Idk anymore
I js want friends who actually want to talk to me, who actually don't fight with me over simple things. I want to be able to be ok and eat without feeling nauseous
@brenbird
I feel your frustration about your friends. I think people are so busy and stressed they lose sight of the important things in life. We all want real connections and friends that understand and support us. What is making you nauseous?
We are here for you!💜🫶🤗
@Rhiannon65
Idk what makes me nauseous, and I finally spoke ip to one of my bsfs yesterday telling her how I feel like im a burden to everyone amd that if she wants to stay friends its ip to her, and he had the audacity to be like "im indifferent" and all like "I thought you were a burden to everyone and it'd be a waste of time if we were tj stay friends"
@brenbird
To have a friend say that is so hurtful. It sounds like you're having anxiety and this may be why you're feeling nauseous. Be gentle with yourself. Self-care is so important. What can you do for yourself today? One little thing you enjoy and it's just for you.
@Rhiannon65
I got a mocha from caribou coffee js now, and later im gonna have a meds check with my phyciatrist who i love amd shes the one who saved me 2months and 2 weeks ago
@brenbird
A mocha sounds delicious. Enjoy it!
I'm happy that you have support. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help. I'm very happy that this person helped you. 🤗💜🫶
@Rhiannon65
Me too, and my mocha is amazing
@Rhiannon65
I would play my guitar but I left it at my fathers
@brenbird hey just registered here and this post poped out. The only real solution to this problem is for you to be in a relationship. You forget everyone else and focus on your partner and most of the time it's enough.
@Pythonic
I have a bf and hes also my bsf like we met back in February bc of my other friend(true friend) and then me and my bf were bsfs(still are) and then we figured out we had feelings and we got together back in may
@Pythonic
That is not good advice, burying your problems in a relationship is a good way to have a crash down the line.
@brenbird same I understand
Happy to listen
@empath83
Thanks
@empath83
you can only reply to their forum posts since you are only 18+ listener. You would have to be a adult teen listener to be able to pms them
😅
@brenbird
welcome to cups
nice pfp
@Magicpawsoffuturethank you
Can we be friends?
@ryaanbee
YES WE CAN
Where I can contact u :)
@ryaanbee
wait how old are you? I'm 15
I'm 25 idk if u care about the age or not but I don't really care since it's only a friendship online
@ryaanbee
I cant text bc my parents will see notifications(strict parents) and I have no socials
7 cups has pen pals chats if you were interested:
@ryaanbee
All contact on cups must stay on cups no off line contact allowed
Is there a way to add someone as friends on cups )
@ryaanbee no I dont think so not that I know of
So there's no actual of talking to people in here 😭
@ryaanbee
😭😭😭i guess not
@ryaanbee
no cups. Do not have that option
Also. This might only way you both can communicate is in forums. 7 cups keep the teenside and18+ side separate except for forums for safety reasons.
@brenbird
Those are all incredibly valid feelings. In fact, everything that you are asking for seems to be a bare minimum expectation for those interactions. Finding the right friendships is hard until it is not. Eventually, your people will find you. Or better yet, you'll find them!
@enduringJoy4491
Ive tried all my life and idk anymore
@brenbird
I can understand that. I have also had seasons when it feels like reaching out for connection is more work than it's worth. Something that's been helpful for me in those moments is using it as an opportunity for self-reconnection. If I am being true to myself, following my interests and being open to others, then connections and possible friendships should pop up along my path. What have you done recently to foster a great connection with yourself? Are there any interests you have wanted to pursue, but haven't yet?
@enduringJoy4491
I play acoustic guitar, do theatre at school, swim team on the summer
@brenbird
Oh wow! Those are amazing interests! I love how many opportunities for connection those must bring! What do you like the most about participating in those activities?
@enduringJoy4491
I love music and I like how when im underwater I dont hear anything and I can sit under water and js be content
@brenbird
I can see how that would be really peaceful and wonderful
@enduringJoy4491
Ys ill js take a deep breath and go under and stay there for like a min or so and repeat
