sometimes people would just tell me how they feel about me instead of ignoring me
because i cant read minds, i wish they'd just tell me if i ever said something that made them feel upset.. i can always fix myself/my words. :(
@hopefulencounter
That is such a valid want to have, it would indeed be a lot better if people were considerate enough to not ignore/ghost, rather be more mature in expressing and communicating what's wrong.
How do you deal with it?
@hopefulencounter
it seems so logical to be up front and share with others anything that they took offense to, but far to many cannot take constructive feedback. We think we can take it and learn from it but our friends may be afraid of hurting our feelings and such.
I agree when people just avoid/ ignore / ghost all have lost ... a friend. that seems a lose- lose situation.
Why care about those who don't care about you?