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Newbie with a broken heart

User Profile: Mcrstn
Mcrstn July 12th, 2025

It's day one of my being alone/single after 8 years and 4 months of being in a relationship. I feel very lonely and I don't really have anyone to talk to - because he was my best friend. Classic, right? hahaha. Sooo, as normal as it is these days, I turned to... ChatGPT!! and it recommended 7cups. So I'm here now.

Hello everyone! I'm hopeful that I'll be able to heal with all of you guys. Hope ya'll have a wonderful day!

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User Profile: Tompanda
Tompanda July 12th, 2025

Hey @Mcrstn, we are actually having a very similar experience. My 5 year relationship ended 2 months ago (although because of me). She was my best (and only) friend, so I am very lonely now. I also turned to chatgpt to find ways to connect with people, it suggested 7 cups too... thinking that i can at least help other people helps me feel a bit less depressed. Hope it works for you too !

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 12th, 2025

@Mcrstn hi sweetie 💖I'm Lola 💖 welcome to 7 cups 💗 I'm so sorry about your relationship🙁 you must be so heartbroken right now😥 but don't worry we are all here for you, you don't have to go through this alone💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 I really hope you find all the support you deserve here 💖

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User Profile: Mcrstn
Mcrstn OP July 13th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 Hey Lola. Thank you so much, your comment means a lot to me. I'm still exploring the app and figuring it out hahaha. But I'm so happy to see everyone's comments. Giant hug received with teary eyes <3

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 13th, 2025

@Mcrstn 💖💖 let me know if there's anything I can do to help💖💖

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User Profile: charmingSky5972
charmingSky5972 July 12th, 2025

Welcome, and I am sorry that you are going through this. We would all love for you to stick around.

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User Profile: Mcrstn
Mcrstn OP July 13th, 2025

@charmingSky5972 Hey charmingsky! Thanks <3 Feeling good with this app so far, I'm so glad I found it. I think I'm sticking around <3

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User Profile: amiableApple1649
amiableApple1649 July 12th, 2025

Hello Mcrstn. Glad you're here. I've been where you are before. How are you coping?

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User Profile: Mcrstn
Mcrstn OP July 13th, 2025

@amiableApple1649 heyyy. Hmmm not good. But this is just how I expected it. I'm glad I found this app. Doing everything I can to think happier thoughts - and I've been cleaning a lot. hahaha

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User Profile: reservedOwl321
reservedOwl321 July 12th, 2025

@Mcrstn

Hugs!  I'm sorry about your break up.  I couldn't imagine as my husband and I are so close, I'd be in the same boat if anything happened to him. I'm sure it will take some time to process and start again. Welcome to the site.  7 cups is great. I'm pretty new too, but I'm glad you found your way here.  Hang in there!  💕

User Profile: Floweroffreedom
Floweroffreedom July 12th, 2025

@Mcrstn I have been there too. As lonely as you feel, you are not alone. In fact, this can be the start of you building a good network of friends and deepening non-romantic relationships. You can learn so much in those relationships that can help you heal, feel appreciated, and safe to be yourself.

User Profile: dumbvictim
dumbvictim July 12th, 2025

Chatgpt told me about this app too 😅

User Profile: 8Claire8
8Claire8 July 13th, 2025

I was also brought to this app though ChatGPT, it is funny to me so many other people were as well! I asked it for online places I can volunteer to help in mental health! I’m glad your here, it is truely a place of healing and growth 💗

User Profile: enchantingDaisy7570
enchantingDaisy7570 July 13th, 2025

@Mcrstn heyy, glad that you have found the right place. It isn’t an easy feeling to go through at the moment. Though I can’t help to make your pain go all away immediately, I’m here if you’re keen to chat, let it all out a little bit :)

User Profile: littleCurrent7762
littleCurrent7762 July 13th, 2025

@Mcrstn hi Love, if you need a friend, you can message me💙 its been a year since my long term relationship ended and it shattered me but girl I'm doing so much better now, healing takes time💜