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User Profile: Glitteryprincess17
Glitteryprincess17 October 14th, 2025

Hi!

What to do when you're feeling tired of everything,when do you feel like you're the most boring person in the world and you're very awkward? I've been feeling this way for a while now, I don't know what to do, I keep comparing myself to others, how pretty they are, how better personality they have, how interesting their life is...I just idk...I compare myself to someone who doesn't even like me, im a teenager and I feel so lost tbh. Everyone is living their best years, like in a movie...but i'm not...

Like everyone has better style than me and all that...how im supposed to feel important?

I want to feel like the main character but everyone around me has more friends and interesting stories

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow October 14th, 2025

I feel the same sometimes..

User Profile: anveshu1318
anveshu1318 October 14th, 2025

Same here ... I'm also an teenager

User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven October 14th, 2025

@Glitteryprincess17 It’s completely okay to feel this way sometimes, especially when it seems like everyone else has it all figured out. But truth is, no one’s life is as perfect as it looks from the outside. Comparing yourself to others will only steal your own peace and confidence. You deserve to live life your own way, at your own pace. Everyone’s story unfolds differently and that’s what makes each one special. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes you feel alive, and the rest will fall into place. You don’t have to be like anyone else to feel important because you already are just by being you.✨

User Profile: BMGSerein
BMGSerein October 14th, 2025

I feel this deeply. It's okay to feel this way. Your feelings are valid and you deserve to be loved and cared for. It's okay to feel this way, it's okay to feel overwhelmed seeing others thriving while you feel you aren't getting up to them. But remember that everyone's journey is different, and life, they say, is an exam; many people fail because they try to copy others. This is a reminder for you to start connecting with yourself, disconnect from any thoughts that make you feel less. Love every bit of yourself and keep on discovering yourself, just keep going and know that healing and growth are possible as long as you believe in yourself. I hope this brings comfort to you and to anyone stuck in the same situation.

User Profile: azureAcres1605
azureAcres1605 October 14th, 2025

Hi Glitteryprincess:

I think that there is an epidemic of people who feel insecure because they compare themselves to others, sometimes to people on social media. Remember that everybody is putting their best face forward, especially on social media. Many people are hiding their insecurities because they think everyone else is perfect. We all have problems and issues. I respect your honesty and your allowing yourself to be vulnerable to help yourself. I am sure you will get a lot of support here because other people have experienced the same thoughts and feelings as you.

Best wishes. ❤️

User Profile: asphaltcowboy
asphaltcowboy October 14th, 2025

@Glitteryprincess17 It can sometimes get overwhelming to the point you might explode. We have all been in the same situation, nobody is better than the other. I have even been guilty of it too. I have learned to think about myself first, my accomplishments, my thoughts, etc. It is all a matter of who you are and what you want to become is what is important. 

User Profile: Glitteryprincess17
Glitteryprincess17 OP October 15th, 2025

Hello! Thank you all for messages, I still want to see some other texts but its really important to me! Thaaaank you very much💕 I appreciate it