A kindness Request please
Hi As some of you know my uncle died
It will be 2 years ago on the 7 th of January 2023 and then in Febuary 2023 my mum received the unexpected shocking deverstating news to say her brother had passed away
as many of you I think may understand and or relate this has left my mum in deep grief she tries so hard to carry on but is grieving so much still, its understandable.
I want to gather supportive messages for my mum to give to her at these time to help her feel more supported
Is there is any honest loving empathic people who would please leave a message for my mum and I will give them to her ?
Her name is Miriam
My mum has a religious hope and belief of seeing her brother Royce again here on earth and this is really good at the moment though the emotional is too much for her to bear and the hope of seeing him again isn't what she is able to focus on
If you are not honest and kind please don't bother posting here you will be dealt with by the site if you cause trouble and I can take it further.
@Farrah17
So sorry for y'alls loss, the loss of a loved one leaves the biggest void there can ever be in our heart, and *personally*, I don't think it is ever filled/lessened or could be "replaced" in anyway. Only B person could do what B did, and only B person could make one feel the way they did. Which is what makes B so special, and which is why losing B is an eternal loss, and nothing else can ever come close. For the love one had for B, they had it *only* for B, soooo ofcourse, they get to express this love through grieving, in whatever way works for them.
Someone very rightly said that “Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” 💛
Deviating a teeny bit from the quote I shared above, I feel the love we hold in our heart for our loved one, doesn't really need a place to "go", we can always confide within the chambers of our heart, embracing the love we shared in the form of cherish worthy memories with our loved ones, who were once around us, who we once could see, hear, touch, be with; this love is only ours to keep, to make us feel all warm and fuzzy again whenever we need. It's inside us and we get to live it all our life! Perhaps this is a gift from the departed? Something we can keep for ourselves to hug us from inside when we really need the comfort!
(I hope I didn't devaiate too further hehe)
Any amount of comforting words could feel less or even "empty", and it is okay, all really valid to feel!
Sooo I'm just sending y'all lots of love and strength to cope with the loss. It's more than okay to take all the time to allow yourself to feel as you do, and do whatever little that helps to feel comforted (even a little bit counts here), while grieving at your own pace! ❤
Super thoughtful and sweet of you to request this, Farrah! Sending many comfy hugs your way to remind you that you're not alone! 🤗
I am so sorry for your mom's loss. It is never easy losing a loved one and some days are harder than others... but we can get through it with support.
I hope that you are able to find peace and comfort by holding onto the past memories of your brother and you. He must have been an extraordinary person and I am sure he knew how much you loved him. Well, do love him. ❤️
Stay up and keep living for the both of you. Keep holding on to the fact you will see him again. I wish you nothing but healing and happiness in 2023. You have people that care about you so you are not alone.
My Allah provide patance to Miriam and her Family.also provide good replace on both worlds. @Farrah17
@Farrah17
To your Mom,
I have lost my mother will be 19 years May of 2023, it is hard because since her passing our birthdays are a day apart in February. She always made Christmas special for me and my older brother as a single parent. I am here to let you know grieving will always happen but I learned to make the best and carry on as my Mom woulkd of wanted.
I try to do things she would be proud of me if she was still alive. Do something on their days of rememberance that they would of liked, going to the beach a song which they loved or movie to have them by your side.
@Farrah17 I am so sorry for the loss of your loved ones and the recent loss of your Uncle..
I do know the grief myself .. I have lost my mom, dad, brother, child, step dad.. it is really hard without a doubt..
Does time ease the pain yes it does but the loss never leaves and the hurt we can feel at times is overwhelming . It hurts it really does.
I do my best to continue on with life and live in knowing I will see them again because I do have my religion.. I believe in God his Son Jesus.. I pray and still talk to my loved ones.
I so wish I could take your moms pain away but I can't so sorry but I will sure be saying some Prayers for her and Please let her know she is not alone at all we are here for her too she can come by and chat with us.
I send many prayers up! Remember them with happy tears and keep that candle lit of theirs .
Tye ❤️
@Farrah17 Hi Miriam and Farrah 💗 I hope you both had a wonderful New Year! I wanted to reach out and give my deepest condolences for your loss. I know how difficult grief can be, especially around the holidays. I want you to know that the whole community of 7 Cups is with you and you are never ever alone! Your brother is always with you and in your hearts forever 💛
@Farrah17As you mentioned she has a religious belief.To your mom,Dont be depressed.Allah tells us to have faith in him till the last breath.You will meet them in Jannah.InshaAllah.Life is full of griefs but we will be rewarded in the end.Praying for you as my mother and the lost ones as my brother and uncle.May Allah grant them Jannah and provide you with relief.Have faith in Allah and we are sure you will overcome this pain. Prayers!A son
Sending more hugs @Farrah17 ❤