*waves* at teens
Hi there teens! *waves*
So, my twins are turning 11 this Saturday and I was thinking about how exciting it will be for them to be listeners one day (if they want to, of course). I have worked with teens at different times in my life and I was so very excited to research teen communities when we worked on adding the teen side of 7 Cups. My research surprised me--there was really no online support for teens! So, I was unsure how it would work out.
However, one lady I spoke with had ran a smaller teen supporting teens crisis line (the only one I could find). She gave me the info I really needed. She said she had found that teens were remarkably good at supporting one another, that they learned quickly, and that there were some teens she called old souls that were especially good at providing care for other teens. I was excited to give it a try! And I never looked back.
I am so impressed every day with the community our teens have built. And, truly, it is a community that you all have built. We may have set up the site to have a teen side, but the teen community truly has built itself from the ground up. I love seeing how supportive you all are for one another. And, Ive been equally impressed with the open communication and problem-solving I see happening in the teen community. You all truly are there for one another.
There have been many changes here at 7 Cups over the last few months. I know that change is hard--really hard. And, as hard as it is for adults, I can only imagine the impact changes have on you all. I am so thankful for you all and your willingness to stick with us and work to make 7 Cups the best community it can be for all involved.
Ive spent time chatting with @Iara--our awesome Teen Community Manager. Wow...her passion and dedication to making sure you all are heard has been impressive. She has inspired me to write this letter as an open invitation to you all--I am here. I want to know what youre thinking and what you want from the site. Please reply in this thread and give me ideas or constructive feedback. I truly want to hear each of you.
We've come really far and I'm looking forward to seeing where we go. Thank you!
Hi, as a teenager, I think that the entire concept of 7 Cups is outstanding and I am very happy to be a member of this community. There have been times when I have needed somebody to speak to in a time of crisis, and my hard times lead me here. Now, I log on to this more than I do my social media accounts! Being a listener has given me drive to help people without having to pay uni fees to train to become a counsellor, I can log onto here anytime of day or night and listen to people's troubles, and hopefully have a positive impact on them. Ultimately, this site was here for me when I felt like I had nobody, and it gives me great pleasure to to honour the site by helping other's in their time of need. <3
@LunaRose thank you for sharing this feedback with me :). You've really captured the core of 7 cups. We get help and give help. It helps both the person giving and the person receiving. Glad you are finding it to be so meaningful!
@LunaRose That's wonderful! I don't work with teens as an adult listener, but it is wonderful that you've found comfort in 7cups and the awesome listeners we have here!
It's sad how few teen support there is but with seven cups my life took a turn to the good! Whether a member or a listener or even a guest we have each other's backs on here and that's enough to keep me going. When I first joined seven cups I was a depressed girl who wanted to hurt herself but now I've grown not only as a listener but as a person! Before I thought my life surrounded around my writing but now I spend my free time helping people all over the world. I couldn't ask for a better feeling than knowing I helped someone
@skilletfangirl
Thank you for all you do! It is great to hear that your priorities have changed from being introverted, to reaching out to others in need. As a listener, myself, I have also found a great community and warmth here at 7 Cups. Keep up the good work...you are important!
@skilletfangirl Its great to hear how much you have benefited from your experiences here at 7 Cups! Keep up the good work!
I've found an unbelievable amount of support and kindness here. This diverse community is unlike any other and really strives to promote positivity and care for anyone in need of it. Soon, I will have been here for a full year, and the time has passed incredibly quickly. I love being a part of 7 Cups, and I especially appreciate the loving nature of everyone here if I'm having a bad day. Thank you for all that you've done!
@IndigoRoses
I agree, this is a very unique and awesome space! I am glad you are here, and thank you for the kind words! You help to make 7 Cups the best it can be!
Dear Glen,
Firstly, I want to thank you for this very thoughtful post of yours! It was very kind of you!
Allow me to introduce myself. I am Dancernhealer, a listener here on 7 Cups Of Tea!
I want to share with you a little something and although this reply will never reveal my true feelings, it is a start.
When I was in need of support, I too did some research like you, for some kind of Emotional Support for Teens. And I too was surprised to find that there was no one out there who offered free emotional support to teens across the countries.
This broke my heart, when I needed support the most, but let me tell you..I did not stop my research. I continued to look for some kind of emotional support for teens and I cannot tell you how glad I am that I decided to keep going.
