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Desiree's Volunteer Journey

Hey y'all, Desiree here. Because of The Gift of Caring thread @Heather225 posted, I have been inspired to share my own story about what brought me to 7 Cups and why I choose to volunteer. 

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I first came to 7 Cups back in 2018-- during which I was at a very low point in my life. As a stay at home mother, an introvert, and homebody I just wanted to do something outside of my kids. I wanted to do something for me again. I wanted to be productive and help people. In the past, I've volunteered many hours giving of myself... so donating my time was nothing new to me. But it was in my past and I missed this part of me. I wanted that part of me back and 7 Cups was a place I knew I could contribute to. Listening ended up becoming therapeutic to me despite my own mental health struggles and I was happy I had something to offer to someone else. 

For those of you who know me, you know I'm a "hopper". I've been a part of this team and that and even that one over there too 😂 but then I end up leaving or resigning. Why you ask? Because with anything I do, I have to have passion or I can't do it. I have no specific title or role, and that's ok because I'm Desiree and I just go where I think I have to offer. I truly believe I have something to offer here and I do believe I have made a difference. 💗

7 Cups has become a safe place for me to be and I've met many amazing people on my journey here. People I have truly grown to care about and love. It's these people (you) that keep me coming back. Because if I felt I had nothing to offer here or nothing to be apart of, then I wouldn't even bother showing up like I do. But I do-- for both you and me.

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With that said, I want to thank those of you who have pushed and inspired me to be better. And thank those of you who have literally impacted my listening journey in ways you can't even imagine. Y'all hold a place in my heart and I will always be grateful. 💜

I am truly happy to be apart of an online community that is filled with support, love, and kindness. Thank you for accepting me and trusting me. It's a great pleasure of mine to be YourCaringConfidant-- literally. Xoxo. 

Love, Desiree 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 9th

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Thank you for sharing your story.

And you absolutely make a difference here.

Your honesty.

Your integrity.

Your enthusiasm.

Your kindness.

Your beautiful posts.

You add to my time here for sure.

The cups community is lucky to have you ❤️

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 9th

@Amanda84 Thank you, 👸🐷. This means so much to me! Awwwww. 🥰 I feel highly about you too. ❤️🩷

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Amanda84 April 9th

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A pleasure 💛

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SolitaryBird April 9th

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Every time I think of you, I think of color and positivity. 😊

Thank you for sharing your journey - it really shows how much care and passion you bring. I hope you keep feeling that sense of purpose and connection here - you truly add something special.

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 9th

@SolitaryBird *wipes happy tears* Awwwww, Solitary! My sweetest 🐦 friend, you've just made my heart smile with your beautiful words. I appreciate it so much. Thank you for all your encouragement and gifts. It means a lot to me. 💙🧡

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TovaCares76 April 10th

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Great post! Thank you so much for sharing!

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 17th

@TovaCares76 Thank you so much. 😀 

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Heather225 April 17th

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your graphics are so freakin cute. thank you for all the encouragement and joy you bring to our community <3

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 17th

@Heather225 This means a lot to me coming from you. Tysm, H! ❤️ 

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trueconfidant123 April 17th

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Hey Desiree, I absolutely loved getting to know you up close and personal. You're such a gem. Your children are lucky to have you. It's not easy looking after kids full-time while also doing something your heart desires. I'm a fellow introvert, and I know how hard it is. But you do it so well, and I admire you for it. I like how you mentioned being a hopper. That's essentially me. I have never been able to serve one role, and I keep switching between communities all the time. Because, like you said and I believe too, I can't do something that doesn't align with my passion.

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I love all that you do so much, and I look up to you. Please keep being you. You're amazing, and your graphics are to die for. Please give me a tutorial if you can, because I'd love to learn from you.

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 17th

@trueconfidant123 Omgggg, TC! You're someone like me! Haha. That's so funny that you're a "hopper". 👀 Seeeee, you get it! People like us have to have passion. It's a necessity and requirement. Doesn't matter how much someone encourages and uplifts me and speaks words of positivity on me... I can try and do it but if my heart isn't it, I can't. Enjoyment and passion has to be there. You've no idea how refreshing it is to know that you can relate to me in that aspect. ❤️ Thank you for all your kind words. You've brought a smile to my face and I appreciate you. Xoxo. 

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trueconfidant123 April 18th

@YourCaringConfidant

I totally get you. You do you. You deserve all the love and kindness. 

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AnnaSilverberg April 17th
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My colorful, caring twin of joy 🌈
I absolutely loved reading your post! 
From the moment we met, I knew we would click because how could we not 💓
Your kindness is endless, your joy is forever and your care is out of this world, 
wherever you go, you happily tell the world and everyone in it that you love them. 
You spread all the warm hearted, caring and kind emotions wherever you go, 
and I've seen that firsthand. I am so lucky to know you and to call you a friend. 
And also, your graphics are and always have been completely out of this world 🚀
I have so so so many positive, kind and caring notes saved from you on my computer,
it's such a heartfelt way for me to remind myself of the good you see in me. 
Thank you endlessly much for being you, the world needs you in it and so do I
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YourCaringConfidant OP April 17th

@AnnaSilverberg Not your comment going all the way straight to my heart. Awwwww, my beautiful twin. 🥰😍 Thank you for this. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I love you. ❤️ Lol, my old phone has soooo many appreciation graphics/notes in it. A album just for it because every one has made me smile and touched my heart. I love it. I love how you do the same as far as keeping them. This is too sweet. You have such a good heart and I'm glad to call you friend and my beautiful twin. Thanks again. 

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CalmRosebud April 17th

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Dear Desirée,

I couldn’t resist putting a few roses on your cupcake for you.

You are unbelievably special and have always made a difference here.

Thank you for being you and lending yourself to this website.

I am honored to know you.

Love and Courage,

Calm Rosebud

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 17th

@CalmRosebud Ohhhhhh myyyyy heart! ❤️ You're such a 🌹 for real. My heart was already smiling big but your beautiful comment just made me 🥰😍. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your loving words and that most adorable floral 🧁 gift! I love it!!!! You best believe I just saved it to my phone. 😀 Appreciate you. 

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PatienceImpatiens April 17th

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Desirée, you scrumptious Cupcake You,

You add so much wonder, magic and art to this website with your loving support you dole out seemingly endlessly. How do you do it? Everywhere you go, you spread happiness.

Keep on being You!

Kindly,

Patience (Pat the Cat)

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 17th

@PatienceImpatiens Lol, omg!!! Not me and you. 😂🤣 I'm literally laughing and cheesin' soooo hard right now. You have no idea! If there's was a way I could pause comments I would because I'm taking too much in at once and it's overwhelming me in a good way. Lol. How can I be so receptive of all this ❤️ at once? I'm sooo moved by your comment, Pat the Cat! All I can really say is thank you! 😊 So, thank you. 

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stormieandpaws April 18th

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we not been on here long but we love 7 cups you been one of the ones that been helpful to us too like you we been online a long time we love helping others listening too

we found ones like you here om 7 cups that care a lot

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YourCaringConfidant OP April 19th

@stormieandpaws This was such a sweet read for me. I can't tell you how much I appreciate these words. Thanks y'all! ❤️ Xoxo. 

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You are SUCH an amazing person <3