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User Profile: Elanthe
Elanthe September 8th, 2025

Hi....I just wanted to try to finally talk to someone is all.  Maybe get some help with my loneliness and sexuality and extreme shyness problems.

I...I have trouble talking and am super awkward, so I am sorry......I just hope to be able to finally talk to someone and not be a bother.....

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow September 8th, 2025

@Elanthe Welcome! 💫💙 I wish you have a great time here 🍀 You're not alone, and you truly matter 💝 This is a safe space for you 🤍 Sending you lots of love 🐾❤️

User Profile: RobynTheBird
RobynTheBird September 8th, 2025

i can probably help with sexuality questions! and if you dont reach out to me (in which case i will NOT be offended) there is an lgbtq+ group you can join and explain your situation! (i am part of it so i might just help anyways) Also, there are listeners on here, specifically signed up to just listen to your problems and give you advice!

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User Profile: Elanthe
Elanthe OP September 22nd, 2025

I...I have been so scared to reach out. I have been so afraid of talking to people. I am always alone so I... I just dont know how to talk....sorry I am rambling. I am just confused. I don't understand sexuality at all and I cry about it at night sometimes......omg sorry is that too much!!!....

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User Profile: RobynTheBird
RobynTheBird September 22nd, 2025

@Elanthe

heyo, it's perfectly all right to feel afraid! you don't need to know how to talk either, im here to understand and give you advice. Could you tell me what it is you dont really understand? im just trying to get more insight on who you are/what you need, so i can give you the best advice i can!

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User Profile: RobynTheBird
RobynTheBird September 22nd, 2025

@Elanthe

i'd also like to add that we can go to the pen pal forum and have our own conversation alone if that'd make you feel more comfortable!

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User Profile: Elanthe
Elanthe OP September 27th, 2025

I would like that. I'm not really sure how to do that though.

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User Profile: sageEvans
sageEvans September 8th, 2025

Reach out to listers

User Profile: eyeofthetigerrr
eyeofthetigerrr September 8th, 2025

Feel free to share your mind. We have group chats, listeners, pen pals, therapists etc ready to help you out any time of day. Or you can put up posts just like this.

Don't bother about being awkward. We're all uniquely weird in someway😊

Welcome to cups my friend!!

User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon September 8th, 2025

@Elanthe Hello👋💗

There is absolutely no need to worry about awkwardness or anything because there is no judgement here on 7 cups 

Just be you and you definitely will find lots of love and companionship here 

User Profile: LexListens2025
LexListens2025 September 8th, 2025

@Elanthe

🌷✨ Hi sweet soul ✨🌷

First, I want to thank you for your courage in posting this 💌. Reaching out—especially when you’re feeling lonely, shy, or unsure—takes so much bravery. Please know, you are not a bother, not here and not ever 🌿. This space is made for you, and your voice deserves to be heard.

It’s completely okay to feel awkward or shy 🕊️. Many of us here know what it’s like to struggle with loneliness, to question parts of who we are, or to feel nervous about opening up. You are not alone in this. Every word you’ve shared here matters, and it’s a step toward connection 💕.

I hear you, and I want you to know that it’s okay to go slow 🌸. You don’t have to have all the answers right now, and you don’t have to be “perfect” when you share—your presence here is enough 🌙.

I’m proud of you for being here, for speaking up, and for giving yourself this chance to be supported 🌼. My messages are always open if you’d like to talk one-on-one 💌. You don’t have to carry your loneliness or your questions by yourself—I’m here with you, and so is this community.

You’re safe here 🌷✨.

With care and kindness,
Bubs 🌿

User Profile: GentlemanZG
GentlemanZG September 8th, 2025

@Elanthe

Hi, my name is Zan.

Nice to meet you.

Im sorry you feel this way, if must be really hard on you to have to carry all those feelings by your sefl.

Please know im open to talking, or just listening to everything you have going on.

I cant promise solutions but i can definitly promise a friendly shoulder for support.

Cant wait to hear from you.

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User Profile: Elanthe
Elanthe OP September 22nd, 2025

H....H...Hi.....I am sorry I am so awkward.

I just have been alone for so long....and I have not talked to anyone for even longer than that.

I....I .....I don't know what to say or do......I always feel trapped by conversations.

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User Profile: Bailey1989
Bailey1989 September 8th, 2025

@Elanthe Hey! I get what you're going through! I'd be happy to talk sometime!


User Profile: OnceHumanb42019
OnceHumanb42019 September 8th, 2025

Sexuality? I think you just need to let it come to you naturally. Make conversation if you can and be friends first and then over time if the chemistry is right thats when you can have that conversation. What issues have you had in the past?

User Profile: diligentBeechwood2906
diligentBeechwood2906 September 9th, 2025

@Elanthe there is no help here whatsoever