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User Profile: GlenM
GlenM March 23rd, 2015

Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!

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User Profile: oaktownchick
oaktownchick April 23rd, 2018

I am starting to talk to people again. Something I haven't done in some years.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 23rd, 2018

@oaktownchick That

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User Profile: cyanOwl994
cyanOwl994 April 23rd, 2018

that i can tell others how i am feeling

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 23rd, 2018

@cyanOwl994 Yay, it's great that you are able to open up about your feelings to others; it is never easy and takes courage. Well done, and thank you for sharing!

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User Profile: Tinycupcake
Tinycupcake April 23rd, 2018

I'm learing that it's okay to be me and to ask for help!

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 23rd, 2018

@Tinycupcake Indeed, asking for help can be challenging, but it pays off. It takes great effort and courage to do so, so props to you! I'm glad that you are embracing self love. :) Thanks for sharing, and well done!

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User Profile: FloweringBunny
FloweringBunny April 23rd, 2018

I learning to show my self some compassion.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 23rd, 2018

@FloweringBunny Yay for self compassion! It can take some time to build up, and I am proud of your efforts. Well done, and thanks for sharing!

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User Profile: SwingOfThings
SwingOfThings April 23rd, 2018

Step 60 - I may have gone backwards a few steps at times but I'm hopeful

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@SwingOfThings Welcome to the community! Congrats on reaching step 60; indeed, progress is never linear. Even if you go backwards, that doesn't mean you fail at all. Setbacks can be learning opportunities. Well done, and thanks for sharing!

User Profile: SwingOfThings
SwingOfThings April 24th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66

Thanks for your support. Things have got worse from here and me and my partner are pushing each other away. I'm not sure if it is salvageable but I hope so. We are both very down and have both joined 7cups. We are also both listening to Pema Chodron which really helps too.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@SwingOfThings You are most welcome! I am so sorry to hear that things are pretty low for you and your partner. I hope that 7Cups has been helping you both out so far. If either of you haven't checked it out yet, feel free to check out the Relationship Support subcommunity here for support and resources. I'm glad that listening to Pema Chodron has helped you both out. We are here for you both; feel free to reach out if you have any questions or concerns. Best wishes to you both, and I wish you two the best of luck!

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User Profile: SentientCozyTeacup
SentientCozyTeacup April 23rd, 2018

I just hit level 50 on my growth path! I've learned some better coping skills so far!

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@SentientCozyTeacup Congrats on reaching level 50! Yay, it is awesome that you have learnt useful, new coping methods. May they help you out in various situations. Well done, and thanks for sharing!

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User Profile: blissedNblessed
blissedNblessed April 23rd, 2018

what I have finally learned:

NO ONE CAN HELP.

No point anymore.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@blissedNblessed I'm sorry to hear you are feeling down. I understand that the best person who can help you is yourself. I believe in you as do many of us here. We are here for you; feel free to reach out to a listener if you ever wish to talk to someone. Best wishes; you are a stronger person than you think.

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User Profile: fearlessStrawberries7966
fearlessStrawberries7966 April 23rd, 2018

I have learned how to relax. I learned that I'm stressing over things that I shouldn't and I'm letting it get to me. And now I'm starting to learn to relax

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@fearlessStrawberries7966 Welcome to the community! I am glad that you are learning to relax and let go. The saying, "don't sweat the small stuff" is definitely easier said than done, so good for you! Well done, and thank you for sharing.

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User Profile: oaktownchick
oaktownchick April 24th, 2018

Leaning not to be so stressed.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@oaktownchick An incredible accomplishment! Managing stress is key for a healthy lifestyle. Well done, and thanks for sharing!

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User Profile: mombrad
mombrad April 24th, 2018

I've learned it's ok to prioritize myself & my family. I thought for a long time that I would be letting others down or disappointing them, but I'm very fortunate that they have been so understanding & supportive. These kinds of decisions are hard, but now I can go forward in a way that is healing & helpful.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 April 24th, 2018

@mombrad I'm so proud that you are making self care a priority! When you are helping/supporting others, it is difficult to do the same for ourselves. I am happy that you have a wonderful support system as well. Well done, and thank you for sharing!

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