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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

User Profile: Laura
Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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User Profile: ArrabellaG0dwin
ArrabellaG0dwin October 8th, 2019

I, solemnly pledge to obey and uphold all the clauses in this oath and the all the things in it..

signed

Arrabella Godwin (Aria)

User Profile: ArrabellaGodwin
ArrabellaGodwin October 10th, 2019

I take the member oath into my hands and will try my best to adhere to the desired outcomes.

User Profile: PeppermintStar0912
PeppermintStar0912 October 21st, 2019

@Laura I will adhere and abide by the mission and guidelines of 7 Cups. I take this oath seriously and will represent 7 Cups in a resoponsible, loving way.

//baylinanderson123// October 21, 2019

User Profile: SpringTea24
SpringTea24 October 22nd, 2019

I take the oath!

User Profile: Seraphina2
Seraphina2 October 24th, 2019

@Laura

I'm not a listener but i'm going to do my personal oath with the 7 cups community, myself, the listener and the world in general.

I swear to do my best and finally be able to free my self of the negativity and the most of bad vibes in my live, to put my health first before order people need, to help people in a positive and safe way (for me and them), to trust that most of the world are good and that i don't need to be alert all the time, to let me help and trust that other people in the best way they can (even if that it isn't enough for me or if that is not the help i think i need, it isn't their fault, their probably have tried their best and did it with the best intention). And i will be back to my "teen" me (the girl postive and hopeful that i was)

User Profile: Seraphina2
Seraphina2 October 24th, 2019

@Seraphina2

Signed: Seraphina2

Date: 10/24/2019

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User Profile: sunshinegiraffe123
sunshinegiraffe123 October 24th, 2019

I sunshine

pledge to be nicer to my fellow listeners,mods and members.

signed SunshineGiraffe123

User Profile: RiverStar947
RiverStar947 October 26th, 2019

I pledge to always show kindness to others, online and offline, because I do not know what they are going through.

I pledge to always be mindful of the time other's have, and to acknowledge that they may not have the time or emotional capacity to talk to me at any given moment.

User Profile: asukal
asukal October 27th, 2019

@Laura I take oath in following all of 7cups community guidelines and values :)

User Profile: warmheartedFarm7120
warmheartedFarm7120 October 29th, 2019

I hereby pledge to always stick to the guidelines and boundaries set by the moderators on 7cups. I will additionally always try my utmost to be wise, kind, and insightful in all my conversations on 7cups. And to try and bring more joy to others and be at peace with myself.

User Profile: fairmindedSouth2962
fairmindedSouth2962 October 29th, 2019

I, fairmindedSouth , pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

FairMindedSouth