🌸 Let’s Be Real 🌸
Hello everyone! 💙
For those who haven't met me yet, my name is Lex, and I'm a Listener and Forum Leader here on 7 Cups. I'm so grateful to be part of such a kind and supportive community. One of my favorite things about this space is that it reminds us that we don't have to carry everything on our own.
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Mental health is something that affects all of us, whether we're having a great day, struggling through a difficult season, or somewhere in between. Sometimes we get so caught up in life that we forget to check in with ourselves and ask how we're really doing. We push our thoughts aside, tell ourselves we'll deal with things later, and keep moving forward.
But emotions don't simply disappear because we ignore them.
When we keep everything bottled up, those thoughts and feelings can begin to pile up until they feel overwhelming. That's why it's so important to have spaces where we can be honest, reflect, and let things out before they become too heavy to carry. Sharing doesn't make us weak it reminds us that we're human.
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So I'd love to check in with all of you today:
💭 What has been taking up the most space in your mind recently?
It can be something big or small, a challenge you're facing, a goal you're working toward, a worry you can't seem to shake, or even something positive that's been on your mind lately.
As always, please remember to be kind to yourselves and to one another. And if anyone needs someone to talk to, my inbox is always open. You don't have to go through things alone. 💙
@LexListens2025
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@LexListens2025
I'm tired today.
Emotional.
Too much to do, no energy to do alot of it.
Trying to just simply do my best 🩷
@Amanda84
Sorry to hear that. I'm always here for you.
@Amanda84
Thank you for sharing. 💙
Some days are just exhausting, and carrying a long to-do list while feeling completely drained can make even the smallest tasks feel overwhelming. It sounds like you're doing your best to keep moving forward despite having very little energy left to give, and that takes more strength than people often realize.
I think there's something really important about what you said: you're trying to simply do your best. Sometimes our best doesn't look productive or perfect 
it looks like getting through the day, taking things one step at a time, and showing ourselves a little grace when we're running on empty.
I hope you're able to give yourself credit for the effort you're putting in, even if it doesn't feel like enough right now. Being tired doesn't mean you're failing. It means you're human.
Sending some gentle encouragement your way today. Be kind to yourself you deserve the same compassion you'd offer someone else.
All the summer assignments I have are taking up space. Hahahah... The life of an AP student. It's okay though.
@Paliloveyourself
@Paliloveyourself
Haha, the life of an AP student really is something else. 😅
Even when we know we'll get through it, having a pile of summer assignments hanging over our heads can still take up a lot of mental space. It's like there's always a little voice in the back of your mind reminding you of everything that still needs to be done.
That said, I really admire your attitude about it. The fact that you're able to acknowledge the stress while also saying, "It's okay though," shows a lot of resilience. Remember that you don't have to tackle it all at once. One assignment, one page, one step at a time is still progress.
I hope you're able to find some moments this summer that are just for you too not every second has to be spent being productive. You've earned a chance to rest and enjoy yourself along the way.
@LexListens2025
I probably care too much about people who hurt me. So I'm learning to do less of that.
@trueconfidant123
That takes a lot of self-awareness to admit.
I don't think caring deeply is a flaw it speaks to the kind of heart you have. The difficult part is when that care keeps getting poured into people who don't handle it gently or who repeatedly cause us pain.
Learning to care less about the people who hurt you doesn't mean becoming cold or uncaring. Sometimes it means learning to protect your peace. It means recognizing that your kindness, energy, and emotional investment are valuable and deserve to be given to people who appreciate them.
That process can be really hard, especially when you're someone who naturally wants to see the best in others. But I think there's a lot of strength in choosing yourself and your well-being, even when part of you still cares.
@LexListens2025
Thank you 😊
@LexListens2025
THanks for tagging me. What's been in my mind lately is that I need to focus on myself and become the version of myself I want. What about you???
@cheerfulKiwi1776
Thank you for sharing that. 🌱
I think that's a really meaningful thing to have on your mind. It takes courage to look inward and ask yourself who you want to become, rather than just going through the motions of daily life.
Focusing on yourself isn't selfish it's an investment in your future, your happiness, and your growth. The version of yourself you want to become won't appear overnight, and that's okay. Every small choice, every lesson learned, and every step forward is helping shape that person.
I also think it's important to remember that growth doesn't mean becoming someone completely different. Sometimes it's about uncovering more of who you already are and learning to trust that person.
@LexListens2025
Thats actually a really heartwarming and motivating answer. Thanks for writing this. It truly warms my heart knowing that there are people who get it out there. Thank you for writing this: it made my day.
What about you? What are you focusing on lately?
@LexListens2025
What's been on my mind:
If paid bi-weekly
and funds are exhausted within a day by purchasing basics and necessities [for example: food and water to last the fortnight, and nothing more]
and clothes cannot be afforded
and clothes not only degrade, but go out of fashion
and clothing protects from weather
and weather can be lethal
and such persons are unable to work
or even are unwilling to work [if work is not optional, is that not a kind of slavery?]
