WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN JULY 1ST, 2023

@PoliteOcean

Would you feel comfortable posting a pic of your pup on the float in the pool? I'd love to see that and I'm sure other 7cupers would love to see it too. :)

@Regmo

Hey there Regmo~ Thats good that you feel you are finally seeing some improvement with the wound. I suppose you could always try something different. The part that is concerning for me would be how long you stated the wound has actually been there..... Thats too bad that your dermatologist has been gone for so long! Wow, a month is a long time. I wonder if maybe they have another one helping out in his/her place? Or even if they have a practitioner that helps out.... Honestly, I personally tend to see a Practitioner for many of my appointments as it always seems I'm able to get in quicker, (and out quicker too). And don't have to wait a ton of time to get an appointment! Hopefully you will continue to see improvement with the route you are taking. Thats too bad to hear that Yolanda didn't work out for you. But its great that your agency is on top of sending you a list of potential caregivers. Hopefully you will hear from one soon and things will work out better next time. Thats great for you that you were finally able to get in some reading time. I know how much you enjoy doing that and trying to keep up with your studies. That is so odd that none of the people in charge of handling the home that you live in have no type of training. I'm not sure what the whole situation is or the background there. I suppose anyone can live anywhere. But if they are getting money to provide any type of medical services then to me that would suggest "fraud" of some sort?! I thought I remember you telling me once that Leslie was at least a nurse??.....I know of "CNA's" (Certified Nurse's Aides) who end up running their own businesses by opening up a "home" of some sort, and take in a couple of people to care for. And I suppose even that is not a requirement depending on the situations... (meaning, anyone can help "aide" someone, if they aren't actually providing any "in-depth" medical care). But again, I'm not fully aware of the actual situation of the home you are in. Thats good if Dennis is staying away from your toiletries...(didn't he take it from your room the last time)??..... Hopefully you found a much better hiding spot! Not sure if you have seen an eye doctor for your eye fatigue? Hopefully when things come together better with getting a caretaker for yourself, you can set up an appointment to get that checked out. Not sure if you wear any type of "lenses" at all... but maybe that is an issue as well? Afterall, you do like to read alot. Maybe that might play apart in how your eyes are feeling? They say we need to get our eyes examined at least once a year! I am totally behind on my own exam. And need to get something set up for myself as well. I wear glasses for TV, and night-driving.... but Now I notice I even need them more during the daytime driving as well. I guess it all goes along with the older we get, the more we have to keep things updated for ourselves! Thats good that Leslie is at least staying on top of temperature control! I can't stand being hot/cold.... Its certainly nice to have things just right when it comes to that. How have your night-sweats been? Thanks for checking in this week to share, and for continuing to keep us up to date on how things are going for you. Please let us know how things continue with the caregiver search. Good Luck!

@purpleTree4652

Hey there Tree~

I admire your goals in continuing on your job search. That is really great that you are so focused with that and wanting to do better for yourself! That is awesome that you will focus on applying for more scholarships as well. Hopefully all of that will prove to be beneficial to you! Good luck, positive vibes! You've got this

Hopefully you (and your kitty) can get to see the fireworks display this year!... I've never had a cat, so I'm not sure how they react to things like that? Or if they even react at all (in comparison to dogs that is).

I think your plan for the weekend sounds like a really awesome one.... its always a good day to work on improving your mental health & meditating, taking care of our pets & playing with them (a favorite of mine as it also ties into our mental health!),... as well as working on goals and interests! Keep up the great work you are doing!

I think if you decided against the student loan, then you made the right choice for yourself. I don't blame you for not wanting to pay ridiculous interests rates. No way!.. But don't fret, when there is a will, there is a way. And I can feel your determination to succeed in your goals. You are going to do great things. Keep going... and you will find a way!

Thank you so much for checking in this week and continuing to share with us. And letting us know how things are going for you. Please continue to keep us updated!

