@obligatoryusernameSsorry if you're having a tough time getting listener who actually listen. I've experienced this too but I also know there are good listeners out there!
I believe that you believe that
I know it might sound harsh but... maybe..expect less. Maybe when we talk to much we scare people away. People here arr still humann
@MusicalTones6275 great advice
Thanks. But most importantly it should be helpful.
So yeah maybe expect less or dont say everything at once or find better listeners or know that you won't be able to say everything so somethings you will keep inside until you find a real life person yoi trust.
Hope you find whatever you need to get through this.
@obligatoryusername if u hate it so much, why are u still here?
@lavenderComputer2539 it's a gif
@obligatoryusername a gif of talking to the walls
if that's what 7 cups feels like to you, why are u still here?
@lavenderComputer2539 good question
Its fascinating how a gif can say it all. You did not have tobsay a word at all. Yes, sometimes talking to people feels like talking to a wall. Either they don’t get it or they don’t react. I totally can relate 😄
Unfortunately, I even had people who wanted to be fwb 😅 claiming that they wanted to help. One even got mad at me because I was still explaining something about heartbreak and they assumed things that weren't true and had a nasty attitude towards me. I only had to say 1 sentence and they apologised for their misunderstanding... but guess what? Damaged was done. It's sad :/ I just try to choose listeners and go wrong even with that.
Just a little reminder that listeners aren't therapists or mental health professionals. I mostly use this app for the community and help to feel better when I'm down. I have had to go through a bunch of listeners to find one that I liked
I resonate with that which was why I didnt go on 7cups before but with this forum feature it kind of makes it easier to open I guess.
@obligatoryusername Idk why I am laughing ,lol . Btw If you to have a chill talk to refresh . Mine gates are always open for you . 😂 nice GIF
@obligatoryusername
OMG, that gif said alot. 🤣