or are excluded from work due to inappropriate clothing
and economic inflation exists
then
such persons may or may not experience financial hardship
but do experience monetary hardship
and do experience social hardship if clothing is required by civilised society
Further:
If being social is healthy
and being anti-social is unhealthy
and being social in a civilised society requires money
then
basics and necessities includes luxury and entertainment
which includes impulse spending, where impulse spending serves creativity
and, as evolution is a creative process
where creativity includes, but is not limited to, learning
being monetarily excluded from creative living, and, thus, learning, due to insufficient funds
is being excluded from humanity
to receive so little
and to be unable to earn money
enables a kind of hierarchy, insofar that, at the very least, the like-fashioned socialise with each other
to be unable to, or excluded from, learning about and experimenting with fashion, is frighteningly damaging, even if only for that a civilised society requires access to both respectable and expressive clothing
If people learn from each other, and learning is the cornerstone of good progress, and clothing and money facilitate healthy social habits, then benefits/pensions provided to those that cannot or will not work are unrightfully monetarily impoverished and socially inhibited. And, if monetary and social exclusion damage mental health, and good mental health is a cornerstone of a good life, and therapeutic activities and services that improve mental health [where good activities/services is partially defined by the individual] require money and clothing, and if economic inflation exists, monetarily impoverished persons are at risk of not only self-harm, but may, in fact, resort to harming others.
Of course, money itself requires effort [example: banks require working persons in order to function]. But, in my opinion, it would be absurd and inhumane to expect people to learn and grow at the same rate, if people indeed do have different skills, abilities, learning styles, and personal definitions of what constitutes a good life.
Societal cohesion should be considered by persons when choosing how to live, but society itself, in my opinion, must take into consideration that innovation sometimes requires hermitage–if, for example, science would greatly benefit from learning from a giant that chose to live a good life in isolation, then new and exciting innovation may arise from persons that operate within society while remaining distant.
For those on low-income benefits/pensions to be required to justify every expenditure according to ideals is, I'm pretty sure, a kind of inhibition of the very foundation of what makes a person feel like a person.
Not everyone can partake in constructing a Colosseum. Not everyone can participate in grand displays in said Colosseum. Not everyone can clean and maintain said Colosseum. And, not everyone can even speak/communicate, and if humanity places worth and value on life itself [for example: a good person should be abhorred by an other that deliberately causes harm to a cat that never meows], then should not people be afforded the opportunity to experience what life has to offer before deciding that work is actually worthwhile?
I am not arguing for a society where people receive money and never work. I am more arguing that some people are unmotivated/unwilling to work until much later in life, and that some work does not accord to societally-defined schedules/definitions.
A person that chooses to observe and learn at a distance could very well innovate in unique ways, but even so, societal contribution does not require participation in money trade [for example: if Buddha was deeply inspiring and good for mental health, and Buddha was unable to attain paid work, then society should accept at least some hermitage, and facilitate such lifestyles, where life *style* is as unique and individual as a person's choice in clothing].
@cyanessence
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. This was a very thought-provoking read.
What stood out to me most was your argument that being human involves more than simply surviving. While food, water, and shelter are essential, you make the point that connection, self-expression, creativity, learning, and participation in society also matter. When people lack the resources to access those things, the hardship can become social and emotional as well as financial.
I also found it interesting how you challenge the idea that a person's value is determined solely by their ability or willingness to participate in traditional work. Your examples highlight that people contribute to society in many different ways, including through creativity, reflection, inspiration, learning, and sharing knowledge with others.
Whether someone agrees with all of your conclusions or not, I think you've raised important questions about dignity, belonging, and what people need in order to feel fully included in society. Those are conversations worth having.
Thank you for sharing such a detailed perspective. It definitely gave me something to think about, and I appreciate the care and thought you put into expressing your views.
@LexListens2025
I do not conclude.
A lucky fellow met Ahri
but did not meet Ahri at all
For
The unlucky fellow
asked of nationality
of name
of gender
of income
of status
of lineage
of sake
How to know
The Nine-Tailed Fox
To seek Ahri's power
might beget
several slaps
Is it not wiser
to assume another
is from a different planet
from a different grace?
An other, to me
is not for me
An other, to me
is not some gleaming opportunity
An other, to me
is a wondrous self
For
An other, being
demonstrates great integrity
by simply being
One of my neighbors has been in the hospital since Monday. He had to have some vascular surgery and there were complications. They're keeping him sedated and helping him breathe. He's an older gentleman and his wife is missing him like crazy. I've been trying to help out as much as I can. I get behind with work though, not that I'm complaining.
Tuesday I lost my horse. I noticed he wasn't feeling well and called the vet. There wasn't anything they could do. It's been hard adjusting to his not being here
@mytwistedsoul
That is an incredible amount to be carrying in such a short period of time.
First, I'm so sorry to hear about your neighbor. It sounds like his wife is going through an incredibly difficult and uncertain time, and I'm sure your support means more to her than you realize. The fact that you're showing up for them, even while juggling your own responsibilities, speaks volumes about the kind of person you are.
And then, on top of all of that, losing your horse... my heart truly goes out to you. Horses become so much more than animals they become companions, sources of comfort, and part of our daily lives and routines. When they're suddenly gone, it's not just their absence we feel, but all the little moments that used to include them.
I can only imagine how strange and painful it must feel right now, especially when the loss is still so fresh. Grief has a way of showing up in unexpected moments, and adjusting takes time.
Please be gentle with yourself. You're supporting others through a crisis while grieving a significant loss of your own. That's a heavy emotional load for anyone to carry. Sending you and your neighbor's family lots of care and hoping for healing wherever it can be found.
@LexListens2025 Thank you for such a kind and thoughtful reply! It's been a long time since I've felt this seen and heard. 💜
*Forgiveness*
Adolf Hitler was human
Humans are flawed
Mistakes are forgivable
