Something important
People who consistently disrespect you are teaching you who they are.
You are not obligated to keep giving them access just because the old you would have.
I agree. Sometimes it’s unexpected even. Some people try to always show who they are in the hopes of having success or something. I think it’s best to be happy with the life you have or work on bettering your life in a nice and cute way. Just saying.
@gamermomma I agree ^-^ yay to nice and cute ways 💖
It took a while to learn this, because for the longest time I was desperate to have people stay in my life. Now when people show who they really are, I believe them
@mytwistedsoul yess ^-^ 💗 Not everyone gets to stay
You don't always have a choice though in removing people, sometimes you are stuck dealing with them on a regular basis and that's where venting comes in useful..
And reminding yourself, you're a good person, doing your best and you have superb manners and wholesomeness, unlike some....
@ScrabbleBrain true and you are a really good person 💗
@BlueDarkAurora and you are warm and delightful too :) But like @Amanda84 I have my questionable moments too 😁
@BlueDarkAurora
I agree with you 💯
@friendlyLight1447
Much needed lines to read 😔 thanks
I suppose I need to love and respect myself and know I am better than that. Keep myself well wrapped in bubble and remember we have never walked in their shoes
@Grainneuimhaille That's beautiful 💗
Stress and constant severe chronic pain stress snowy nights me it continues to grow the relationship me and my dad is always a challenge for the end of the month March the start of April I have felt more more pain it’s like a injury it’s unhealthy I can’t even focus either it continues to frequently bother me
@dhabib Sending you love and positivity<3 That kind of pain isn't easy to handle but your strength will help you make it through this<3
@BlueDarkAurora ❤️❤️
@fossilfellow <3 :)
I just experienced this yesterday with a toxic 'friend'
It's sad. All the 'friends' I've had turned out to be toxic. Cut them off like weeds. The decent ones just remain purposed based acquaintances and not able to relate to me.
Like an idi0t ... I heard some good music. and i thought like a fool:
that given the world's problems ... human to human issues were so petty.
So in goodwill i said hi.
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But just on 2nd day ... she starts demanding accountablity for issues that happened, that she did to me before, in which she completely flipped the script as if i did everything (that she did).
So I told her since I am innocent have no need to e accountable for her fabrications.
Later that day i replied her for something, and she tells me "Don't message me now, family is here" I mean i am not bf right? so what's the big deal? I just completed my message and sent her.
That became a big deal for disrespecting her .... because she (reveals) that she badmouthed me to her family since 2022 - based on her working for me*
*Working for me?: during office hours she's doing free assistant service for some yoga master, even 3am in morning or etc...at the expense of My work which will have paid income!
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And you know the work I gave her?:
- Fill in 100 links of affiliate marketing potential from clickbank,
based on demand rating. Did first 5 for her (teaching: Took me < 5 mins)
Gave her one week to complete.
- Late night she does 5 or 10. on sparodic days.
- Then argues with me how difficult it is!
So I told her to quit and cut her off.
This she cried to her family and is that she refers to as 2022
You know what they told her??: To avoid people like me!
I mean who was taking advantage of her? Me or that cult yoga fellow??
So i told her keep her stories and family impression to herself. It was hurtful to be made villain for nothing when i only tried to do her good.
I cut her off. completely
Finito.
@Applehorse I'm sorry that happened but glad you stood up for yourself<3 We stand with our honest and positive intentions, that's all that matters.
Thank you.
I hope to find positive people from now on