Bucket List Challenge!
helloooo my lovely P&G community! its me Avery today.
i have a little challenge prepared for you today.... the bucket list challenge!
Share 10 things or activities that are on your bucket list and tag 3 people to join!
(if you do not know what a bucket list is - just share 10 things you really want to try out/do in the future!)
Starting this off!
1) swimming while sunset/sunrise
2) jumping in the ocean at night
3) stargazing!
4) travel around the world with my friends!
5) travel to Hawaii
6) adopt a dog!
7) help out in an animal shelter
8) give food to homeless people
9) try out different food cultures
10) singing at a karaoke bar or on any stage!
Tagging @Tazzie @Moana22 @Erato @frostyocean72 @ottie @erica @bear228 @Pidge2
@AveryLove
I love the idea of swimming at night during a sunset. I love the ocean and it is one of my favourite spots.
@amusingCranberry1537 same here! i only swam in the ocean at night but not while sunset yet!
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Bucket list: share 10 things or activities that are on your bucket list and tag 3 people to join!
My bucket list
1. I want a better place: with my own space, nice kitchen, bath tub, and cats.
2. Traditional publishing contract
3. Fine my hopeful, perky self again.
4. Travel
5. Make a cook maybe two
6. Lose some weight
7. Get indoor cycle
8. Help out or create a local cat cafe
9. Earn money doing what I love
10. Balance hormones and figure out my female problems
If you were tagged before I'm sorry.
@adorablesoul224 @danamh @asilentoberserver @amiablepeace77 @nonethewiser
@Rebekahwriter13 woah a local cat cafe? i love this idea so much.
@AveryLove you can order coffee, and play with cats
i looove bucket lists :)
1. see my favorite musician in concert
2. go on a road trip
3. ride in a hot air balloon
4. get a tattoo
5. eat a bug (like crickets)
6. win a photography contest
7. see the biggest ball of twine (don't ask)
8. run a marathon
9. be fluent in another language
10. play paintball
Tagging: @fluffyUnicorns84 @Erica @CherryLatte @Ottie @Sunshinelove2
I don't want to accomplish anything any more, I just want it to end.
@tluper6491 hey dear. it sounds like you are really going through a tough time and i am sorry to hear that and it is okay to not have any goals at the moment! 
please take good care of yourself and remember , you can always connect with a listener on here.
@AveryLove
I'm too scared to talk to listeners and I've been hurt so much socially I don't feel like I can ever open up to a new person again. And I'm a loser. It's not okay to have no goals, I'm wasting my pathetic joke of a life. It's okay to have no goals if you've accomplished something with your life, I'm a complete failure who has amounted to absolutely nothing in my life. So having no goals is just another valid reason to hate myself. I'm a loser and a failure and I always will be.
@tluper6491 Hey - it takes a lot of courage to say this stuff out loud. You're in a safe place here. No judgement no expectations. We're all here to help each other. Even if you don't want to go the listener route. We can talk in a forum. We're all here for you if you need us. I don't think you're a failure. You're just someone who's hurting.
@mytwistedsoul
I appreciate that, I do, but the only reason you don't think I'm a failure is because you don't know my life story. If you did I guarantee you would agree with me or even think worse of me than I think of myself.
I initially thought had a bucketlist. Ended up more of a to-do list.
So. I'll re-write it for now. Until things are clearer.
1. I want this to end.
This -> Refers to my current lifestyle, mentality, phyiscally -> (TLDR - Life)
Whether if there is a restart, I don't care anymore.
2. to 10. Nevermind. I think if number 1 is fixed. The rest will flow.
@mytwistedsoul
Thanks for tagging. I haven't been reading around much.
@mikenai22 it sounds like you really want some change in your life! change is awesome and important for growth
@AveryLove
I wished.
I couldn't.
It's been two years.
@mikenai22 You're welcome Mike !
@mytwistedsoul
realised i never replied.
Still feeling very puzzled, trying to question what do i truly want, what do i want to achieve. What the heck is going on.
Seeing everyone's having something in mind, well alittle traumatising to feel out of place. Yet everyone's timing is different, so yea...
@mikenai22 Hey - I think it's ok that you aren't sure of what it is you want. I mean everything takes time. I wouldn't stress too much about it. You'll find your way.
@mytwistedsoul
i understand about the timing thing.
its just that i felt that its been too long.
and could be also due to me trying to put things off.
@mikenai22 I can understand that feeling - perhaps you're putting things off because you're trying to deal with other more pressing matters. Like health wise. It's hard to plan for the future when you're unsure about the present.
@mytwistedsoul
perhaps so. but it could be also me "thinking" that I have too much on my plate.
trying to fix, decide, do things right, do everything by myself, etc.
not sure.. but well. since it is what it is now. shall hold on. if i can remember.
