Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Things People Who Are Deaf/Hard of Hearing Wish You Knew

If this is part of your life story, please share your insights! What would you like the rest of us to learn? What should we know about people in this community? How would you like people to interact with you? Should people ask questions? What’s the best way for people to learn about this? Do you have any resources (books, movies, YT videos, etc) that will give us greater understanding and empathy and kindness toward people who experience the same things you do?

If you’re not on this journey, please share insights you’ve learned while interacting with those who are, whether family, friends, or anyone else. Share things you’ve read, and ask if they’re true. Share beliefs that you have, ask questions, and more! This is a safe space where you can learn about things you’ve never experienced. <3

Let’s have a gentle, fun, friendly conversation among friends! As a song in one of the Land Before Time movies says, “It takes all sorts to make a world!” <3

9
User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP March 14th

@ShadowFaerie @unassumingEyes @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @sadcat13 @Amanda84 @goldenduckling @mytwistedsoul @Tinywhisper11 @LovemyMoonflowers @GreenLime3141 @7Bear7 @Phoenixthepoised @Torean @GentleHealingInitiative @cyanessence @YourCaringConfidant @CaringEzra @NobleSeeker @fossilfellow @BastionKnight @trueconfidant123 @safeplace288 @lovingCat6978 @reservedOwl321 @dapperNest2125  @Creamyyy @naturesbeauty1234 @bubbleSummer9800 @peachThinker662 @warmheartedHuman836 @Mansbestfriend @Paliloveyourself @Magicpawsoffuture @SelfCareMatters @TovaCares76 @sabeyesofblue3535 @Ailuraphilelove8tear9 @charmingApple8098 @luvArisu @BlueDarkAurora @curiousbookishness @sympatheticPlace3743 @musawva @KindleMissie @WellsFiction @Angelanj @SlappyMcGee @SunshineJazz @LexListens2025

I’m adding a taglist to start, but this post is open to absolutely everyone! <3

User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 14th

@jesusredeemedme2425 looking forward to know people's experiences with these problem ❤️❤️

User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana March 14th

@jesusredeemedme2425


This me ! Am born profound deaf because rare chromosome syndrome it delete some genes need for hearing and make inside ear form wrong 😮 means what ? Hearing aids do nothing and not eligible cochlear 🦻🏽❌ my audiologist give example nahoa stand right next to jet take off still not hear thing 😂


💛am deaf but also am Deaf 🧏🏾 

💛proud be deaf and love be part deaf community 

💛yes is disability in world but is part who am and not feel disable by deafness at home where is adapted for deaf person and everyone sign 

💛ASL my first language 🤟🏾

💛did not learn english until was 10 year old

💛can’t use oral speech at all  

💛when first join cups ASL censor because old text thing but H @Heather225 help me get uncensored so can talk about own language ! 💛🤟🏾💛


🔺But thing make be deaf hard🔺

❤️‍🩹world not made for deafness

❤️‍🩹people not patient don’t try be patient if someone not able verbal communication

❤️‍🩹most places don’t care be inclusive if inconvenient them

❤️‍🩹people be very ableist and hurtful



☀️ Want be deaf ally ? ☀️

🌸 learn some sign language ! not just say want learn because very annoying every time someone find out nahoa use ASL them say oh always wanted learn sign language but almost no one actual do it 

🌸don’t say dumb things like wow you deaf ?! Would  die if can’t listen music ! 😐😐😐😐😐

🌸don’t say stuff like ugh wish was deaf just because things to loud ! My disability and identity not hearing person convenience thing  

🌸be patient when deaf person need accommodation for communication ! Even people can hear some still need know you talking them need look them and maybe need repeat 

🌸most deaf people happy answer questions and share stuff about be deaf about deaf community 

🌸be careful learn sign language online because lot wrong and lot people do ASL social media do SEE signed exact english is using ASL signs but wrong way

🌸YouTube channel 🩷 learn how to sign 🩷 very good actual ASL and teach lot deaf culture and Oklahoma school for deaf do FREE online ASL classes 

🌸most deaf very blunt am sorry if offend but to us normal and not mean it rude way PLEASE not tell us need speak different because different from english or whatever language speak 

🌸if person in public seem like IGNORE stop think maybe them deaf or something before get MAD

🌸if you rude am going talk about you ASL so good luck figure out what saying 😂😂



🩵someone know ASL do not mean know english🩵

🩵there hundreds different sign languages🩵

🩵don’t yell at deaf person we still can’t understand you🩵

🩵am sorry hearing people have hear electricity and leafs and blinking it seem horrible have whole world yell at you all time🥲🩵

4 replies
User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 March 14th

@theboymoana

aww thank you for sharing all of this!!! ❤️❤️❤️

1 reply
User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana March 15th

@peachThinker662


your welcome ! 💛

load more
User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 14th

@theboymoana Thank you so much for sharing your experience 💖 Sending you lots of love and *hugs* ❤️❤️

1 reply
User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana March 15th

@fossilfellow

💛hugs hugs💛

load more
load more
User Profile: pinkLion3646
pinkLion3646 March 15th

I wish they knew where I put my hearing aids. I keep losing them and I know it's at your house. Lol

User Profile: pinkLion3646
pinkLion3646 March 15th

I wish they knew where I put my hearing aids. I keep losing them and I know it's at your house. Lol