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What's your front wall of defence like?

User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora August 26th, 2025

We all build walls around ourselves but the front one is the first thing the world sees. Some build theirs towering and solid, while other decorate it in different aesthetics.

What does your front wall say about you? And how does it shape the way others see you before they know anything else? 

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User Profile: GoldenRuleJG
GoldenRuleJG August 29th, 2025
  1. Calm and composed

  2. Could not care less 🤣🤣🤣😂 doesn’t have emotions

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP August 30th, 2025

@GoldenRuleJG haha I think both can be a win ^-^ 💗

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User Profile: GoldenRuleJG
GoldenRuleJG August 30th, 2025

😂it’s 50/50 for sure!

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP August 30th, 2025

@GoldenRuleJG xD

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User Profile: GoldenRuleJG
GoldenRuleJG August 29th, 2025

This is a fantastic prompt to get people to reflect Aurora - well done!

Concise and impactful.

The graphic is peaceful which sets the tone really nicely x

Wishing you all a peaceful weekend

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP August 30th, 2025

@GoldenRuleJG Thank you so much 💖 💖 Hope you've been having a great weekend! 

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User Profile: GoldenRuleJG
GoldenRuleJG August 30th, 2025

Yes I am x thank you ☺️

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP August 30th, 2025

@GoldenRuleJG 💓

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User Profile: wonderfulComfort5057
wonderfulComfort5057 August 29th, 2025

My front wall of defense used to be people pleasing because if I'm so nice, no one will wrong me but I faced reality and saw that even if you are kind no matter how much, they will still be how unkind they are.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP August 30th, 2025

@wonderfulComfort5057 It's honestly sad how we can offer people so much kindness and they still find a way to wrong us. 

I hope you know that your kindness is seen, appreciated and it matters, even if not everyone deserves it 💗

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User Profile: Katty719
Katty719 September 9th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

The front wall for me might be someone who is hard to approach, because I seldom smile alone in public. It gives others the feeling that I am emotionless and indifferent.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP September 10th, 2025

@Katty719 I hope you meet people who take the time to stay and see beyond the surface 💗

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User Profile: violetpink66
violetpink66 September 11th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora Some people are solid by heart gotta cover it with new aesthetics because they don't have the tower , whereas some people build towers, make it strong with verbal things but lags by heart .

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP September 13th, 2025

@violetpink66 that makes so much sense 💗

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 September 14th, 2025

I carry myself well. I smile at strangers, friendly hello’s. Dress nicely.

I’ve received feedback as I thought you were a b when I first met you. This is hurtful.

I am one to have small talk but never really let anyone see my true self. I don’t trust easily. I’ve learned if you don’t give too much information, then they have nothing to use against you. I’ve learned if I keep myself quiet, then there’s no chance of being hurt with attachment. I deflect with humor. I keep myself occupied fully in effort to suppress emotions.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP September 15th, 2025

@peachThinker662 That's a really hurtful thing to say to someone 💗 It always baffles me how quickly people can toss away even the tiniest bit of consideration for others. And you're right, the less you give.. the less people have to use against you. Kinda sad ^^ 

I hope that you get to have safe spaces and people in your life where your heart doesn't feel the need to be so careful and where you can just be your true self 💕 

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 September 15th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

I would also love the comfort to be my true self. ❤️❤️

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP September 16th, 2025

@peachThinker662 💖💕

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