

@fossilefellow

@LexListens2025

Y'all supported me in my hard times intentionally or without even realizing it. But I just want you to know that you truly made an impact on me 🤗 reading all ur replies made me feel lighter 💓

Sending lots Love and blessings ur way ❤️ Hugs 🤗💗 

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@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

You definitely did the right thing letting go.

It's not selfish.

When you are in a dark place, no one else's feelings can or should be prioritised because it takes all you have to get out of it and get to a better place.

We have to fight for happiness.

And joy.

And laughter.

Life's too short.

We have to surround ourselves with uplifting people who have our best intentions at heart and who aid us, not hinder us, and who listens, without making it about them.

I'm so proud of you.

You are capable, strong , resilient and beautiful, and you absolutely have the tools within you to let healing in and light 🩵🤗

Awww offline time is the BEST! I’m so glad you felt peace. I should do that more often <3

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

Reading this fills my heart with so much joy and happiness ailura 🥹💗

im so so proud of u for choosing peace and prioritizing yourself, even when it was hard.. that takes so much courage!

you deserve so much dear and im really happy for youu🤗

hugsiess ❤️✨

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 Hiiii, so happy for u 💗☺️ Some time off can really do wonders 😌🍀 And protecting yourself doesn’t mean you’re selfish 🤗✨

And it’s completely understandable that you don’t really know how to put your feelings into words 😅

I’ve got something to share too: yesterday I had really awesome deep talk with a new friend and I felt sooo understood! 😁☺️

Thight Hugsss to uuu, sweetie 🤗🤗🤗💗💗

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@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
heya dearest🥰

First of all—huge congratulations on finally finding peace. I imagine it like you climbing a mountain of chaos, drama, and questionable life choices… only to reach the top, sit down, and realize the view is actually pretty nice up there. Proud of you for getting to that calm place—it’s not easy, and you earned every quiet moment of it.

Now about the cousin reunion…

From a completely unofficial psychoanalysis standpoint, cousin reunions are basically a live social experiment. Everyone shows up with three things: nostalgia, mild competitiveness, and at least one story they’ve been rehearsing in the mirror since 2009.

There’s always:

• The cousin who suddenly became very successful and casually mentions it every 7 minutes.😑

• The one who asks deep life questions after two Coke glasses👻

• The mysterious cousin who appears once every five years like a rare Pokémon.😂

• And the aunt who gathers emotional data like she’s running family intelligence operations.😭

The real reason cousin reunions exist, scientifically speaking, is to remind everyone that despite the chaos of the family tree, we all somehow grew into semi-functional humans… which is honestly impressive.🙃

But the best part? Watching you there—calm, centered, peaceful—while the rest of the family chaos swirls around like a sitcom episode. That’s growth. That’s character development. That’s the season finale energy right there.🤧

Anyway, I’m genuinely happy for you. Keep that peace protected like it’s a rare artifact. The world (and the cousins) will try to steal it, but you’ve clearly leveled up.😜

Proud of you, always🥰
hugs tight

@Ailuraphile Offline time's best indeed. I'm very happy for you 💖 and no, you're not being selfish for prioritising your peace, it's okay to step back and give yourself some space and time to heal, you can't give from an empty cup ❤️ thank you to sharing your experience with us 🤗 we're all here for you ❤️ Sending you tons of love and *hugs* 🐾💕

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

Wohoooooo I'm SOOOO happy to read that you are feeling much lighter :)
even more happy for the fact that you prioritized your own peace XD (self love) ✌️
Filling your own cup!!!!!! 
oh my gosh, Girl I'm so impressed 😭 

your decision to take a break proved to be fruitful; honestly when there is too much noise inside and out, it's better to take a break to save our energy and to regain the lost power (even superheroes need time to recharge hehe)

And those cousin days sound like pure chaos therapy ... movies, jump scares, laughter, iftar together, grandma’s blessings… so wholesome 🤍

but wait ... not you guys laughing at the ghosts ... poor ghost 😂
I'm imagining the ghost crying in the corner now
The grandma blessing part is so sweet ... Ailura since I'm the first cousin in my whole family, I'm super close with my grandma - I mean she loves me the most and everybody knows this 😁
And guess what I don't have many cousins and the ones that I have are kids so those fun moments with cousins don't exist in my life but I'm blessed with something even crazier - my lil sisters (why does it sound like my little pony) *lmao
our home shows Netflix's never-ending reality shows, chaos and stand-up comedy 24/7.
We vibe with each other more than we vibe with our friends (okay it isn't true I vibe with my friends too but my sisters vibe more with me ... this is what I think lmao)

On a serious but not serious note XD
Ailura, I'm so proud of you for listening to your heart and choosing peace✨
May that calm breeze you’re feeling stay with you for a long time 🌸
Also… now that you’re back lighter and happier, the forums better prepare themselves 😛

Just reading all this sounds so peaceful and...nice..🥹🌸

I'm so happy to know that you finally felt lighter and happier and calm, tbh it's not the sort of feeling once can really describe, (although you did a very good job of conveying the feeling..i guess you just have a way with words 😅) but i can relate to this feeling of yours, it's a strangely good feeling like you can finally fly... And finally breathe, easily..🕊️❤️‍🩹

I can understand closing of some doors is a painful process, but just know that once you close such doors, then nothing unwanted can come through them 🌷

I pray that this blessed month heals you and your sweet soul completely before it departs, and that the tranquility is a lasting one 🌙 ✨

Sending lots of hugs and prayers your way 🫂💐