Say what you'd most like to hear...
Sometimes we just need to hear a certain phrase for us to feel comforted and happy.
Say something to yourself that you'd most like to hear right now. 

I'm so sorry. You are so important to me. I love you so much.
"I love you. I am so proud of you."
Don't worry, the Universe will not let you fall flat on your face when you are asking for help and no one can be that cruel. You will find someone that can offer you therapy or a refferal - just give it time. F U insurance - some therapists can offer sliding scale so you can afford it.
You are debt free, and able to pass the required credit check to get a loan for post secondary education :)
I'm here for you. I hurt when I see you hurting. You'll always have a place in my heart.
I love you, and you can do it! I believe in you. Just hold on. You're only human.
You are loved and I am hear for you and don't want to hurt you.
if my wife would say. "I am feeling better. We can have a normal relationship
But she won't. You may be sure of that. And I will stay with her. And be broken and crushed or else do myself in instead.
I would love to hear that I will be okay... I just can't get myself to feel that way right now :(