The moment that I clicked on that link that said 7 Cups Of Tea, my life changed forver. This beautiful community filled with people who were there for me and who were ready to listen to me and my struggles truly amazed me. To know that people were there for me, and that people cared about what I was going through changed my perceptions on many things.
I cannot begin to tell you how much of a difference 7 Cups has made for me in my life. Just like how Luna mentionned above, I spend more time on 7 Cups then I do on my social media accounts! Looking at other people's pictures on Intsagram and tweeting messages to others seems trivial to me when I could be spending my time helping others who are struggling. If I can help one person, and make a difference in one person's life, then my goal is complete. My mission is accomplished.
I want you to know how grateful I am that I can now have a chance to give back to this community by listening to others and helping them loosen the load by simply being there for them.
I cannot even begin to tell you how much this supportive community filled with love, compassion and teamwork makes me happy.
Everyday, when I log onto 7 Cups, I think about when I used to be a memebr and when I used to come here for support. And I still remember, to this day, the names of the listeners who made a difference in my life. The ones who changed my way of seeing things and showed me them in a new light.
I am so eternally grateful to be given the opportunity to be a part of this wonderful community that you have founded. So on that note, I would like to thank you, Glen, for founding 7 Cups of Tea, for creating an emotional support ressource for teens, and for persevering everyday to make this community possible. I will never be able to express in words, how appreciative I am towards you.
Thank you Glen.
Sincerely,
Dancernhealer
@GlenM @Dillion @HelpfulNick95 @Iara @Heather @Laura @Amelia
@Dancernhealer
Beautiful sentiments! I, too, am very grateful to be a listener here at 7 Cups. I am very happy that you find joy in reaching out and helping others. You are truly a loving person, and I hope your experiences here at 7 Cups continue to bring you joy!
@Dancernhealer Beautiful! 
thank you!
@Harry53
@Dancernhealer OMG this was so beautiful! <3 <3 <3 :D
Thank you My Nickagator!!! 
@HelpfulNick95
I'm so glad 7cups is what it is. Finding peace and joy is just what I needed being a teen. I'm thankful for all the listeners and knowing that I'm not the only one going through troubles. :)
*waves*I am really thankful for 7 cups . I have always wanted to give service to people And help people . But , it just was not easy to go out there when you have School and other stuffs . After getting 7 cups , I can help people easily from the comfort of my home .
It's like a dream come true . And , 7 Cups really changed my life
Thank you so so much Glen M . :)
@GlenM
As someone who's been on 7 cups, I have to say that this site really doe work. More often than not, I like the feeling of helping someone out even if it's just because they need someone to talk to. I feel llike this site has given me a positive outlook on life and has help me become, what this site should be, a better listener. I strongly encourage your daughters to become listeners, of course only if they want to :)
@GlenM
I cant comment on the teen-listener experience because Im not a teen. I can, however, comment on the adult teen-listener experience, because I am one.
When I first became a listener on 7 cups, I listened to adults exclusively, not because I necessarily wanted to, but because I was limited to only working with adults. Eventually, when I met the criteria to become an adult teen-listener, I applied to become one, and since that time I have been listening to teens almost exclusively.
Its difficult being a teen, perhaps even more so than a few decades ago when I was one. I love having the opportunity to provide the help so many teens need, the kind of help that wasnt available to me when I was their age. Having no children or grandchildren of my own, 7 Cups provides me with the ability to share my knowledge and life experiences with youngsters who can benefit from them. Thank you, Glen, for providing me, and other adults like me, with this wonderful opportunity!
@GlenM I never knew there were so many nice teens out there
@Ivorybeech5786 I'm glad to hear you found so much positive
Thank you so much for making this website! I found 7 Cups when I desperately needed some support. I remember clicking on this website link without any hope to achieve anything worthwhile from it. My God was I wrong. 7 Cups is a unique community full of such care and commitment to supporting each other, especially teens. This may be the only website that I feel is really making a difference. I'm literally so proud to be a part of this as a listener. <3
@Kate612shine that's great to hear
I hope the sight continues to bring you joy
@Kate612shine I've really enjoyed being a part of this community, and continue to embrace the warmth and love of it's members and listeners. So glad you feel welcome and happy here, as do we <3 Keep on doing the amazing work you do! :)
@Kate612shine
thank you Kate! Sunshine.
@Kate612shine ❤️
@Kate612shine I enjoy being part of the 7 cups community too, im really happy that my friend recommended me this :DD