Thriving on your own without feeling lonely
Daily Check-in June 16th to June 18th 2025
Some people are atually happy being alone, no one to answer to, no fightings and living a peaceful life. Other people who live with others do not know how to adapt at times to being alone. What are ways that when we are alone we can thrive further.
Ways to adapt to being alone:
Advoid comparing you to others: We are all different in how we deal in our lifrestyles no two people are the same. We handle stress, depression and life styles different.
Taking a step back from social media: Social media is not bad for us but scrolling through sites that when we are stressed or left out do not tell the whole story. Sometimes distancing our social media times can help us in being alone.
Taking a break from our phones: Cell phones and social media have shaped the concept of being alone. Sometimes we do not answer our phones to stop drama from those friends or not answering because we are enjoying the quiet time.
Taking time away for everything: There is nothing wrong in taking the time to be alone, it helps us reboot our life and see it in perspective. We change things needing a change and work on things to have a healthiuer life style.
Do something for you: take yourself out on a date, just you no one else. Do the things you love to do when your alone: read a book, watch a t.v. show only you love, create a hobby that includes you.
How do you feel when you get time for yourself?
What are some things you love doing alone?
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How do you feel when you get time for yourself?
I usually feel calmer when I’m alone. I get to do what I want. I don’t have to deal with disappointing people or being hurt.
What are some things you love doing alone?
I like organizing the house, traveling, walking outside, and playing games alone.
Maybe I have been comparing myself to others too much. I feel like I shouldn’t be alone, but it honestly feels like a disaster when I’m around other people. I feel like I don’t fit anywhere. But I hardly know if I truly want company anyway. I’ve been so long without deep connection, I’m just different now.
@pamharley003
How do you feel when you get time for yourself?
due to our past we like being alone now. for us at first after we moved 8yrs ago it was hard. not due to being alone as much as due to no loudness and fighting no abuse. but now we love being alone at times. but we try to balance being alone and being around others. we find being alone many many days is mentally unhealthy. so we try even if just going to store on bus to get out. most weeks we have one or more doctors appointments too.
What are some things you love doing alone?
when alone we love just being within the quietness. yes we have many here and talk to each other in head, but that way different then being with other people. we also do painting, crafts, journaling. we listen to music some or watch a movie on amazon prime. at times we come online to chat too. that helps due to we can talk to others even when alone offline. as many know we fully disabled so not work and home in bed a lot too. so online for us give connection to others.
it also important to take time away with being online. just to do self care and well a break from others to help one just be too.
@pamharley003
How do you feel when you get time for yourself?
What are some things you love doing alone?
I very much enjoy having a free day with no obligations and usually take it in the weekend to just do what comes to my mind whether it is reading something that interests me or learning something new.
@pamharley003
I am an introvert, so I am energized when I get alone time. I can only handle so much though. Also with teenagers at home sometimes I feel alone when they are there as they ... well are teenagers...
How do you feel when you get time for yourself?
I feel rested.
What are some things you love doing alone?
I don't watch a lot of tv, but sometimes when I am alone I will bingewatch a good show and rest my body on the couch. I also like to plan my day or week.
@pamharley003 I love alone time, it allows me time and space to process, and deal with the events of the day, to communicate what I need. When you are truly comfortable on your own, then you don't fall for anyone else's bluster and you let people into your life that enrich in, and not just because you fear being alone 🥰💜
Thank you @pamharley003 ✨🙏🏽✨
I love being alone… go to the movies, to the beach, to enjoy a delicious morning coffee at a nice spot… I know that I am not alone but with myself: enjoying my own company✨
Lately, I have been feeling that it would be nice to share more time with someone, to have a special friend 😊✨