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@fossilfellow

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You're feelings are valid!

You matter!

You are a good person.

You matter.

You deserve to heal.

To not fake anything!

You come on here, welcoming people, giving up your time to make sure they are loved and appreciated, and seen and respected. A good person does that, someone with a big heart, since youve come here, you are a quiet but regular and gentle presence. Know this, and you make me smile 💜💕

@fossilfellow

Your good person....you ALWAYS leave some kind da of comment or gesture on ppls posts who are hurting.....and i think it's cause your hurting and you know the feeling of not being seen or heard, the isolation of feeling.....idk the feeling, I think you understand what I mean when I say idk the feeli g....it's beyond loneliness, sadness, anxiety ....it's all of it, rolled into one.....I've referred to it as " the hollow" not because you feel hollow but it's like a back whole of suffering deep within.....I might be wrong so forgive me if I am......but I think you feel it too. Or you have come close to it. 

I see you.....I feel you.... and you matter, and yes these seem like catch phrases so many others could say to you...but you've read how I feel.....you know I know the pain. That doesnt make me more important or real, I'm  just saying, you know I can relate, that I'm hurting right now too. Im Hurting  so f*** bad. I dont want to be here.....but you made me care.....you did that, just simply by showing you saw someone, or you responded to a lonely forum post.....you are not insignificant.  During my pain (which can be blinding to others pain) I saw you. You ARE important, or I couldn't write  this. Im reading all your posts, your troubles, pains, trials, things your up too....I see you. When ever you feel down or isolated or wonder if you matter ever again....remember, someone who was hurting felt compelled to reach out to you, cause you did the same for them. You are so important. 

I just felt like I needed to write this to you....like .....I needed to. So I hope it had a purpose and I hope if your ever in a dark place it helps you. You deserve it. I wouldn't write if you didnt. 

Thank you, have good day or night. 

Sometimes I wish I wasn't is the only way we can feel about everything that we have going on and self talk we have amongst ourselves. Its easier to give other people words of encouragement. When it comes to self we don't feel like we deserve that same grace we are able to extend to others. Truth be told you deserve just as much understanding and care as we give, if not even more, but if we don't believe it, can't no one else convince us otherwise. Were our worst critics. What has shifted that has changed the way perceive yourself? Try not to be hard on yourself life is about living and learning. Each day if there is something you can think of let yourself know. Even if that means baby steps start somewhere until it becomes a habit and you start seeing all the wonderful things about yourself and or determine the great qualities about yourself. What you tell yourself you start to believe and how you feel about yourself becomes your reality. Please know we at 7cups are here to listen and support you. I hope everything works out for you.

@fossilfellow

 offers hugs 🤗 to you. 

I find you very kind and welcoming. You’re always supporting. 

Take some time for you, you’re not a bad person, just having feelings. Remember they come and go. I appreciate your vulnerability. 

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We love you <3

We love you <3

Im glad youre sharing your heart with us. It usually makes me feel better when I write out honestly whatever I'm feeling.

Look what's happened has happened. I know its easy to erase the past from your mind. Self forgiveness is difficult precisely because the realisation is so strong... and thats also the bright side of the picture. Something within you has already stirred and woken you up.

You can build your future bit by bit. In a way that you stand tall at the end of your journey. You can do this my friend. We are all in this together. You are not alone.

Celebrating learning and growth always,

Creamyyy 💛✨️

@fossilfellow

I just want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this way—I relate to so much of what you wrote. It’s easy to be kind to others but so hard to show the same compassion to ourselves, and that doesn’t mean you’re weak or broken, it just means you’re human. You don’t have to “fix everything” right now—just taking one small step at a time is enough. Please don’t keep all of this inside; talking to someone you trust or even seeking professional help can make things feel lighter. You are not a burden, even if your mind tells you that. You deserve rest, care, and love just as much as anyone else. 💖