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User Profile: lueurspace
lueurspace May 19th, 2021

Hello there lovely community! Today I would like to take an opportunity to appreciate a person who has gone above and beyond with their service for 7 Cups. A lot of leaders have come and gone, their efforts and the work they have done should never be ignored so in order to honour one of those leaders (as we should all of them), I’ve reached out to a group of people asking if they have something they would like to say to this person.

We all know who they are and it’s possible that everyone has at least something to say about them. This person has helped me become so much more in the community, to do more and be more. Before I go on, I would like to first share what other people have had to say about them being an exceptional leader and how they have really made a difference in a lot of individual’s minds.

They have done a total of 1280+ Care Requests, where we reach out to listeners to see how they are doing after reaching out for support. We reach out to them and see if they still have any questions, or if there's anything they need more support with, with regards to their listener role. They have been doing a lot of the Care Team work along with MistyMagic and both of them are the ones who have been handling the Care Team. They have also done almost 100 Coaching Requests and in addition to this they are - AL2 Grader, a Forum Mentor, Quality Mentor, Quality Mentor Leader with a focus on both LCT and CT, have verified 50+ listeners, Teen Transitioning Mentor, Project Agent and even more roles I may not recall right now!

I am talking about @Mango3 Grinning

(This isn't a farewell post for Mango, they have decided to stay and lead the Care Team and continue with some of their other roles. Initially, there was a bit of communication error on my part but I wanted Mango to see all of the responses I've received for them and I didn't want to edit out anything. So while some messages may give a different idea, I just wanted to clarify it Red heart #1 I am sorry for the confusion it may cause, but we are all very happy to know that we have a great leader in the community continuing to support us!)

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@SparkyGizmo

Hi Mango3! ❤️ I should first say hi and introduce myself. I'm Gizzie. I know you may not know me but I know you! If you ask me, that truly speaks to your dedication to the community on 7 cups and that you never even know whose life you are affecting by showing up and being great! ❤️ Kindness matters always and so you have shown this many times on this site. I have really enjoyed your forum posts, the ones with the uplifting messages for all of us. I have come across them a couple of times and maybe in the moments when I needed them the most. I have also seen you in the LSR a couple of times. I thanked you for your forum posts. But just you even being there, in your quiet presence brought me a bit of strength for the day. You see, I saw your screen name and so I remembered some of the wise words you shared with us in the forum areas. I know you have done much to help here on 7 cups and so for that, I thank you. I send you big *hugs* ❤️


@Azalea98

Dear Mango, you were such a wonderful inspiration to all listeners, your dedication to the LCT team is so greatly appreciated and never went unnoticed. It always made me smile when you came to check up on me and see how I was doing. I really believe you are the epitome of what a leader should strive to be. Thank you for all you have done, 7 cups suffers the loss of an amazing leader now you are stepping down, thank you for all you contributed ❤️


@blissart

Mango its sad to see u leaving, u were awesome with ur roles. Just seeing ur passion for ur job, inspired me many a times to make that extra effort . U were like a pillar of the team, taking care of all nuances, motivating , supporting . I understand u have ur reasons and i respect and wish u the very best in all u do here or irl and needless to say You will be missed my dear friend ❤️


@Cristen

I haven't known you long Mango, but I can tell from everyone's thoughtful and heart-warming responses, just how well loved you are and how great of an impact you have been to everyone! Thank you for your contributions on 7 Cups thus far and I wish you all the best in all of your future endeavours!


@enchantedlove

mango, I'm so sad to see you go! i know i have said this so much but i really will never forget you! you have been such a huge role model to me! i think to myself "one day i wish to be a leader like Mango!" I'm not joking haha, you are so inspirational and kind! wherever life takes you i hope you find happiness! with love 💕 ~mary-kate"


@brilliantTurtle89

Dear Mango, you are an awesome listener and an awesome person. I chose you to be my first ever listener twin and am sooo glad I did. Thank you for everything you do❤️


@Chevy81

All I can remember on how @Mango3 and Chevy81 know each other: it was years ago; long before I took years of inactivity from 7Cups. I knew Mango as a hardworking and diligent person then. And when I decided to come back on 7Cups, Mango was the first person who greeted me and welcomed me back. It showed me how thoughtful and caring they are. After I joined the Listener Coaching Team, Mango was assigned to be my buddy. Of course, it gave me comforts and extra courage -- getting a familiar buddy to train me ❤️

It's been awhile now -- since I joined the LCT and get involved in the team's projects. This gives me the opportunity to get to know Mango more and see how awe-inspiring their work, they carefully and conscientiously do each of their tasks. Mango faithfully does their weekly post keeping the team updated. They would give prompt responses to every question that I had. Mango has been a kind and friendly face to (I believe) most of us. Someone that we can count on and turn to whenever we need help or guidance.

