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I have decided to move on.

User Profile: Sonowwhat
Sonowwhat March 28th, 2025

I have decided to move on.

I do not know how.

I am not even sure I am necessarily convinced.

But if I do not, it will forever hold power on me.

And that is the part I CAN control.

Thus, I will not allow to control from here forth.

I repeat. As of this morning, I had no idea how I will forgive and move on.

But I must move on.

And I think saying it out loud and repeating more than once is step number one.

Maybe acknowledging what I need to do first will help subconsciously clarify step number 2.

It is all about the little steps in life.

I decided to move on

I will move on.

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User Profile: onwardforevenmore
onwardforevenmore March 28th, 2025

Yay!! Onward! Every closed door is another one opening :)

Dream big

Aim high

second/next changes are wonderful opportunities :)

Great refocus and reframe!

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User Profile: Sonowwhat
Sonowwhat OP March 28th, 2025

I appreciate you. Thank you for the boost. We all need one!

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 March 28th, 2025

I love this and I need to do this too <3

User Profile: LegalAlien1911
LegalAlien1911 March 28th, 2025

@Sonowwhat

A sincere will to move on is a good start. You don't need to know how, you only need to feel you want to... Good luck!

🤗

User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy March 28th, 2025

Moving on... is both on a practical/ social level and an emotional level. The latter is the core though. Because only when you're in a good place emotionally can you manoeuvre on the social level. In my case though moving on happened when I didn't try too hard fighting the pain... it was kind of like accepting all of myself .. the hurt, the determination, etc and going up in steps - making small efforts to look after myself, processing what truly transpired and so on. Healing is a very rewarding journey.

I'm happy to see your will. Please let us know how we can support you better.

User Profile: Shyness98
Shyness98 March 31st, 2025

I’m rooting for you! Remember to take your time and be compassionate with yourself. Be in this moment.

User Profile: Shyness98
Shyness98 March 31st, 2025

I’m rooting for you! Remember to take your time and be compassionate with yourself. Be in this moment.

User Profile: littleraspberry21
littleraspberry21 March 31st, 2025

Dp you have any advice on moving on from past conflicts? I struggle with it evey day since months... i really want to forget it qll bit i keep spiraling and thinking no matter what i do and when i distract myself it comes back. What can i do... tslking with people about the past doesnt help either i feel like

User Profile: Mango102
Mango102 March 31st, 2025

This is so truee! Fake it till u make it

User Profile: brightDay6709
brightDay6709 March 31st, 2025

Good luck. I am also trying my best to move on. You are not alone!!

User Profile: lookoutOwl8
lookoutOwl8 March 31st, 2025

@Sonowwhat

Your username GRABBED my attention! You can/will succeed! I hope it’s okay that I borrow your advice about repeating what needs to be done. I believe you are onto something with this point. Thank you! 

PS So Now What!? For me, it’s just trying to remember to be thankful every morning that my eyes opened again. AND trying to remember to let at least one person know who is feeling lonely & lost that they are Definitely NOT ALONE! I truly hope and pray you are having one of those better days!image_1743452677.png