1. Own my own home
2. Visit Disneyland/World
3. See Niagra Falls
4. Have better control of my anxiety
5. Get a tattoo
6. Lose a bunch of weight
7. Be less shy and meet more people/make friends
8. Go swimming again
9. Take up painting again
10. Live longer than my mom and biological dad - they both died at 67 (different years)
@SoulfullyAButterfly, @scenicwindow, @Mayalovesnature
@Dawn04 any idea for the tattoo yet? what would you like it to look like?
@AveryLove Actually yes, I have wanted the same tattoo since I was 12/13 years old....I'm now 33. You know that little bud on your ankle that sticks out....have a rose vine come out and circle around my ankle and end with a beautiful red rose, leaves and thorns and all. I like the idea since I could show it off when I wanted, but easily cover it with socks and/or pants.
@Dawn04
Thanks for the tag, Dawn ! I quite like your bucket list too :) I've never made a formal bucket list, but do have some things I need to do yet, so I'll call them my b'list !
1. Travel to far-flung places
2. Do Route 66
3. Explore Alaska
4. Do an 8000er
5. Learn to fly
6. Visit all my friends
7. Get a dog
8. Build a cottage in some pristine wilderness
9. Find true contentment
Tagging @niceDaisy36 @Abby Harris1976 @Erato @cyanPlatypus6370 to join me here !
@scenicwindow
Thanks for the tag-
1) Have one golden retriver doggy
2) Meet my friend
3) Learn calligraphy
4) Solo travel
5) Get one small tattoo
6) Play guitar
7) Visit USA
8) Overcome my anxieties and be able to deal better
9) Go for Tongariro walk
10) Learn spanish, french and speak fluently
Tagging: @Kibs @lucy2 @fancySummer52 @Isentropic @Liveloveforgivedontforget
@niceDaisy36
Wow sounds fun list Daisy you for the tag
I would like to
Learn calligraphy
Solo travel
Join good company and work
Go on a holy pilgrimage
Meet friend I made here
@fancySummer52
Thanks for replying haha.Take care 
@niceDaisy36
Love your list esp. the Alpine trek :) Thanks !
@niceDaisy36 thanks for tagging me. <3
Kibs Bucketlist
1. Open my family day care
2. Learn to play an instrument
3. Finish writing my novel
4. Finish writing my childcare tips book
5. Start my podcast
6. Volunteer to help children around the world
7. Foster/adopt a child
8. Rescue/adopt a dog
9. Rescue/adopt a horse
10. Explore more of the beauty on this planet
@emotionalCranberry @diligentPlum2850
@thoughtfulScarf9589 @niceAcai5279
@faithfulPomegranate1214 @SimplePeach
@tallDime9128 @Symax96 @Ck 4
Oops retag @Ck4 see above
@scenicwindow This warms my heart! adding up 10) for you: Own the Everest climb! 
@SoulfullyAButterfly
Thanks, Butterfly, but the Everest is off my bucket list ... too congested 
I'll take K2 over it any day !
@scenicwindow face-palm for thinking both were the same thing. Can I blame my fatigue for this geography error haha. Well you have my support
Hmmm The Bucket list...
1. Have a dagree in something anything really
2. Live in an RV or Tiny home
3. Become a teacher
4. Travel as much as possible
5. Visit an island
6. Be fluent in Sign and Spanish
7. Travel outside of the USA
8. Hike my local section of the Pacifice Crest Trail
9. Adopt a child of my own
10. Find a solid source of happyness and never loose it
@AveryLove
@RunawayTaty42 travel outside of the USA: any specific places you would really like to visit?
Everywher really id love to step foot on all of the continents @AveryLove
Thanks for the taggles @AveryLove, @Pidge2. I've actually gained many more since joining here! xD
1)To try watermelon.
2)To try pomegranate.
3)To go on a trip to Antarctica.
4)To have my own house built for myself and my sister.
5)To visit Egypt.
6)Skydive.
7)Swim with penguins.
8)Get a tattooooooo.
9)Adopt a child.
10)Become an actual kiwi fruit << my main ambition :')
@AveryLove thanks for the tag - I do not have a bucket list but here is a try with some things I would like to do:
1- Advocate mental health in a higher level
2- Publish my poetry in the form of a book.
3- Find any side-writing job because I love it
4- Publish and conduct unique research
5- Become a clinical psychologist
6- Be healthy and beat the many health battles I face.
7- Be successful in ignoring fatigue
8- Find good people to connect with and perhaps be friends. The loneliness struggle is sometimes too big.
9- Take walks and little things like that without being tired or unable.
10- I do not want a long life in numbers, but being able to make the years count is important.