Mango's concern about the Care Team is also admirably encouraging. Under their nurture, the Care Team keeps growing, evolving with new ideas; while reaching out and offering support to many more listeners. I feel honored to get to know Mango and get the opportunities to be in the same team with them.

Thank you for everything that you do, Mango!

You are truly one gem that's so precious; don't let anyone tell you the otherwise (not even yourself, please)


@fairyava

I appreciate Mango so much. They have been an extremely helpful friend and mentor throughout my time on 7cups. Much love and thanks, and wish you the best of luck! ❤️ -fairyava


@herealways27

Hey Mango3, thank you so so much for being so kind and welcoming to me! Thank you for always checking in and be a great connection between me and the team. You’ve made my experience with LCT extremely joyful and memorable. I hope that whatever comes next for you in the future will be loving and meaningful!


@whenitsdarklookforstars

Dearest marvellous Mango 🥭❤️, you have always been a supportive, kind, and empathetic fellow listener, who always helped me grow as both listener and person. Your enthusiasm for the community has always always always been so inspiring to me, and I hope to be half as good a listener and community member as you are. Your dedication and commitment to 7Cups is genuinely so beautiful, and I was so honoured to be working alongside you in the Care Team, even if just for a little while. Seeing all the people who felt more welcomed and included because of your initiative is so inspiring and powerful, and I hope you know how much of an incredible influence you are for so many people. Thank you for all you have done for me and for the community ❤️❤️


@musicalHarmony

Mango, our journey together hasn't been very long, but in a very short time I have grown to appreciate your friendship and guidance. The way you see the teammates and makes them feel appreciated surely shows top quality leadership. You are truly someone to look up to and learn from an inspiration for so many people here on 7 Cups. I know you have left your footprints here and I'll be happy to walk in them❤ You are amazing.

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@Tyedyedbutterfly65

Mango, Thank you for being a big part of our 7cups Team , You will missed and remembered for all your hard work! Take care and know we will welcome you back if you do decide to come back with the 7cups Team/Family. Tye ❤️


@SuryanshSingh

Good day, Mango! Working with you and getting to know you very well has been a true pleasure. We will be eternally grateful to you for what you have done for the community. Thank you for your significant contribution. It is heartbreaking to see you go, but I completely understand why you made this decision. You are the best judge of yourself, and I have faith in you. No matter wherever you be on this life's path, my best wishes will always be with you. Your wonderful presence will be missed forever. ❤️


@hopedreamlove

Mangooo, thank you so much for everything. You have done so much on 7 Cups, and all your hard work, kindness and support has been greatly appreciated. I have enjoyed each and every one of our conversations, even though they may have not been long they have always been fun. You are a really funny, sweet person and I will miss getting spammed by you lol. Wishing you the very best in your next chapter of life, I’m sure you will be amazing ❤️


lueurspace

Mango, I believe that we have not really known each other for so long in regards to time, but in every other way, it feels like you and I have been very old friends. This post, however, is not to appreciate you for how good of a friend you've been, rather it is to show you, how much of a good leader you've been within the community. I still remember the day you reached out to me with a Care Request and I shared a bit about how I was with my listener journey. You actually stayed with me and even offered to do a mock chat right at the spot when we talked. That shows how much you are ready to give to others what they may need. You helped me realize a lot of things - what I'd like to do more of in the community, what can I do for the issues that I am facing with my role as a listener and every other question I had. I remember asking you endless questions every now and then, yet you give me time and answer all of them for me.

