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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

User Profile: Laura
Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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User Profile: VDarkAge
VDarkAge October 27th, 2017

@Laura

I swear to uphold all 7 Cups goals and values.
To show compassion and kindness to everyone here.

Signed: VDarkAge
Date: 27/10-2017

User Profile: Illbeloved
Illbeloved October 27th, 2017

@Laura

I promise I will follow these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Lia

28/10/2017

User Profile: navyShade7876
navyShade7876 October 27th, 2017

I am not a listener yet but I still oath to help anyone who comes to me and even tho I am trying to work on myself I'll try my best to be personal/ happy

User Profile: selfdisciplinedPond5654
selfdisciplinedPond5654 October 27th, 2017

I will follow the guidelines of 7 cups.

User Profile: JoAnnaAveryMartin76
JoAnnaAveryMartin76 October 27th, 2017

@Laura JoAnnaAveryMartin

Not a listener yet, but once i get better i will become one... I agree to everything

User Profile: CoinFountain
CoinFountain October 27th, 2017

I think design wise the image of the hands around the cup on the 7 Cups Values page should be different colours instead of all white hands to really drive the message home. Having them all be white hands sends a contradictory message that we didn't think of all the people who are here when it was made in photoshop or whichever editor was used. It would be easy to change and could be literally rainbow. Wouldn't even need to change the hand photos, just use hue change on each hand selection. :)

User Profile: CoinFountain
CoinFountain October 27th, 2017

I have read and agree to the rules/values and vow to uphold all of 7 Cups Values while following the rules.

Signed: //CoinFountain//
Date: 10/27/2017

User Profile: Compassionatelistener108
Compassionatelistener108 October 27th, 2017

@laura

I promise I will follow these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Compassionatelistener108

27 October 2017

User Profile: tealZebra119
tealZebra119 October 28th, 2017

I pledge to treat those I interact with kindness, compassion, and deep respect. I promise to maintain an openness to others' journies and seek to both learn from and provide support to those who are suffering.

//tealZebra119//

User Profile: RamenNool
RamenNool October 28th, 2017

@Laura I only just joined this website today, but I think I can find someone to help me out soon, it