Course 1, Discussion 2: The Big 5

@Hope

✒️ What were the main things you learned about yourself?

I learned that I value originality and creativity, which is good, but that often comes at the cost of not always being able to do things in an organized manner, which needs work, because I'm always looking forward to the next big thing, which is good, thus overlooking the importance of the small, every day, boring things, which needs work.

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?

My strengths according to the Big Five test:

• Open-Mindedness (96 percentile)
• Extraversion (82 percentile)
• Agreeableness (72 percentile)

How they can help me in my personal life:

• The constant itch to be original and creative and have novel experiences can allow me to experiment with new ways to bring about positive changes in the world around me.

• The ability to easily absorb new perspectives can allow me to connect effortlessly with individuals from varying backgrounds and diverse stories.

• Being agreeable and generally considerate of others' feelings can allow me to be a better active listener, both on 7Cups and in my personal life.

My strengths according to the MBTI test:

ENFPs are known to be:

• Curious

• Energetic and Enthusiastic

• Excellent Communicators

• Friendly

How they can help me in my personal life:

• Being curious can help me be a great conversationalist, and in turn, a great listener (as long as I keep peoples' boundaries in mind).

• Enthusiasm, if channeled constructively and productively, can bring about a transformational change in my personal life, as I can sometimes struggle with a lack of motivation to do the boring yet important stuff (monthly finances, ugh)

• Being friendly and a decent communicator can allow me access to different perspectives, which will allow me to broaden my mind and my ability to think and perceive.

@Hope

✒️ What were the main things you learned about yourself?

it was interesting to me to look at the chart of my different traits.  Most of them were pretty much in the center except for the one about being helpful trusting, and empathetic.  That was off the chart all the way to the right.

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?

my strengths are helpful, trusting, and empathetic.

My strengths from both tests help me to have fulfilling relationships.  I am naturally a person who likes to help others and as such, I usually have a lot to offer in my personal and professional relationships.

@Hope

✒️ What were the main things you learned about yourself?

  The results were pretty accurate for my current personal life (not work):

1.  Open-mindedness - 53% percentile - I don't typically seek out new experiences (true, now)
2.  Conscientious -  14% percentile - Messy (true)
3.  Extraversion - 30% percentile - Shy away from social interactions (true, now)
4.  Agreeableness -  46% percentile - Neither extremely forgiving, nor irritable ( true, now)
5.  Negative Emotionality - 44% percentile - Not particularly nervous, nor calm (true, now)

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?

 Both tests showed my strengths as being relatively well-rounded and level headed. These strengths can have a very positive impact in my personal life being able to deal with/cope with uncertainty, unexpected issues - whether mental, psychological, physical.

@Hope

✒️ What were the main things you learned about yourself?

I learned that I tend to get nervous, but that I am very agreeable and conscientious. I was kinda 50/50 with closed-minded and Open to new experiences, I think it's due to me likely becoming nervous about new experiences, hindering how I live.

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?

Open-Mindedness: Somewhat conventional.

Conscientiousness: Well-organised and are reliable.

Extraversion: Probably enjoy spending quiet time alone.

Agreeableness: Good-natured, courteous, and supportive.

Negative Emotionality: Tend to become anxious or nervous.

@Hope

What were the main things you learned about yourself?

the main things i learned about myself is that i am conventional and that i am very open minded and very socialable.

What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?

Open-Mindedness-You are somewhat conventional.

Conscientiousness- You tend to do things somewhat haphazardly

Extraversion- You are neither particularly social or reserved.

Agreeableness- You find it easy to express irritation with others.

Negative Emotionality-You aren't particularly nervous, nor calm.

it can help me in my personal life by helping me with jobs and knowing more about certain traites i have 

I learnt how reserved I am. I love my space and quiet time. 

My strength are open mindedness and conscientiousness 

@Hope

✒️ What were the main things you learned about yourself?

I learned that I am able to open up easily to people about my emotions which is still something I am learning to do.

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?

Open-Mindedness

        High scorers tend to be original, creative, curious, complex; Low scorers tend to be conventional, down to earth, narrow interests, uncreative.

        You enjoy having novel experiences and seeing things in new ways.     (Your percentile: 94)

Conscientiousness

        High scorers tend to be reliable, well-organized, self-disciplined, careful; Low scorers tend to be disorganized, undependable, negligent.