@betsi77

Hey there... Sorry to hear that you've been going through a challenging time. That can certainly be difficult. But you have also certainly found the right place for support here at 7cups. Just know that we are here for you, through the Subcommunities/Forums, to Group Support, as well as personal 1-1 chat with a listener. Also please consider taking a look at our other Group Support Sub-communities here (Depression Support, Anxiety Support, etc....) There are many avenues here to get the proper support that you may need during this time. Again, everyone is here for you. Positive vibes your way, and thank you for checking in to share with us. Please keep us updated on how things are going.

@bheretolisten02

Hey there~ Thats great for you that you are doing good and have enjoyed the weekend!

@CyclingThroughLife

Hello there Cycling!... Its great to hear from you again. Glad to hear that you are doing Ok. Its nice that you were able to take some time off and have a long weekend (and getting away from work stressors). I know too well myself how that can improve our mood!... I hope that you are able to continue enjoying your time off, and leave the work "at work"! Enjoy your time off!

I do remember you saying in one of your last check-ins that you were looking forwards to your getaway to see your Grandkids. How exciting for you. How many do you have? What things will you be doing together or have planned with them? I have no doubt that you will be able to enjoy your time with them and leave all your worries behind.

Its always nice to look ahead at our finances and take note of where we can do better and how we can manage to do that. Especially if we have goals that we want to accomplish. The thing to ask yourself is how bad do you really want to achieve that goal for yourself, and what steps you are going to take to get there. Then make a plan and implement them! However, sometimes, people also just go with the flow, and when they have "had enough" of a certain situation, they just take the plunge and get out of it. I have had to do that myself a time or two, (even though I'm a planner)... But its always worked out no matter which way I've had to go. Change can certainly be difficult. But sometimes its for the better when we don't or may not even realize it! And when you find yourself "burned out", thats when change is certainly "Necessary"! Otherwise it just affects your mental health and eventually your physical health as it all goes together. And you've already admitted that this place isn't good for your well-being. So you have your answer.... You can do this and whatever you set your mind to do. Just know that you've got to do whats BEST for YOU! Good Luck!

Sitting at home, playing games with loved ones, sounds like a perfect time to me! Enjoy!

We hope to hear more about whats "on your mind" and looking forwards to seeing more of your post! Please keep us updated on everything and how things are continuing to go for you. We are here to support you. And we thank you for checking in this week!

@EmbStitcher33

Hey there Stitch!.... (hahaha.. I like your answer) "Dishes"... Yes, I agree, I don't even like doing them at home let alone on a vacation!

Its nice to have you stop by and say hello to us this week.... I know we can't always have the best of days. And sometimes the simplest of things can surely be a struggle. (I know how that feels) today was one of those days for me too... low on energy, and lots to tidy up as well) lol.... But yes you have the right idea of simply doing one thing at a time. I know when I finally get done, how calm and relaxed I feel when it comes to a clean space and organization (OCD here)!... It certainly can improve our mental wellbeing. Good for you for knowing your limits, and taking one step at a time. It will come together. Keep up the great work.

Yes I agree... I feel its really important as well to support "everyone" here. Liking and hearting, can go a long way in someone else's day. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom with everyone. And for taking some time to check-in this week. Please keep us updated on how things are continuing to go.

@nordurnStar

Hey there Star, sorry to hear that you've had a challenging week, but its really great that you are staying positive to make it a better one!

Yes moving can be both a stressful (as well as an exciting) time. Hopefully things will continue to come together for you where they need to. I'm sure once they do, it surely will feel much better for you.

I agree! NO WORK PERMITTED on vacations!...I know depending on the type of work one has that sometimes it just can't be avoided. (I can recall a vacation not too long ago where my husband had to work at Mid-night online, while we were also on our Anniversary) 😕 Not fun...

Yeah its certainly not great to continue feeling "dread". Surely when we feel and experience that, we must identify the issue, deal with it, and do our best to keep moving forwards. (Sometimes easier said than done of course)... But its great that you are doing what you can, and that your own thoughts are telling you to "Keep going"!.. They say "Mind over Matter" right?! Good for you, keep up the great work there.

Thank you for sharing with us this week, and continuing to let us know how you are doing and how things are going for you. By the way, ....How was your family get-together?!