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If you met yourself as a stranger, what would you notice first?

User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 21st, 2025

Would it be the way you carry yourself, the way you speak or the energy you give off? And what part of you would you hope to stand out? 

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User Profile: AutismPremium
AutismPremium May 23rd, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora If I'm not talking to them, How they walk and look around tells me a lot about them. Plus, clothing is a good indicator of finances, style, interests, job, what they do in a day, how they respond to temperature and if they like certain ones (people who don't like the cold don't typically style winter wear and focus on layers), so plenty of stuff.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 25th, 2025

@AutismPremium That's so wonderful, to be able to understand so much just from one meeting. Really impressive :D

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User Profile: gracefulLove7527
gracefulLove7527 May 25th, 2025

The energy I give off- especially body language

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 25th, 2025

@gracefulLove7527 cool ^-^ what's your energy like? 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 25th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora I'd see a pigeon

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 25th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 Why a pigeon 🤔

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 26th, 2025

@Amanda84 I'm not sure😂😂😂 but it was better than my real answer

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 26th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 now I want to know :O

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 26th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 🤔

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 26th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 a pretty and majestic white feathered pigeon 

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User Profile: BastionKnight
BastionKnight May 25th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

If I met myself as a stranger, the first thing I would notice would be something along the lines of "Gosh, how odd that we look so much alike".

If I and I met in a queue for the cinema, I would probably be hoping they would not be sitting in front of me as I am 6ft 3. 

I would probably notice how odd their voice sounded. If I was then unlucky enough to hear my own voice recorded, my reaction would be something akin to "Do I really sound like that!?"

From there, I would probably get very suspicious that this person seemed to be wearing clothes similiar to those I own.....wait a minute!?, Those ARE the clothes I own! Which would make me wonder how this doppelganger had snuck into my home and availed himself of my wardrobe.

Overcome with the shear abundance of similarities, as I notice more and more, I would come to a startling conclusion. I must be a copy! But any existential dread i might momentarily experience would quickly evaporate when I realise that he must have all the same foibles, fears, and fantasies I have, and so I would smile inwardly, give a polite nod, and wish him well.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 26th, 2025

@BastionKnight I can totally see you surviving a horror movie xD You're so good at reading the room and picking up on a suspiciously similar looking person +_+ 

What you said at the end really made me smile 💚 We all know how gentle, kind and welcoming you are. If you ever met yourself as a stranger, you'd treat each other with the same warmth and care.

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing May 26th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora I would size myself up as a possible threat first, I usually do that lol

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 26th, 2025

@genericbeing That's interesting :O What do you usually do when you feel that someone might be a threat?

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing May 27th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora Nothing, I just stand ready

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 27th, 2025

@genericbeing 

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing May 30th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora I'm not sure what kitten means but its cute

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP June 17th, 2025

@genericbeing it stands ready just like you n_n 

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User Profile: genericbeing
genericbeing June 18th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora I thought I was being kitty punched lol 

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP June 19th, 2025

@genericbeing haha xD

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I would notice how I carry myself

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 26th, 2025

@compassionatePomegranate1577 That nice ^-^ Noticing how someone carries themselves helps us understand them better. 

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User Profile: RegalSpirit
RegalSpirit May 27th, 2025

I'd hope it's the vibe I give off. I think I'm a pretty friendly and outgoing person, I hope people notice that as soon as they talk to me.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP May 27th, 2025

@RegalSpirit You have a warm and friendly vibe ^-^ It's really kind of you to want people to feel that.

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User Profile: Dooptydoo
Dooptydoo June 4th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora they'd notice my vibe I'd like them to see through the mask

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP June 17th, 2025

@Dooptydoo I hope more people see through the mask. It's so healing to know someone understands all those parts we don't show or say ^-^

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow June 4th, 2025

I would probably notice the energy give off🫠 I love being carefree of everything and trying new things without judgement. Also probably my awkardness... It's pretty obvious *** most of the time... If there's something I would hope to stand out it would be personality ❤️

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP June 17th, 2025

@fossilfellow Being carefree and trying new things without judgement is such an amazing way to live life 💙 I hope you get to experience that kind of freedom more often. 

We're all just awkward fish out of the ocean, some just get better at pretending it's okay on land *-* You've got a sweet personality and I hope it shines as brightly as you want it to. 

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User Profile: GentleFish
GentleFish June 4th, 2025

The way I talk about myself and others. I always look at this in myself and everyone I meet.

You know how sometimes people say you wouldn't recognize yourself on the street?

It's not really true for people who have a sense of self.

It's my understanding that the more fragmented someone's sense of self is, the less they actually see themselves. Because fragments aren't what makes a person complete. It's the connection, the invisible barrier between these fragments, that make someone whole. And to be disconnected with any part of ourselves is to be incomplete.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora OP June 17th, 2025

@GentleFish :O A strong sense of self... That would be incredible to have. No matter how dark it gets outside, you'll always find a way back to yourself 💙

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