Something important
People who consistently disrespect you are teaching you who they are.
You are not obligated to keep giving them access just because the old you would have.
@BlueDarkAurora
Such a clickbaityyyy title because when I first saw it, I thought you were gonna mention about yourself. 😛 🥰
Thanks for the reminder, it’s trueee, always gotta respect yourself enough to not let the same disrespect repeat towards you twice.
Limiting access not as a punishment for them, but as a necessary act of self-care for you.
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou aw haha it makes me smile that you'd want to know something about me 💖
And the way you described limits not as punishments but as necessary acts is so beautifully said.
I wanna know something about you too <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 That's really sweet of you 💗
@BlueDarkAurora
Yes because everything about you is *important*. 💖
Exactly <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou
@BlueDarkAurora @jesusredeemedme2425 such a cute gif!🥰🫂💖
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou 💖💜
@BlueDarkAurora thats what I choose being with my cousins having hugs needing to talk when necessary it’s needed this year I made my
security passwords more safe and secure I’m the only one has access to it
@dhabib That's an important step ^-^ And I hope you're always surrounded by kind people who show up for you whenever you need them 💗
@BlueDarkAurora
@Amanda84
@BlueDarkAurora
@peachThinker662
We might be careful with this. <3 Sometimes this is just a communication issue. And can have sources other then just them wanting to be dismissive of you. For those that do so intentionally, I agree wholeheartedly. It's a gift then. Sometimes there is reasons worth knowing, too. Most people do not do so without cause.
@Voidiov so true 💗 Good communication really does make a huge difference.
@BlueDarkAurora I have questions about this about the picture , yes I have felt distracted yeah by my dad is not okay it’s verbal emotional and mental psychological abuse
@dhabib sure ^-^ what's your question?
And I'm really sorry you had to go through something so tough 💗 It hurts even more when it comes from someone close.
@BlueDarkAurora yeah I did go through a lot that was tough it’s not a healthy thing it’s not okay it’s very unhealthy for me I struggle with stress muscle tension in my body happy upcoming Thanksgiving
@dhabib That's understandable 💗 Healing takes so much time, patience and gentleness with yourself. I'm wishing you so much strength.
Happy Thanksgiving 💗 Hope you have a warm and peaceful day.
@BlueDarkAurora I had a wonderful Thanksgiving thank you yes it does take time it’s the body the body of mine and myself needing plenty of rest and release tension stress anixety I stick with it it’s unhealthy for me it’s unhealthy for me to be with it
@dhabib I'm so glad to hear that you had a wonderful Thanksgiving 💗 And yes rest is really important. Sending you positive vibes 🌸
@BlueDarkAurora thanksgiving and Christmas was my wonderful for me
i needed lots of rest
my gynecology exam bothered me and Pain bothers me stress and anxiety fear and physical pain chest pain
September was the worst for me I had surgery
I still have a lot of mail To sent out
@dhabib I hope the new year is so so much better 💖 Sending you healing vibes, and good luck with the mails, you've got this!
@BlueDarkAurora the new year hurts for me im having upcoming issues with staff at the library my dad and phone
@dhabib I'm sorry that new year is a difficult time. Sometimes it brings a weird weight of things that are tough to face. But I hope you find a way around it, I hope it's not as bad at it seems. 💗
@BlueDarkAurora thank you it’s a long journey for me it takes time for me to heal part of the process it’s resting other is talking doing things slowly to me one at a time anxiety stress has been bothering me it’s very bad for me at some point I do not want to worsen end up in the hospital
@dhabib proud of you for knowing what works for you and for building the patience it takes to walk this journey. I'm sure it's not easy but you are doing it, even through all the pain and anxiety you make healing possible 💗
@BlueDarkAurora my doctors they did take care of me it’s meds , I also do not like pain their was once my blood pressure was low I was dehydrated fatigue and it was concerning to the nurse , gynecologist the doctor she knew I was stressed felt pain anixous
@BlueDarkAurora most of my life I continue to be affected by stress and Anixety physical pain and muscle tension happy April 1,2026 I have a lot I need to tell you just bare with me
@BlueDarkAurora for I Always need a full hours of rest it’s 8 hours my body is full of strength
This. I had to remove access because a friend misused the privilege.
@jesusredeemedme2425 I'm so proud of you for making that decision 💗
Thank you <3
@BlueDarkAuror
agree
@Kourt22
@BlueDarkAurora I have questions I need help what you posted what does that mean ?
@dhabib The gif? It's a train gif from some anime I think. I liked how the back and forth motion reminded me of the way we sometimes go back and forth with certain people.
@BlueDarkAurora
@lowlyEcho11
I really needed to hear this. Thank you 💙
@Fatimaishere 💖
Awwh thank you 🩷🫂🩷🫂