(TW) What's the worst thing someone ever said to you?
Answer this however you'd like! I added the TW because I feel this thread might contain triggering or disturbing responses, so I'm putting it out there just in case! 💗
Although I can think of many things, I'll start with this: "The warmth in my heart is not there anymore. I know it's an a(censored)hole thing to say, but you deserve the truth.", Bonus: "I don't love you anymore. To me, you're not even significant or important, so why should I pretend to care for any longer? I only put up with you because I thought you would stop with this whole "abuser" nonsense. You're worse than him because at least he has an audience... and you don't."
That's technically two things, but it still works!
A kid a school called me a robot and my own boyfriend said i make everything awkward (when I speak) or how nobody feels anything for me
I used to think it was the disgusting insults I had to hear way too young. But now it's just "I don't believe you."
Something along the lines of... 'the reason you're in (physical) pain is because you chose to do it (an extra-curricular activity), so stop crying and showing a grumpy face'.
Now when I do something because I want to and I come back feeling physically hurt, I try not get any sympathy from this person.
Your the reason everyone’s left you
We aren’t family anymore
@lovingCat6978
Nobody loves you!
hope you get cancer!
the kinder ones. You are split rubber.
thanks dad.
there are far to many to list. It’s the actions that ties into the words themselves that make them cut deeper.
"You're not even trying to make this work" my ex husband during one of our worst fights. It was near the end. We screamed so loud we woke up the neighbors. I barely remember what started it but he had done so many things to hurt me, I was working so hard to make everything better. To fix what HE broke. He only doubled down on his actions, claimed he never did anything wrong. It still sticks with me. I can't tell if he was just trying to get under my skin or if he really doesn't think I was trying. I wish I never did. Wish I ended it when I first thought of divorcing him. But I wanted to make it work. The worst part is that I loved him more than my morals. I let him get away with so much from me. And that will disgust me til im in my grave.
I had someone close to me tell me its my fault for having feelings.
@lovingCat6978 Recently I had a listener pretty much hard handle me when I was in crisis, it was the worse timing for it.