It hurts my feelings when you.... [finish this sentence]

...compliment me for having a large a vocabulary.

(You may mean to compliment me, but I hear the sentence You have big vocabulary as You have a big vocabulary for a black man.)

It hurts my feelings when you tell me that you don't care if I die.. When you tell me I'm not family and you don't love me and you wish that I would drink bleach.. That hurts my feelings.. When you promised you'd be different than the other moms I have had and you target me and treat me different from everyone else..

It hurts my feelings when I feel like people don't notice me...like my Fam. Sometimes I just feel invisible.

It hurts my feelings when you try to make out to me that everything I feel that you don't agree with is stupid or doesn't mean anything or that I feel like it because I am crazy ...

It hurts my feelings when you take from me and keep for yourself.

It hurts my feelings when you care so little about what bothers me...

... don't listen to what I have to say!

It hurts my feelings when, despite my best efforts, you say that I'm not trying, and say that I'm not doing anything to progress in my life. I feel like when people say these things that they're disappointed in me, and I want to make sure that they're happy. I really am trying, but they don't see that in my life.

It hurts when all I do goes unnoticed. Or when I hug you and your attention is elsewhere. Or when I tell you how it makes me feel and you laugh. How you have no empathy for my feelings and put yourself first before our kids. It hurts to be nonexistent until needed.

It hurts my feelings when you come home from work and act normal. It hurts my feelings that I don't see you grieve over our son when all I do is burst into tears every 5 seconds. It hurts my feelings when you have that beautiful smile on your face when I'm forever resembling a troll. It hurts my feelings that I know I'll never ever be as strong as you and it most definitely hurts my feelings when I look at you and realise I've been selfish and not realising that everyone does everything differently.