        You are very well-organized, and can be relied upon.     (Your percentile: 89)

Extraversion

        High scorers tend to be sociable, friendly, fun loving, talkative; Low scorers tend to be introverted, reserved, inhibited, quiet.

        You tend to shy away from social situations.     (Your percentile: 30)

Agreeableness

        High scorers tend to be good natured, sympathetic, forgiving, courteous; Low scorers tend to be critical, rude, harsh, callous.

        You find it easy to express irritation with others.     (Your percentile: 23)

Negative Emotionality

        High scorers tend to be nervous, high-strung, insecure, worrying; Low scorers tend to be calm, relaxed, secure, hardy.

        You are a generally anxious person and tend to worry about things.     (Your percentile: 87)

@Hope

✒️ What were the main things that you learned about yourself? 

I've learned so much about myself and it's been quite an eye-opening experience. One thing that really stood out to me is that, despite sometimes coming across as a bit skeptical about challenges, I actually love taking risks and diving headfirst into new experiences. There's a thrilling sense of adventure that comes with stepping into the unknown, and I find it incredibly exciting.

Another fascinating aspect that the test revealed is my openness to new ideas. I have this genuine thirst for knowledge and a curiosity that drives me to explore fresh perspectives and innovative concepts. Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations that spark intellectual growth is far more fulfilling to me than engaging in pointless small talk. I crave those thought-provoking discussions that expand my horizons and challenge my analytical thinking.

Moreover, the test highlighted my extroverted and confident nature. Being around people, connecting, and engaging in social interactions truly energizes me. I feel at ease in social settings and enjoy the excitement and liveliness that comes with it. It brings out the best in me and allows me to express myself freely. I'm not afraid to assert my ideas and opinions, and I believe that my confidence plays a crucial role in personal growth.

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test?

Open-Mindedness: You enjoy having novel experiences and seeing things in new ways (Percentile: 98%)

Conscientiousness: You are neither organized or disorganized. (Percentile: 53%)

Extraversion: You are extremely outgoing, social, and energetic. (Percentile: 96%)

Agreeableness: You are good-natured, courteous, and supportive. (Percentile: 89%)

Negative Emotionality: You tend to become anxious or nervous. (Percentile: 65%)

✒️ How can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life? 

I have found my results to be extremely accurate because I answered the questions truthfully. Overall, the Big 5 Test has provided me with deep insights into who I am as a person. It has given me the opportunity to answer without feeling ashamed that some percentages might indicate negative qualities, helping me provoke self-acceptance and curiosity. It has shown me that beneath any initial skepticism lies a passionate risk-taker who craves new experiences. It has also reinforced my love for intellectual stimulation and meaningful conversations, while highlighting my extroverted and confident nature. This newfound self-awareness empowers me to embrace my strengths, continue growing, and fully embrace the wonderful journey of self-discovery.

✒️ Please reply to at least 1 of your peers with encouraging or supportive words!

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Thank you for this amazing discussion! 💗

~ Xaverie

@Hope

✒️  were the main things you learned about yourself?

- I can be shut off from other folks and not speak about what I am feeling.

- I may not notice or feel like I am judging someone, however I may be doing that without knowing I am. 

- I worry a lot of the time!

✒️ What are your strengths as per the test and how can the strengths you identified on both tests help you in your personal life?✒️

Open mindedness: I did not score as high as I was hoping for this area, maybe it is a good thing maybe it is a bad thing, who knows! It shows I have some things to work on in this area  

 Conscientiousness: According to my results I am not an organized person nor a disorganized person! I question if that is good or not, however one of my goals from this quarter is to be more organized so perhaps this is a sign of progress or something needing to be changed to make me successful!

Extroversion: There seems to be a trend as for this one I did not score in the social or non social area just in the middle! I think I am not a super talkie person but I also like talking to folks! Just not all day! I think this is a strength as I can get tired and warn down from talking to folks, but also have the courage to be able to talk to folks.

Agreeableness: I am very proud of this school I was extremely high which is great to see! This means I have a lot of support in me as well as other things, I no doubt think this is a strength in so many different ways! I enjoy being able to lend folks a hand so being supportive and caring is a great thing to have.

Negative Emotionally: This I did not score where I would have like to, but that is okay! I knew this was a struggle of mine, but something I have personally been working towards and getting better at! The overall strength here is not the emotions (the negative ones) but the fight to over comes those worrying and anxious thoughts, and just learning what makes me feel better and how to cope with these things!

~ Regan