Would you rather be loved or feared?
NONE!
How about being appreciated as the 3rd option?
What an interesting discussion! *am listening*
To me, it is a no-brainer, LOVED!
I would like being loved as if you're feared, you will have no friends.
Loved bc fear bring no honesty nor respect.
Both loved and feared. I have a good side and a bad side. I care about the people that I love but if you do anything to me or them. Then you get to see my bad side. Some people don't want that
@Kate, I have to mention this gif. A part of me believes that you derived the question from there and I really hope so!
I had to check if it said, rather BE ... or rather FEEL ....
For me though either way, I think I'd rather be LOVED! 
No, not think, I would rather be loved. Why would I want people to fear me?! ~ Platy
Being loved is better cause that empowers you and makes you stronger
And most importantly loving yourself is must as it overpowers all fears :)
Neither. I'm in the habit of being indifferent to how people feel about me. Love me? Fantastic! Hate me? Cool. Fear me? Great. Unless you're close to me I pretty much walk around with blinders on or just indifferent.
@DazzlingandDizzy I agree with you. Its easy to get caught up in what people might think about you, but it seems a whole lot more sensible to make peace with it not influencing you. Its definitely more freeing when youre not constantly bogged down by what you think others feel toward you.
@Divs95 So much more freeing. I have finally accepted that I'm not typical or as some would say "normal ". I spent years trying to fit in. My own friends weren't even really my friends because I was trying to be someone else in order to fit in. Not anymore.. I'm just me and I would rather be alone than trying to be someone I'm simply not.