A lot of work for LCT (Listener Coaching Team) and CT (Care Team) goes behind the scenes. People don't get to see the breakdown of how much we are doing for both teams. You are a leader who has stayed on the dashboards and checked up on so many things. You keep an eye on every request, make sure it is rightly made, add the link if it is not there just so that we won't have to do the extra step to manually search for the listener. You have been consistent with posting updates, posting the reviews, privately messaging EVERY person on the team to encourage them, to just say, "you are doing amazing!" That encouragement really goes a long way, Mango. You also have some other roles on the site - quite a lot. Yet, your dedication to each of them is something that never fails to amaze me.

Here's to you being one of the exceptional leaders of 7 Cups. I wanted you to see this post because of how much compassion and support you have shown to everyone who is a part of LCT and CT. This is to share with the community how there are so many people who are doing so much work behind the scenes, who don't always get credited for how much they are doing here in the community. It has been hard for all of us. There are things for which we don't have an answer, yet. But still, you offered everyone to PM you if they have any questions. You have shown time and time again just how much of a good leader you are, Mango. You have done great work so far and I am sure, moving forward, there are just greater things to see for all of us from you.

Tagging some people who wanted to be a part of the post but their responses haven't been included yet: @ShneurZ @considerateParadise6717 @KindnessMatters2020 @crystalclearnow @DonaldDraper - I hope I didn't miss anybody!

Tagging some more leaders in the community: @ASilentObserver @Heather225 @Asher @Gracey @MidnightRaven999 @Power @Hope @EvelyneRose @anotherfrenchtoastclub @SoulfullyAButterfly (I know I have not tagged all the leaders, I just tagged the ones I've had the pleasure to come across)

We appreciate all the leaders who are working so hard for the community, I appreciate you all for doing a lot of things behind the scenes too. You all are certainly making a difference here, I wanted to take the opportunity to appreciate one of them who is someone I have had the pleasure to work under. I hope this post inspires a lot of other people to show their gratitude and appreciation for other leaders!

Mango, you are truly valued here in the community. You have done way more than your fair share of contribution. You are someone who is always there for other people and I want you to just know how much of a difference you've made here in the community. Please just stay the same and know that so many of us appreciate you! You bring great value to 7 Cups! Red heart #2

You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.

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whenitsdarklookforstars May 19th, 2021

@lueurspace

This is such a marvellous post 💗 It truly shows how we come together as a beautiful team, and especially how the incredible @Mango3 helped build the amazing community that we have today 💙

Reading these messages was truly so gorgeous, and it is literally so awesome to see how one person can have such a meaningful impact on so many people 💖

I would also like to give a special thanks to you, Lueur, for putting this amazing message together and going literally above and beyond to show yours and our gratitude ❤️

I appreciate you so much Mango, and all of you reading this! ❤️

I am infinitely thankful for being part of such a strong, supportive, united community! 💗

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User Profile: Mango3
Mango3 May 19th, 2021

@whenitsdarklookforstars I appreciate you just as much!!! you are amazing and you yourself are doing amazing work here on cups! You are truly a bright Star!!

Make sure you are happy in real life not just social media - Unknown

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May 19th, 2021

@lueurspace Thank you for the hard work you put into creating this post.

@Mango3 a bigger thanks to you for being an awesome leader and contributor on 7cups. Your efforts may not have been seen by all, but surely it has helped a lot of people in the community (including me). You may have let go of your roles but your awesomeness will stay with you. Red heart

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Mango3 May 19th, 2021

@DonaldDraper Thank you!! Stay amazing!

Make sure you are happy in real life not just social media - Unknown

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SparkyGizmo May 19th, 2021

@lueurspace @Mango3

What an amazing moment for me to reply to this post with love and gratitude in my heart! heart It's a great day for 7 cups, a great day for any and every person on this site! Mango, thank you for staying here with us smileyheartangel Your great work is much more powerful than you may have ever realised! Seeing everyone with their responses is a true testament to the great work you do here!

Sometimes I have to think, that our work here on this site is like the wind, well, you can't prove that it's there, you can't touch it, grab it, trap it in a bottle. You can't taste it, smell it, eat it. It's intangible. You never know in which direction it will turn. But somehow, you just know that the wind is there. Sometimes you just feel it on your face and blowing through your hair. And so, you believe, and you know that the wind truly exists. We can't see the wind, we just can't. But........we can see the power of it's after effects. I think this speaks to the work done behind the scenes, things that never show up on our profile pages, things that people do with no credit but do it for the love of the game, for true dedication to the site and dedication to everyone here on it. For *true grit*.

