Dad being a fool twice today

Disneywoman April 23rd

So Dad was a fool twice today.

The first thing is that he buys soooo much chip items we barley even use and he's got mad and told me "we need to start using them" because of the bags dropping off when he dries to get by Mom at fruit time. While maybe he should be the one eating them??!!

Later:

Because I had to make my own supper tonight and not tomorrow- I made Quesadilla. And when there was too much to fit into the quesadilla, I put it in a container and he grumped about "I should have just left it in the pan because something about the meat and veggies having toxins" but I'm the one who took 2 Foods Classes in High School and Mom's had Food Safety, and I would think leaving it in the pan is more dangerous then putting it in a container because that's how baterica can breed.

DancingDaoist April 23rd

I have read a few of your posts I understand you not liking your dad’s behaviour.

I would recommend you right down his failings and then organise them so you just mention biggest. He could do same. It sounds like you hurt each other.

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Disneywoman OP April 23rd

@DancingDaoist it's not I don't like Dad's behaviour he has this behaviour like he's the Father in that old TV show what's was it called ___ knows Best? He always acts like he knows best and Mom literally had to tell him off for that behaviour today after he threaten to throw me out of the house

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DancingDaoist April 23rd

It might not be fair but if you read descriptions of the diety in religions some is like man some neither sex and most descriptions like a woman.

If you can learn to work with your dad it might help you later in life.

It would be better if he related better but many are abusive.

I personally think threatening to throw you out of the house is intimidating. If you took my advice and listed the bad things he does it might be near top.

From listening to you he seems worse but you do nag which is not helpful. You have limited control over him using it wisely is good.

I hope things improve.