Mango, thank you, once again! heart

I guess we as people love to be right! If feels good to be right now doesn't it? I like to feel right if it is for the right reasons. Thank you LSpace for this amazing post and thank you Mango for staying here with us. Abracadrabra.............I'm right..........the magic happens here every day here on 7 cups! You just have to look for it or create it! big *hugs* heart

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Mango3 May 19th, 2021

@SparkyGizmo Thank you for your beautiful words and you have described it so well when it comes to the work people do behind the scene here on cups, You are a friendly face people will always see in LSR, don't ever change that for anyone! Stay awesome and amazing just the way you are!! The legends have it that Abracadabra is an Aramaic word that means “What I Speak Is What I Create"

One of my favorute words to use in life lol Red heart

Make sure you are happy in real life not just social media - Unknown

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SparkyGizmo May 19th, 2021

@Mango3

I must say, that was a powerful moment right then.surprise Sure is amazing when the universe speaks and things come around full circle now isn't it? "What I speak is what I create". Everything happens for a reason. The universe has spoken (I've been listening). I think in some ways it started speaking some time ago around here and the magic is getting traction and simply catching up heart. I believe as you believe. I see the power in creating the magic around here also! There is power in authenticity! Big ways, small ways. All are valued. Small things can add up to very big things. We all have the power to create magic around here every single day! *high fives* my friend and big *hugs* heart Abracadabra!

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Mango3 May 19th, 2021

@lueurspace Ooo WoW! I still have no words lol, I know I have a lot to say when I'm in all of your pm's but this time you all have me speechless hahaha I was also thinking that maby you all are speaking of someone else. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU! This has been the most amazing surprise ever! Thank you Lu for putting this together and working so hard on this! Thank you to each and everyone for your messages, when I read the messages water was coming from my eyes and I looked up to see if it's raining, and I realized I'm indoors hahaha, yes it was tears of thankfulness, happy tears, and tears of joy to know I have all of you in my life and that you all make 7 cups a better place! I have said this before but I want to remind you all again. I am the leader I am today because of all of you! Thank you all for doing such amazing work here on cups as well and to all the other leaders out there you are all making a difference!

@Chevy81 See I still speak and write English deliciously lol

@SparkyGizmo @Azalea98 @blissart @Cristen @enchantedlove @brilliantTurtle89 @fairyava @herealways27 @whenitsdarklookforstars @musicalHarmony @Tyedyedbutterfly65 @SuryanshSingh @hopedreamlove

Make sure you are happy in real life not just social media - Unknown

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SparkyGizmo May 19th, 2021

@Mango3

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Chevy81 May 20th, 2021

Thank you @lueurspace for organizing these lovely responses for such an amazingly valuable Mango3. These responses are so heartwarming and remind me of how positively supportive this community can be.

The title reminds me of a saying, "If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles." this is what Mango3 do. Of course, it doesn't mean that anyone can force them to do anything (small words of advice: it's best not to try to do that). It takes a lot of courage and efforts to make a difference. The journey of making differences is surely not easy but in every step, there lies valuable lessons to learn and treasure. Disappoinments and moments that might feel like setbacks are familiar. But then again, these experiences might force us to go above and beyond our fears (we go two miles instead of just one), they may surprise us at how brave and strong we are. Always looking forward to see how everyone will shine brighter..

@Mango3 not sure how you literally speak, but you do type English lol more importantly you always figuratively speak with much care. And yes, mangoes are undeniable delicious eh

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Mango3 May 20th, 2021

@Chevy81 Like you said we know each other from years back and still I am amazed at the wisdom you have! Thank you for always be my calm and safe place to go to when I need it, you are an extraordinary human and leader!!

Make sure you are happy in real life, not just social media - Unknown

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SoulfullyAButterfly May 21st, 2021

@lueurspace Thank you for tagging me in this wonderful post. Appreciation is kindness and acknowledgement that goes a long way.